Juzyounme,
If no bonus xiong ah. Anyway my boss asked me when I will b going for maternity leave, then he says will give me bonus early, dunno how true, hope he keep his words.
As for baby first mth:
1) Buffet abt $300+(Order from Neo garden, they have discount for bb shower, food not bad,portion quite alot, table setting quite ok)
2) Bought some red eggs and ang ku kueh from Swee Heng cake shop, not very ex.
3) Bengawan solo cake vouchers $200, but lucky my sil sponsor as a gift
4) All in all, ang bao $$$ can cover all and got some "profit" lolz...
How much you 1 2 spend depends on you.