Juz,
Thought u will change ur mind after having ur son. Besides ur hubby already got a stable job now right. So re-consider for ur child sake.
On Tue, I have a bit of argument with my hubby while going out with my hubby. His fault. I din raise my voice but I am unhappy. My bb seems to able to sense the tension betweeen her parents. End up she is not her usual bubbly self. She also ignore my hubby, maybe she know it is her father fault.
This incident teach me a lesson. Even such a small argument also will make my daughter frown. Least to mention big quarrel. Hence, from now on, I decide never to quarrel or even have argument in front of my bb anymore.
I think bb will be most affected if the relationship between hubby n wife is not so good. Hence, Juz, try to re-consider for the good of ur son. For me, as long as my hubby good to my bb, still care for me n never fool around outside, I will not think of divorce even thought I cant tahan him at times. Haha...
As for contraception : I am currently unable to use any contraception method. I am thinking of IUD. But I cant install it as my mense is haywire. So my way to avoid pregnancy is NO SEX. Haha... So maybe if ur hubby refuse to wear condom, dun do it. Besides condom also not 100% foolproof.