(2008/11) November 2008

3jems
so cute... struggle to call u before she really knock out.. haa.. still shredding papers?

nut
u duno lian is ku niang? haha.. must jus input her name inside de!! like v long nv see Enne liao.. where is she?


jo
this time opposite ..lucas waited for u to come home..... i tot lucas slp early one.. he still not aslp when u reached home... the last time i reached home 11pm he still haven slp & still gimme 'face' lor... dun wan see me when i call him.. kns..
 


nut............. because.......... i exceed quota tis mth liao... Cannot every time go out, my mum will kill me! Even if she dun kill, my hubby will!

Alibababababab!!! What a bad idea u gave!
 
Snowy
yah. i'm quite happy to hear that T actually enter the school willing himself today... but when i hear him crying for "cant wait to leave the school" abit disappointed.. kakaka..
 
Darlest
e decision ultimately is still yours and hubby's.. jus tt whatever it is, dun regret it..

Strong message for those who dun wan #2 - CONDOMS 万岁!!!!
 
Lilian,
Sometime, It is better they dun, like mine, now always Mummy, Mummi, MUMMMIIII, so long I'm out of her sight.
 
u mommies still can see ur darlings at home even if u work/go home late. if i go out w friends or go pak tor w hubby, tat means we dun get to see K for the entire day! Not fair to K and my mum lor. So i try to limit my outings.

snnowy, haaha...! Your 2 Qs keep calling u ah?
 
Ah nianz
then wat is ur quota like ah? so nex time we can plan in advance u see.. Mine is once a week with frens.. once a week with hubby... And if hubby no wan pat tor with me.. then 1.5 with frens a week.. wakakakaa...

Ani
Ah T got improvement la.. at least he not cry all the way in school ma.. If nini like T go in no cry ony come out cry i already damnz happyz liaoz..
 
Ali,
It's already a very big milestone compared to the past few days. Next time you'll be hearing he is crying because he Doesn't want to leave school.

Hope mine can be like yours.


Peanut,
Condom is not 100% safe de. It will still result in pregnancy. At least that's how Q1 comes about.
 
snnowy
i know.. but how lei.. bobian wat.. i not having pill etc so condom is the most convenient.. If really gena then... swwwwaaaaaaaaaay lor..
 
snnowy
i know.. but how lei.. bobian wat.. i not having pill etc so condom is the most convenient.. If really gena then... swwwwaaaaaaaaaay lor..
 
Peanut,
eeehh... dun say nini like that leh. Once she's older you gotta slowly intro the concept of independance to her liaoz. Anyway... enjoy this clinging period. When they get bigger, they will ownself go out everyday and no want to stay home loh. That time will be another headache. hahahahah *lolz*


Lilian,
Yah... understand what you mean. Next time you let us know in advance when you can go outing with us. Cos tink most of us are flexi-arrangement.
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Alibaba,
Today no shredding... YEAH! But it's furniture shifting cos my office under-going overhaul tomorrow. *aarrgghh* Damn tiring to shift tons of files. Then all the dust and dirt flying around. *eekkss!!*
 
Ah nianz
yah la.. mayb hubby poke or MIL poke or Durex bribed by garment also poke poke...

Anyway i got something to announce la.. there'll be a new bb in my family next year liao..
 
Peanut/Lilian,
I dun know why it happened la. But condom is only 97% and we happen to fall into that 3% category lor.
Who would wanna poke hole in condom?? Not as if we are living with in-laws then they do smething to it.
 
ali,
My hb juz told mi tt when MIL pat him to sleep and he opened the door, Lucas thought it was mi so called for mi. But he fell asleep at 9+ before I reach home.

MIL told mi this morning he nap alot yesterday afternoon ... thats why middle of the nite, woke up and disturb mi cos sleep enuff liao.

Juz called my little boy ... ask him 'go nap .. be a good boy' .. then he followed mi say 'good boy', 'hehe' & 'nite nite'. Feel so happy nowadays when I can juz call him and talk to him for tt little short while!
 
3Jems,
Last time peanut said if she is preggy with #2, she would tell us till #2's 21 bday then invite us for the party, so..em...think it's Sil preggy bah.
 
peanut,
U really having #2? And that explains why u were so emotional and reminisce your young days with ur grandparents and eating so much lately?
 
haiz... i tink i've been bluffing too often so people dun get tricked by me liao.. hahahaa... wait 1 day i really pregnant also nobody believed.. Have to post video of my child birth then people will believe.. tsk tsk tsk..

my MIL taking in another bb to look after la.. she say since i no news then she'll go ahead accept other bb to look after lor.. kakaka..
 
snnowy
DID I EVER SAY THAT!!?!!??! WOW!!! i dont even remm saying that!! wahahhaa... ok la ok la.. make it earlier at 18th Bday..
 
snowy
he still not ready for potty.. always whine when we put him on the toilet bowl... & tried before.. pan sai abit on toilet bowl.. but after tat put on diaper he pan alot... i tink once they go to school or CC. they will gradually learn to potty train..

jo
oh mistaken.. so cute hor.. now he can respond when u talk to him on the phone.. sometimes T still dont respond to me on the phone leh. always listen liao.. & loook at the phone.. haha..
but yday i called home during the dinner.. he called me "papapa" alamak..

3jems
wah lao.. i tink soon u really gotta wash toilet liao...

nut
ur sis pregnant orh?!
 
nut, BASH YOU LA!
tot u really WAHHAAAA.... oh well don't cry wolf too often.

3gems, Your J3 v cute leh... i go back kiss and smell my Issac he only snore in my face leh... sigh... so disappointed. haha...
 
yah my gal also dunoe how to tok on the phone with me.. She'll jus stone at the other side of e call.. But when she play with my HP then she tok to her imaginary fren and keep saying e longest and sweetest vwei...... then go on and on with her bb nonsensical language..
 
*having sour plum and throws some to Fifi, Minky & Ali*

Likes to eat sour plum all the while .. but tt time when I was preggie, I hate it.
 
Ali,
Guess mine also not ready for potty bah. She will pee a little here and there and run away. No sign of guilty at all.


3Jems,
Dun worry hotel toilet very clean. easy to wasy, just spray water can liao. Hahaha.
Btw, ask you that time was J3's kebaya tailor made? Do they have it for lady? My friend is thinking of getting 1 for her Photoshot.
 
Peanut,
Wah kaoz... bluff us again. *bish* I tot you really pregie sssooo happy leh.


Alibaba, Peanut
hahahahha... no lah. Toilet no need to wash cos got cleaning auntie for that. But tink I'll be soon become coffee-soh already. Clean tables, empty trash and make kopi. *bang head*


Minky,
Tats why I say my J3 is my lil sunshine lor... sometimes the things that she does is so unexpected. But damn cute de lor. hahahahha... guess Issac dreaming of you lah... and his snore is like a acknowledgement. *lolz*
 
3jems
yah wont bluf already ahahhaa.. wait gena eaten by wolf no one come rescue me

good luck hor.. u hav another 2 weeks to zhor bor.. go for loooooooooooong lunch la!! come HBF lunch with me!
 
lian, my son also dunno how to call me mummy also la.. haha..

ali, my boy also dun respond to me on e phone.. he will just smile hahaa..

nut, next time i think we all really will dun believe u if u REALLY have #2.. ;p
 
3Jems
yah lately at nite my gal also little sunshine likes to stay in bed play with me and hubby.. but last nite she's like tunderstorm.. Dunoe issit she drank too much milk yest so tummy uncomfy.. MIL say she drank 7 bottles in total!! strange gal lei.. last time always struggle with her milk feed but now drink so much..
 
fifi..
after seeing ur post, i nearly wanna "bash" u up..haha..
i know u are trying to help but u make no sense at all.. watever u say abt me is all ur conjecture... but i dun blame u coz u duno me well & u are trying to help me..

my parents, they really old liao, comming to 70 years old... how can i bear to trouble them... i also dun think they have the energy to take care of my #1.
when im have my #1, i also havin my full time job with bad MS & 2 big LUMPS in my womb but of coz it is not as bad as my current MS. but at least, i still can take MC or leave when im having MS & rest at home. but now i cannot happy happy take MC or leave. & i also can rest after working hrs & during weekend, but now im taking care of my gal is 24 by 7, furthermore, i think my gal can sense the baby inside me coz she has been clingy on me like leeches & whiney too & keep flarin her tanturms.. she hardly do tat before..
and i also have serious anemic prob, im even suspect with thalassemias disease when i having my test during my 1st pregnancy.
now.. without food & rest, i nearly pass out quite a fews time..

i didnt cook except my gal's food. everytime, i cook her food, it make me even want to puke but i have no choice, my gal need to eat. i did order tingkat for myself but watever i eat, i still puke. eat cereal, i puke, eat fruits, i puke, eat chocolate bar, i puke, eat bread, i puke.. there's nothing i dun puke..

Peanut. ya..u are rite.. my horrible MS really make me negative abt my pregnancy...
my gal sometimes is a shy baby.
she dun follow my parents at all.. even though my gal see my parents once every week, she still not very close to them, she also dun like my parents to carry her & everytime when she is at my parents house, she need to warm up before she start playing with my parents..
but i think my gal see ppl one... coz sometimes, she willingly to let strangers carry & play with her.. she love to interact with my newphew too..
 
afternoon mummies...work from home tolay, tired :p

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to miss the steamboat last night.. glad that u all enjoy... got jia ba ba is it? So whose tummy bigger? ali, fifi, minky or ahnut?
 
Liv,
Can email to me the amount and your account details. My email is [email protected]. Thanks...
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Peanut,
I also wanna go HBF leh... but now kena banned from going out. Somemore go that area... cannot cannot. Too many of our clients are located there. Scarly my boss tink I'm up to funni biz. hahahahahah...

Waahh... Good that your gal is drinking more milk wor. Can take this chance to fatten her up lil bit. My dad always says he wants to build 'reserves' on J3. *faintz* hahahaha... so I said no need liaoz. All the reserves are going to her tum tum.
 
eerr... someone was asking me about J3's Kebaya? It's made to measure. I bot the material from Melaka then bring back to SG and find tailor. Your friend can try Joo Chiat complex. There got 2 shops specialising in Nonya Kebaya. Tink on Level 3.
 
ali,
Wanna have gathering again with mummies and their kids before u deliver? I cant imagine u bringing two kids out next time ... keke.
 
darlest..
I can understand your feeling.. horrible ms.. made me so depressed and quite 'regretted' to get pregnant that time.. dun eat anything also puke and all remedies do not work at all (Dr Wong's pill only work for a while).

Get urself occupied ba, then u won't think so much abt it.. somehow it worked for me.. and no point forcing urself to eat if really no appetite, bloated and puking will make u even more miserable..

Dr Wong told me that for 1st Trimester, baby does not need any nutrients from our body yet..

Try fruits, fruit juice... I kindof survive on these during first second months..

Must think positive first .. no matter what ur decision is.
 
Kiki
in descending order:

1. Ali
2. Fifi
3. Minky
4. Peanut
5. Jo
6. 3Jems
7. Liv
8. Lucia (Tallest but e flatest...) damnz...
 
Darlest,

I know how you feel.. really not easy. But then we are talking about a life here.

Talking about MS, I had that when I preggie with all my 3 princesses too. Had to continue do housework (washing, ironing, mopping, cleaning, laundry, everything), take care of #1, cook for her, settle my and hub's dinner, etc. Worse... 6-months of these was all done whilst I was in a foregin land. So means I also had to bring #1 to supermarkets, parks, doctor's check-up all myself. When back to SG, I continue all by myself cos hub was busying looking for job. Yes... all this was also done with me having MS. So I had lots of plastic bags all over the house and in the car on standby.

As for confinement lady, I never had this luxury for all my 3 births. From the time I brought baby #1 till #3 home, I took care of all my babies mainly by myself. Though I must credit my hub for helping out lots and lots. Worse I never had the luxury of confinement period... where you can just sleep and enjoy baby (except for #3). I still take care of entire housework, care for #1 and everything else. Even whilst pain from the stitches and what nots.

So I know exactly what you are feeling. Right now it's a sense of hopelessness. Like you are no longer in control of the situation. Take a deep breath. Weight your pros and cons. Once you make up your mind, no problems is insurmountable.

Talking about Thalassemia... I have that too. But I learnt to live with it. Actually the condition does not have a huge impact unless yours is the Thalessmia major where daily blood transfusion is required. Yes I do feel more tired and lethargic. But I find ways to perk myself up.

When I all alone without family support, who can I count on? Nobody was there! I had to pick-up the pieces and move on. The child is not to blame. We canot have our 'fun' then 'throw' away the child just because of these inconveniences. A mommy is all about sacrifices! You sacrifice your life... your $$$... everything for the sake of your child.

Hope I'm not too harsh... but just sharing with you what it took me to get where I am today. The road was full of potholes and bumps, winds and mazes. But I did it! And I can now look back with pride and say... "I DID IT!"
 


ali
Hee hee hee, xin ku anot? how much weight u put on this time ah? My tummy almost can't be measured using my ikea measurement tape liao..
 

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