Peanut,
My gal only let mi, hubby and my parents carry. The other day, hubby aunty carried her and sit in dinning area, her tears just keep dropping and they are crystal big. When she saw me then she wailed out so loud, so poor thing.
My MIL also same, always say bb not sleepy dun force her, dun want to eat, dun force her. But they never think if bb can do everything when cranky then they are independant liao. Like my #1, whenever we pop over to her hse, she will be busy playing till no nap, no proper dinner. When we reached home, she can get so cranky tt she can tear the hse down. In the end, I'm the only one left to pacify her.