snnowy, i didnt hear my MIL make any such comments.
But i can see from her eyes/face that she feels sad that my girl dun let her carry.
Even if she say those not-so-nice comments, i wouldn't give a damn, cos she's not the one waking up in t mid of night feed my girl milk, or chg her diapers.
ah nut, my girl let 8 person carry. hehehe...