Gd Morning, ladies.
Yoyosan,
I've booked my CL last week. Questions, I ask during the interview.
1) How old are you? How many kids?
I prefer 42-50. If you get a 60+ CL, she may complain tired, body aching and her health may not be able to take it. See if she can take care of baby for no. of kids.
2) The dishes you will cook during confinement?
She should be saying pig kidney soup, black chicken, wine chicken..some standard confinement dishes. Red dates tea and pao shen tea for daily drink. 1st day discharge from hospital, she need to prepare shen1 hua4 soup for you to clear the blood.
3) What stuff to prepare and when? What to buy?
For example, how much red dates (1kg), black dates, pao shen, rice wine (6 bottles), 1 bott DOM, 26 pkts of herbs for bathing, etc.
4) How much deposit? Payment terms?
Normally placed deposit of $200-$300, to pay remaining balance on the last day. Give CL 1 ang pow on the 1st day of wk and 1 on the last day of work. Not very good if pay her in the middle of the wk and last day cos she told me she oso dun want to be accused of stealing $ from our homes during her employment. Standard rate is $1800 for malaysia CL.
5) In case she cannot make it, is there any replacement or the arrangement like?
What if delivery date clashes with other mummies?
CL needs to arrange another alternative for another CL to come.
For my CL take turns with another CL. She also mentioned, she can't do continously as is too tiring. Maybe CL A take up for Jan, Mar, May, Jul etc and CL B take up Feb, Apr, Jun, Aug etc.
6) How does she(malaysian) come to your house? Need to pick her from Queen street bus terminal or where, else give her your address to come herself.
My CL arrange to take taxi from JB and directly reach my house downstairs.
7) Renewal of entry permit, how? Need to chop passport every 14 days?
Get CL to apply for 28 days entry permit.
8) How to inform CL date to come?
Once you deliver, you can check with doc when can discharge (normally 2 days for norm delivery and 3 days of csection). Just inform CL to come on the day you discharge afternoon like 3pm. Normally, discharge from hospital is around 12pm.
9) CL chores include...
For me, I ask for taking care of baby, mother, food for me and hubby, basic cleaning of house like sweeping and mopping, washing clothes for me, baby and hubby. I leave to her if she wants to hand wash or machine wash.
10) Buying meat, vegies etc.
Bring CL to market/NTUC and let her choose, then hubby pays for it.
How I know if she's good or not?
This from word of mouth. Try to get recommendation from mummies who has used the CL before.
I got mine from my hubby's colleague wife who has delivered in Jan.
U need to inform her if you intend to breast feed and you go for normal delivery or csection? Food you dun take like beef, frog etc so tat she can make arrangement for her menu . I arrange baby to sleep with CL in another room. Inform her of the ppl in your hse if u r staying with inlaws, maid etc. Some CLs mind.
Yes, like Lilian mentioned ask if she need afternoon nap time etc or any special requests like she wants a separate room herself. My CL says she don't wash underwear, so need to prepare disposable panties for the 1mth :>
Sorry, for being so long winded
hui,
din spot brown spots on my left breast.
I am also look fwd to my next appt on 9 June to see Dr Wong. ;p