(2008/11) November 2008

Liv, just planning. haha.. Planning doesn't mean action now mah... I guess i am like Bear, need to plan ahead, and dislike sudden changes. How abt u?
 


Peanut,
They can play on their own... but cos their age gap is ttooo close, they also tend to squabble and bickers lots. Haiz. Tat's when got headache lor. *lolz*


Aly_nat,
oohh... Thanks so much for the invite. Tats sounds nice. Will be fun for them to get to know and play with each other. Let me check with my boss and see if can take leave or not. Will update you. Just in case, my email is - [email protected].
 
nut,
Yup that FIL's fren but is his elder bro who pass away. Whenever we go over, FIL's fren and his bro family will entertain us de. That uncle suffered from kidney problems for few yrs already .. have to do through dialysis everyday one.

I hope they shld be back by then cos MIL took urgent leave till next wednesday only.
 
Jo
oo.. as mentioned, worst case bring lucas along.. then he'll b the centre of attraction we'll take turns to look after him if he fusses which i doubt will happen la.. tsk tsk..
 
Jo
ooo... as mentioned worst case bring lucas along and he'll e our main centre of attention.. tsk tsk.. we'll take turns to look after him if he fusses which i doubt will happen anyway.. Or can u leave him with your mum until later then ur hubby go fetch him home?
 
Electric Toothbrush,
Any one using this? Any good brand to recommend? Tot of getting this for hub for his birthday prezzie. Ran out of ideas liaoz. *lolz*
 
dymples
damn.. i hav 1 philips electric toothbrush under my workdesk for almost 1 yr collect dust which i jus given to my colleague.. too bad.. otherwise u can save $$. hahaa..
 
Peanut,
Aiyohz... too slow. Toopid forum lah. I've been wanting to ask this question since Tuesday liaoz. *lolz* But is this Phillips brand good for toothbrush?
 
peanut,
Will see how when e day comes ... my hb gg on biz trip today and only return next Tuesday. HE wld definitely be busy at work till late or head to the gym next Wednesday.

Yah usually at home, when I'm having dinner, I will give him a little and let him eat on his own. After my dinner, he refuse to come down from his high chair de .. pinch on his food bit by bit. Yesterday also same situation .. I gotta tell him ok go wash hands le mummy bring u down for a walk .. (somemore) unwillingly come down and go wash hands. Then come out from the toilet only go get his shoes liao. Cant bluff him anymore and since I promise him to bring him down for a walk, I keep to my promise.
 
lian: me ah, haben plan.. but most prob will have #2 la.. jus dunno when only.. i dun want dragon coz scare too many bb that yr...
 
Jes..
wah ur webbie v kinky lei.. i shy...
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Jo,
Waahh... envy leh. Your Lucas is ssoo guai. Can sit quietly in high chair and eat. My J3 cannot stand being stuck for long in her high chair. Always try to be houdini and do her famous 'escape' act. *faintz* Can teach some tricks? I alredy tried food and toys. All work for a short while only then she becomes bored and wanna go down to play. How ah?
 
Peanut, Minky,
Aiyohz... headache whenever bring her out for makan leh. End up me and hub gotta take turns to eat and bring her for walk-walk. We tried to stop this in the beginning. But kena spoilt by the grandpa (aka my dad) lah. Become pampered princess liaoz. She scream only everyone gotta run to see to her. *faintz*


Fifi,
Oohhh... I love their chocolate banana cake. *yummy*
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dymples
oh oh oh.. yah forgot to mention.. if ur gal loves TV and have certain fav shows, you can buy a portable dvd player. Tt was wat i did.. brot it to Bintan trip and managed to hav some peaceful meals while she watch her shows on the player.. tsk tsk.. Not a v good habit i know but wat e heck..
 
Peanut,
hahahah... yah hor. Din tink about that. Good idea leh. But then hor.. I scared later #1 and #2 fight for it to watch their shows instead. KNS. Then gotta get 2 sets instead. *lolz* $$$$ flying away again.
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Liv,
*hi-5* Both hub's and my iPhones are to entertain my older gals during meal times and other times when we need them to 'sit quietly and entertain themselves'. Most of the games app downloaded are specially for them. But they end up playing my games like Tap Resort, Sally's Spa, Diner Dash, etc. hahahahah... Otherwise, I will use you-tube to 'play' their fav Barbie Princess shows. *lolz*
 
dymples
no lah.. get 1 1st to see if it works on ur gal.. and she needs to b interested in certain shows.. like my gal i know she loves wheel on e bus and some kids karaoke dvd so i'll play these for her.. If ur gal doens't pay attention to a show long enuf then also no point getting..
 
dymples: ya lor.. now the iTouch is like his liao.. but at least he is learning something la by playing those educational games hahaha
 
.... sobs... sobs.. sobs... im really really touched. thank u peanut, minky, olwen, dymples, lian, jes, soho & the rest of the mummies for the encouragement & support. im really glad to have u all with me. *hugs hugs* thank u for being here for me..

later i go & buy the test kit & test. update u all soon
 
True .. my boy sits quietly for extra meals with us. But when it comes to his usual meals, he isnt that patient though not tt bad as cartoons can keep him occupied for awhile ... and during milk feed, he is as bad ... refuse to drink milk .. somemore spoonfed since 3mths old till nw. No other kids beat him on tat except Maggie's. Haha.
 
nuts, K was a full-time spoonfed bb... now part-time liao. hehe
I dun wanna praise her, cos i pantang! Very scared she dun eat/drink. I tink all mummies here oso worry abt their kid's diet
 
yah.. pantang.. say here not in front of her also cannot.. sometimes think also cannot!! cos i gena few times liaoz!!

Wah raining big big now... -_- feel my mind drifting away...........................
 
Oh lian,
Didnt know K and L so good frens ...

nut,
bak kut teh and prawn noodle a bowl each is alot leh ... r u sure u are eating for urself or for two?

*prepares to get bashed up by nut* .. pls target my neck!
 
Hello mummies,
I'm back. Did not go anywhere but had a big busy time coping wif 2 sicky kids over the past 1 week+.

Q1 was down with flu, then followed be fever and cough that comes altogether and spread to Q2. The 2 sick kids can be as cranky and as whiney like anything else. Both's cough were so bad that they practically vomit every night. Past few nights worst, 1 vomit at 2am, had to clean, wash and change her, then another 1 throw up at 3.30. Poor mummy only had 2-3 hrs of sleep each night till I'm also down with fever and sore throat.


Lian,
You miss me arh? I also miss u & the rest.
Regarding your Qs, I think if you doesn't want a full time maid, you can consider sending #1 to fullday cc, place #2 aith ifc or nanny and get a part time leaner over and lock her with 3-5 hrs every sat(usually $10/= per hr).
But you'll need to source for a cc/ifc near yoru parents/relative place just in case you cant reach home on time. Just my 2 cents worth.


Peanut,
Then your gal is almost like my Q1. Super duper pantang. My mum was only asking me yesterday did I shoot off my mouth and commented on other's bb when I was preggy with her. Erm....*scratch head*
 
Soho,
Agree with nut, you can still afford to wait and try for another few month b4 considering IVF.


Darlest,
Get yourself a test kit and test 1st before concluding anything and deciding your next step.

If your family planner did include #2 then convinve yourself that the gift merely comes earlier than planned. Though an accident, but nevertheless, a happy accident.

Otherwise if you want to abort, does your family or religion allows? At the same time, will you be able to overcome yourself as the 1st obstacle?

What I meant was, if you want the baby, you must convince yourself to accept so that you'll not resent the bb/ resent hubby in time to come or when things gets difficult at time.(It is no joke looking after an active/whiney toddler when preggy esp when you are super not prepared) My stand is :a baby is always a bonus to a marriage. Never let it be an issue or in anyway affect r/ship with your hubby.
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Perhaps you want to share your concern with us here on why not #2?
Do speak to your hubby on this. Dun forget he also has a role in it too. Jia you
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Thanks mummies,
Q1 is slightly better after 3x to doc, Q2 still down. In fact it the 2nd time both was sick never did I expect it to be full force.
I'm so tired and ask for 24hr leave from boss. Boss rejected saying unless I can find replacement. I asked him "want to replace wife or not?"
 
Nut, u actually came all the way to where i work for lunch! wowo! so u eat full full nw v ZZzzz already la.. haha

Jo, u want to kena wack by Nut for saying she is with no. 2 ah...

Snnowy hope your kids get well soon.
Lian, u doing the phone list?
 
minky,
I'm prepared to be bashed up by her.

Feel like pack my stuffs and go home for a nap with my boy ... so sleepy now.
 
Jo, ya i guess u not the only one. haha..
n still have 2 hrs to go... so sleepy...

anyone knw of any yummy chocolate fudge cake?
 

minky,
I'm preparing to go off 15mins past 5 .. officially knock off at 5.30pm. But I come early so I will leave early.
 

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