(2008/11) November 2008


*yawnz*

how come so quiet here today ah?

lucia
me and hubby dun intend to have any 2nd bday celebration for my boy. maybe only bring my PIL out together for a meal and order a cake for my boy, thats all.
you planning a 2nd bday celebration for your gal?
 
somethings to share. some of my cambodia trip
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Hello mummies!!

Quite quiet here hor. My gal now is sleepin so i can sneak sumtime here to relax. Quite overwhelmed wit having two kids suddenly. The day i was discharged and went bk hm, i cant help but feeling sooooo sad. I haf no idea y. Suddenly juz felt sad and cried. After i let go, i felt much much better. Im glaf ive got a supportive family to tok to. Told my husband how i felt. Now after few days im a much happier person. Dun feel like goin bk to work. Juz felt like becomin a sahm. Hehe.

Olwen, yup2 ang moh name. Hehe. The second one is indonesian name. Eh u know wats his 2nd name? Its arwin. Like a variation name for irwin. Makciks doesnt know how to pronounce ayden so luckily we haf the 2nd name.

Darlest, ur gal has a very cute smile!!

Kiki, its like dat one. The other time. Ive already gotten a good maid but her medical test failed cos she got preg. She herself doesnt know tt cos her hub and herself tried for 8 yrs. Wat to do. Dun rush to get a replacement. Must find out whether the maid is gd. I forgot who i followed one methid from one mummy here. If maid not gd quickly send bk dun waste time, u will make urself more ' pekchek'.
 
Darlest, very long no ppl call me smart liaoz.. hehehe
Veri meaningful trip! Salute u too!

mummy2nia, hormones?

Lucia, nope, not planning any big celebration for 2YO. But cake is a must lah.
 
Hi moomummy: yup, thinking how to celebrate for my ger this coming Nov. Wanted to find a caterer that provides nice children theme setup. Any suggestion???

Hi mommy2nia: You are very fortunate to be SAHM, you are able to be with your children. Your precious and love ones whereas I have to miss my ger and battle the witches and goblins.
 
Currently keep thinking of the idea to be a SAHM. Told my hubby about it and he said go ahead unless I am willing to cut down on our current lifestyle. Hmmm…

The idea of SAHM never cross my mind and during my confinement period I dread staying at home. As my ger starts to grow, there are so many things that I wanted to teach and do with her but time is limited. I can only spend 2 ½ hrs at most with her during weekday, sometime even lesser if I have lesson after work. Sad… . Like today, I got class till 10pm….
 
Hi Darlest: Next time, if you have any more missionary trips and need stuffs for the children. Ping me and see if I could contribute in a small way ya.
 
Darlest: If there is a chance, I would like to bring my child for missionary work too. You are very lucky to get involved and this trip must be very enriching and meaningful for you.
 
SYDNEY : Sons are more likely to cheat their elderly parents out of money than daughters, according to an Australian study that indicates the financial abuse of seniors may be on the increase.

;P
Somehow i do agree with t study
 
<font color="0000ff">So angry with hubby, today's Brod appt for his jab, but I wanted him to take the 18m booster jab 1st instead of MMR but the nurse told him he's giving MMR &amp; yet hubby never call to inform me..

Had wanted Brod to go for MMR later..really feel soo pissed off with hubby..awaz not listening well to my advice..really #%$#%^$#^%$</font>
 
Morning...

Lilian,
I also agree. But I guess we have to leave $$ for ourselves instead of spending all on our kids. In case of bu4 xiao4 zi3 nu3.
 
Morning mummies. Me trapped in the rain at raffles. Rain so heavy.

Teeth brushing
mummies, thanks for sharing. My R dun like tooth paste. If I put tooth paste, she rejects more. Use cloth, she will bite my finger n it's sooo painful.

Olwen,
yup good for u that at least R is drinking well.
 
wtan, don't get angry la... MMR nt so bad actually.. after all he need to take it sooner or later.

yen, agree! keep the money for ourselves... don't expect the next generation to take care of us la...
 
morning mummies, bad rainy weather this morning, sky is extremely dark at my side...

bbzel
previously when V refused brush i oso never want to use cloth, dun wanna risk my finger kena bite, haha

yen
true lor, nowadays where got hope the kids will take care of us when we r old so we better ensure we hv some $$ for old age.

wtan
dun angry lah, guys are like tat wan, blur blur when comes to this type of thing.
 
talking abt brush teeth issac only like to eat the tooth paste nt so much of brushing... u all let your toddlers hold the tooth brush?
 
jes, yours nv bite the toothbrush? mine eat the tooth paste n bite on to the toothbrush instead of brushing his teeth...
 
minky, ya got bite last time when she refused brush, and if she ate the paste i oso satisfied liao cos at least the mouth not so stinky, haha
 
wtan,
Agree, men always blur blur. I have to remind my hubby also. Take wat jab oso not sure and I have to tell him when for which jab. Maybe men dun bother.

minky,
My boy oso bite the toothbrush but we never let him hold his toothbrush. Worry he poke his mouth or play with it.
 
Morningz!! yawn.. nice weather!! I woke up at 8.15!! Rushed like mad and left home 8.45 my rascal not even awoke by then.. rare.. tsk tsk...

Wtan
i can understand how u feel lor.. anyway u mean hubby din inform them which jab he's there for tts y doc decided for him? Or he mentioned boaster jab but doc gey kiang say shd giv MMR? Wah if its e latter then i'll really explode.. not at hubby but e clinic lei.. Btw u wan to delay becos of wat reason? some here are becos the kids stil not talking a lot so they waiting till 2 yrs..
 
morning!!

brushing: i let ethan hold his toothbrush since he 1 yr old haha.. he must have the toothpaste, he will pass me the toothpaste and ask me to open.. haha.. then he will follow me brushing but not thorough one la.. so sometimes i will brush for him.. depends on his mood, he will reject sometimes..

Injection: my boy has finished all the injections last mth.. Yesterday went for pneunococal jab.. at polyclinic.. nurse say 1 jab enuff.. then nurse say the next visit to the polyclinic will be 3 yrs old!!!
 
hi ladies..
thanks for ur replies..really appreciate it..

althou i know he still have to take it later on..but at least i can choose to let him go for individual jabs for MMR or just that individual jab for now..or even if i will hope to have him taking MMRV but at least all these can wait till i hv decided on later but let him go for booster jab 1st..

both my hubby &amp; the nurse are at fault here..

hubby for not paying attention to my arrangement for his jab today coz i told him last wk le..he kept saying bcoz at 1st it was me that will be gg with Brod for the jab therefore he didnt expect such to happen..

nurse to act-smart &amp; action by her own instinct when she never check my appt slot is actually for booster, NOT MMR..then can still push the blame to my hubby say he nver tell us wor + said even doc will give the MMR 1st, i asked her back who is the parent?? what is the appt fixed for??

althou the doc phoned me back, she can only tell me the jab has been given...she will only highlight this to the nurses to tell them to be more careful in future..

now i also not sure if i shd give him panadol or wait till he has fever..previously for those other jabs, we will feed him panadol 1st when he reached home just in case the fever will kicks in..i m in a blank state for now..pls bear with me and thanks for all once again..

sigh..cannot tke my mind off the whole incident..hubby can only question me hw come i want to ignore all docs/nurses advises to do booster 1st then MMR later..cry..
 
wtan, perhaps u can give him the panadol first focus on B instead of your hb... norm my pd will ask me to give panadol aft jab straight away.
 
wtan
tink the nurse is more at fault for acting smart, guess yr hub just thought they can't be wrong thats y lor.

if u worry yr boy might get fever, tink u can give him a dose of paracetamol 1st. usually after my gal's jabs, my PD will advise so, it's harmless but may jus prevent fever from kicking in. else perhaps u can call yr PD and double check.
 
injections,
do we need to get a cert after all the jabs are completed? My boy also completed all jabs except chickenpox and hep A.

Liv,
Only need 1 jab of pneunococal at 19mths?
I tot is 2 jabs before 2 yrs old?

wtan,
I hate MMR or MMRV jab. Cause high fever for my boy. Its the worst jab. Take gd care of Brod.
 
wtan
haiz.. u know tt day i asked to giv my gal boaster 1st and also told them i'll wait for couple of mths later then giv MMR.. e doc also like had a serious tok with me.. ask me if there's any particular reason why i wan to delay e jab.. I told him no particular reason jus feel like giving boaster 1st la and prefer to give her more rest b4 nex jab.. then he said ok he tot i'm worry abt autism and explain tt there is no scientific reason MMR causes that bla bla bla lor.. Then go out liao e nurse keep promoting MMR + chicken pox jab.. -_-
 
wtan,
Since ur boy has taken the jab then dun get bothered over it already. And better give panadol after his MMR jab.

In Mar after Lucas had his MMR jab, he was down with high fever and fake measles.
 
I thought fever for MMR only comes 5 days later? Give panadol now oso now use right?

nuts, I m sure my gal's PD will qn me abt why not giving MMR... But i tink they as doctor, they do have t responsibility to advise us.
Er, but not nurses... haha
 
Yen, ya 1 jab is enuff for polyclinic, actually i asked abt this mths ago, but the senior nurse kept telling me after 1 yr old is 1 jab.. i told her abt PD giving 2 jabs.. she say no, 1 jab after 1 yr old..
 


Yen, u can request from yr PD to give u the list of jabs taken, it's more for the purpose when the tods go to CC the school will request for this i tink.
 

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