<font color="aa00aa">mousebb,
no pls. dun use cane to toilet train. i think if the kid is ready. they will be ready to go w/o diaper. for example, Rachel only started toilet trained 2 mths ago. actually she was pretty ready when before she turned 3, last year. it was me who was not ready & lazy. whenever she told me she wants to "sshh...", I will replied her, "ok lor. sshh.. lor. you are wearing pamper mah."
it was her CC that enforced toilet trained on her. juz 2 mths ago, she came to me & told me "mummy, i dun want to wear diaper. i want to wear panty." i even asked her "are you sure?" she replied me "yes". so far no accident at all. but i did told her when we go out & during your sleeping time, is a must to put on diaper.</font>