Hi valnsw,
I feeling much better now. Actually my FIL put me to be in charge of finances cos he felt that my hubby doesn't know how to control his finances. Dat is also y my FIL was asking me why did i give him access to the money.. I should have been firm den he couldn't lend his fren. But my thinking is since he is out with his fren, i felt that he should have more cash and c/c with him just in case he needed money.
Haizz ..
part of the money was frm the c/c and the rest frm our joint acct. So do u think i should b upset.
I've told him my concerns but to him is tis is a small matter. N since his fren will return him the money, i should just take it as nothin happen. Somehow or rather, he can't seems to understand that wat i want is basic respect frm him.
Guess men in a way is still kinda MCP dats y although we mayb saying the same things as their frens, their frens words will always sound more logical n convincing than ours.hehe..
Anyway, thanks, i feeling better,just wanna concentrate on my baby.