Dearest July_mummies,
Thank you soooo much for all your listening ear and console. I feel so much better..Sometimes, I feel strangers are so much better than old long friends. Or so-called good friends that we used to call each other.
On the other hand, I feel bad about coming in to talk abt sad things and dun have time to chat with you all. I just back from work a month ago and then need to prepare for my China trip which was last week.
I will try my best to come in more often to chat and know more friends.
Yes, I spoke to one of my friend who is a professional counsellor cum hypnosis. Has arranged with her to see her next week. Hope it will be better after that. Meanwhile, she said that it will be good if I can get NEW friends. In 2 benefits, to nourish my life with new friends as we share new experiences and also widen our contacts. I think about it and I think it is really good idea.
Just a brief introduction abt myself...I gave birth in 5th July at TMC by Jocelyn Wong but happened her dad passed away so another lady took over. It is my 2nd kid-baby girl. She is very adorable and the dad love her so much. I am also happy in a way that the dad is more hands-on this round. BUT the only thing is that he dun dare to clean her private part after she shit. Changing her is fine but not touching her below part. My silly husband...
My baby girl is very sweet as compared to the brother. She can sleep longer hrs compared to him. He has to latch on for many hours and when I removed, he will cry.
I am still breastfeeding my elest boy during night. He was so happy that when he realised that mummy milk came back. But hor, I feel a bit strange as he is so big already. However, I dun want to force him to wean off. He promised that he will wean off on his 4th birthday.
Also, any mummies still breastfeeding and need milk??
I know you all are having a pot luck party tomorrow. Too bad that it is too last minute that I feel so embarrassed to join. I will join the next time when I am mentally stable. Have great fun ok!