Morning Ladies!
Wow BabyJO,
Congrates!!! Waiting to see ya baby pics...
TF,
My baby's cord also round the neck. Scary rite? Nowadays my visits to gynae I damn stress. Stress about weight, baby, and everytime come back with surprises. Later today going for Gynae again. Sigh... But today might be my last prenatal visit liao. In fact my gynae expecting me to pop before I see him today. Haha...
Catcus,
My hubby sometimes if you don't voice your unhappiness, he like wood wood kind dunno what I am feeling one... To him he's used to his parents nonsense, and his parents also act nice to me when he is ard. But tell me different things when hubby not ard. This is the challenging part...
I dunno I got tell you before or not? My MIL came to me one day when hubby not ard. Asked me how much I earning and how much I give my parents. Then after that she said I shouldn't be giving money back home since I'm married into their family, instead I SHOULD HELP contribute to this family.
Then I went to tell hubby. Hubby confronted her. She denied it and said I'm very evil and sowing discord between her and her son. Then hubby believed them. I very angry and insisted that she did. Then Hubby asked me if I'd dare to swear by what I said, I said I dare... So hubby know I'm serious, then he asked his mum to swear, his mum no choice then confessed. No apolgy from her. Then start her Drama. She threatened to commit suicide and said hubby nowadays listen to wife and not mother anymore etc. Then cry and shout and do all sort of things...
I damn stress man... Den Father in law also another one who twist his words one. Like he talked to me, I told him things from hubby and my quarrel(Stupid of me to trust him last time!). He on the spot said my hubby don't know how to be someone's hubby, never think for wife etc. Then after tt he go tell my hubby I'm unreasonable wife etc... Can u imagine that??? When hubby quarreled wif me, he told me even his dad said I unreasonable, I was like huh? Then I told him his dad told me otherwise... So now u see how hypocrite my PILs can be, that's why I hated them so much.
The way they spend hubby's money. The way they treated me throughout this pregnancy and dunno what they said to their relatives, all of them came to me tell me I very lucky to have such nice PILs... Phui! They did nothing loh. INstead causing me danger and unhappiness. I so tempted to ask those relatives why they said I'm lucky, then tell them the way I was being treated at home...