(2008/06) June 2008
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Ellysia,
am going to get 1 bedded room, same as my first pregnancy. So, i'm not sure is't ok to bring my girl, just turning 1 yr old by then, staying with us there over night. you hear any of your friend bringing kids staying over night before??
Or shall i call MAH and ask, see whether they allow or not?
am going to get 1 bedded room, same as my first pregnancy. So, i'm not sure is't ok to bring my girl, just turning 1 yr old by then, staying with us there over night. you hear any of your friend bringing kids staying over night before??
Or shall i call MAH and ask, see whether they allow or not?
Morning ladies..
Anyone facing piles problem?
Ellysia,
tink my piles prob getting worst..told hb yest i wan go for OP to remove them away after my ML..
Bizznow,
hee..900gs..but free one can use lor =D....next mth then i buy 1 tin to standby lor =D.
aprilmum,
hee...My bb just 34wks today, i will start my coconut at 37wks lor cos now dun dare to drink yet scare bb comes out too early =D..
kelcqi,
tks ger...hv to try massaging your fingers lor...I experience this at times when i woke up esp...
Lyke,
Ur story is really encouraging lor =D...tks for sharing..
Anyone facing piles problem?
Ellysia,
tink my piles prob getting worst..told hb yest i wan go for OP to remove them away after my ML..
Bizznow,
hee..900gs..but free one can use lor =D....next mth then i buy 1 tin to standby lor =D.
aprilmum,
hee...My bb just 34wks today, i will start my coconut at 37wks lor cos now dun dare to drink yet scare bb comes out too early =D..
kelcqi,
tks ger...hv to try massaging your fingers lor...I experience this at times when i woke up esp...
Lyke,
Ur story is really encouraging lor =D...tks for sharing..
bizznow,
I duno wor...haven go check out FM prices yet cos been staying at home these 2wks =D..
ioio,
can't push back cos bery sore...I applied e cream which gynae gave me lor...Ate vege and take 2 types of fruit but still like that..haiz..
Can understand lor cos that time before i on HL, feet also swell til bery pain..I always tell the gers here, hb maasage my feet for me til i cry cos really bery bery painful lor...
All,
Anyone can advise me, i duno whether to BF my bb during the nite anot..but if wan to BF her, then hv to carry her to my room, but will disturb hb lor..but if dun carry her to the room, then MIL will be sleeping in e same room as bb lor...hmm...me still haven tot of a gd way yet wor...
I duno wor...haven go check out FM prices yet cos been staying at home these 2wks =D..
ioio,
can't push back cos bery sore...I applied e cream which gynae gave me lor...Ate vege and take 2 types of fruit but still like that..haiz..
Can understand lor cos that time before i on HL, feet also swell til bery pain..I always tell the gers here, hb maasage my feet for me til i cry cos really bery bery painful lor...
All,
Anyone can advise me, i duno whether to BF my bb during the nite anot..but if wan to BF her, then hv to carry her to my room, but will disturb hb lor..but if dun carry her to the room, then MIL will be sleeping in e same room as bb lor...hmm...me still haven tot of a gd way yet wor...
mummies, anyone feel upset when pp dont give seats to you? tis morn, i am Q ing rite in front of the bus and two ladies still squeeze in in front of me.. feel quite sad at times.. i also always see that no pp give up their seat old pp.. think we r really in lack of moral education.. sometime i feel paisey myself if i really got to stand beside someone.. as I think i got some kind of "sleeping spells" they will close their eyes n fall asleep when seeing me.. ;p
feifei...
hv u seen a doc for your piles? i had piles when i was carrying my #1... i had to put suppository in and the piles became smaller and less painful. frankly, no use going for op to remove piles, cos they will come back again.
on my gynae's advice, i hv been taking duphalac daily to come alleviate my constipation problem. it can be bgt off the shelves at pharmacies. i take abt 10-15ml once a day after breakfast.
http://www.duphalac.com/patienten/productinformation/0,998,10297-2-0,00.htm
hv u seen a doc for your piles? i had piles when i was carrying my #1... i had to put suppository in and the piles became smaller and less painful. frankly, no use going for op to remove piles, cos they will come back again.
on my gynae's advice, i hv been taking duphalac daily to come alleviate my constipation problem. it can be bgt off the shelves at pharmacies. i take abt 10-15ml once a day after breakfast.
http://www.duphalac.com/patienten/productinformation/0,998,10297-2-0,00.htm
feliciarosey
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ioio,
U r not alone. Yesterday i was standing right near the train door and facing all the seats place. The first seat was a lady in her early 40 kua, was so 'engrossed' in reading her book and dare not take up her head. Then next to her is a Bangladesh(maybe) guy, take a look at me and continue chatting with his standing friend. The 3rd seat is a indian lady, keep trying to peek at me, dont dare to do it directly.
In the end i can only wait ppl to go down at CCK only i'm able to get the seat. And the 1st lady actually go down at CCK and is only 3 stations away from JE, but she dont even offer me the seat. Anyhow, i had been expecting this since this is not teh 1st time.
U r not alone. Yesterday i was standing right near the train door and facing all the seats place. The first seat was a lady in her early 40 kua, was so 'engrossed' in reading her book and dare not take up her head. Then next to her is a Bangladesh(maybe) guy, take a look at me and continue chatting with his standing friend. The 3rd seat is a indian lady, keep trying to peek at me, dont dare to do it directly.
In the end i can only wait ppl to go down at CCK only i'm able to get the seat. And the 1st lady actually go down at CCK and is only 3 stations away from JE, but she dont even offer me the seat. Anyhow, i had been expecting this since this is not teh 1st time.
babycupid...
oh... wat u said sounds so familar...
i went thru exactly the same thing. at 1st, my mil insisted i go over to her place for confinement. but i told my hubby a straight no and there will be no grounds for reconsideration.
(1), i hv an elder boy. if i stay at her place, i will not get to see him often, and i do not wan him to feel neglected or create jealousy for the sibling.
(2) i hv to move sooo many things over to her place just for a period of one mth (my clothes and daily stuff, and baby's as well).
(3) i'm the ONE giving birth and not her, so she shld convenient me, and why shld it be the other way around?
let ur hubby know how u feel and convey them to her. worse comes to worse, u can engage a confinement lady, though at this point, it may be tough to find a good one already.
oh... wat u said sounds so familar...
(1), i hv an elder boy. if i stay at her place, i will not get to see him often, and i do not wan him to feel neglected or create jealousy for the sibling.
(2) i hv to move sooo many things over to her place just for a period of one mth (my clothes and daily stuff, and baby's as well).
(3) i'm the ONE giving birth and not her, so she shld convenient me, and why shld it be the other way around?
let ur hubby know how u feel and convey them to her. worse comes to worse, u can engage a confinement lady, though at this point, it may be tough to find a good one already.
felicia and ioio...
i was standing in front of a married couple who was sitting down today. they were so-called sleeping. they did open their eyes once in a while to tok to each other or talk on the hp... and i'm sure they saw me. but neither of them gave up their seats for me. wait till one day the wife gets preg, i hope she suffers. anyway, wat i usu do in such cases is when i squeeze thru to get down the train, i purposely step on their shoes and i dun even bother to say sori... and guess wat... i step on the husband's shoe this morning when getting down, and he can continue to sleep with a 70kg foot on his shoe.
i was standing in front of a married couple who was sitting down today. they were so-called sleeping. they did open their eyes once in a while to tok to each other or talk on the hp... and i'm sure they saw me. but neither of them gave up their seats for me. wait till one day the wife gets preg, i hope she suffers. anyway, wat i usu do in such cases is when i squeeze thru to get down the train, i purposely step on their shoes and i dun even bother to say sori... and guess wat... i step on the husband's shoe this morning when getting down, and he can continue to sleep with a 70kg foot on his shoe.
shycloud
Active Member
babycupid...
My MIL is also doing confinement for me...she also insisted to do it @ her place...her rationale: she has to cook dinner for whole family...so i reckon its easier for me to shift over...my place has bare min essentials for cooking...
it's better this way...cos i dun want their whole family to come over my place every night and mess everything up...heh
My MIL is also doing confinement for me...she also insisted to do it @ her place...her rationale: she has to cook dinner for whole family...so i reckon its easier for me to shift over...my place has bare min essentials for cooking...
it's better this way...cos i dun want their whole family to come over my place every night and mess everything up...heh
feliciarosey
Active Member
soyabean, u r so funny! hahaha....
i was laughing when i saw u wrote ' he can continue to sleep with a 70kg foot on his shoe'. muahaha......
i was laughing when i saw u wrote ' he can continue to sleep with a 70kg foot on his shoe'. muahaha......
ioio,
dont be too upset, there are all kinds of ppl, and i believe , if ladies, maybe they are not married or not a mummy yet, so she will nvr understand or let you have her seat, if men, they can nvr understand, unless their wife is pregnant or pregnant b4. just to cheer you up, there are also very nice ppl ard, i was in mrt once lately, and a young couple actually "reserve" the seat and ask me to sit down, when someone near them got up the seat
dont be too upset, there are all kinds of ppl, and i believe , if ladies, maybe they are not married or not a mummy yet, so she will nvr understand or let you have her seat, if men, they can nvr understand, unless their wife is pregnant or pregnant b4. just to cheer you up, there are also very nice ppl ard, i was in mrt once lately, and a young couple actually "reserve" the seat and ask me to sit down, when someone near them got up the seat
Ellysia,
U mean my piles? yest I went poo poo, tink got 2piles came out, so me cannot sit lor, hv to lie down...today still abit pain..
True hor, hmm..initinally i was tinking of asking my MIL to feed bb with EBM at nite...
ioio,
cool down ger, me also will get upset de..and angry..hee
ya lor, constipation..been having constipation even b4 preggi..but now everyday i will go toilet but scare piles come out..
Soysbean,
wats the duphalac?my gynae gave me those like fibregel type of fibre drink only wor...
U mean my piles? yest I went poo poo, tink got 2piles came out, so me cannot sit lor, hv to lie down...today still abit pain..
True hor, hmm..initinally i was tinking of asking my MIL to feed bb with EBM at nite...
ioio,
cool down ger, me also will get upset de..and angry..hee
ya lor, constipation..been having constipation even b4 preggi..but now everyday i will go toilet but scare piles come out..
Soysbean,
wats the duphalac?my gynae gave me those like fibregel type of fibre drink only wor...
feifei,
is your hb a very light sleeper?cos my hb didnt wake up at all for my 1st confinement, he said my mom was there, so no need to wake up, bb sleep with us at that time, it maybe quite "siong" for you, if bb sleep in another room, if you intend to bf, its better for bb to sleep with you, easier that way
is your hb a very light sleeper?cos my hb didnt wake up at all for my 1st confinement, he said my mom was there, so no need to wake up, bb sleep with us at that time, it maybe quite "siong" for you, if bb sleep in another room, if you intend to bf, its better for bb to sleep with you, easier that way
ellysia
Active Member
Tera,
I am the opposite, the tops i got from perfect mum can't last liao, those i get from spring still ok. I tink it is bec' i bot from perfect mum when i am 3-4mths preggy that time, so is an early stage and i dun forsee i will become this big.
soyabean,
Wah u so li hai can step on their feet.. me scare of fall down won't dare to do tat.
this morn on train someone give up her seat to me, heng.
I am the opposite, the tops i got from perfect mum can't last liao, those i get from spring still ok. I tink it is bec' i bot from perfect mum when i am 3-4mths preggy that time, so is an early stage and i dun forsee i will become this big.
soyabean,
Wah u so li hai can step on their feet.. me scare of fall down won't dare to do tat.
this morn on train someone give up her seat to me, heng.
feifei...
my gynae says fybogel type is not strong enough. duphalac is a concentrated liquid form of laxative.
felicia and ioio...
haha... i know i'm very evil... but i reali cant stand pple who obviously know i am there but dun give up their seats. i usu dun blame pple who are reading or sleeping when i board cos i know they reali do not know i am there.
ellysia...
i always make sure i am holding onto a rail or something b4 i step... haha...
my gynae says fybogel type is not strong enough. duphalac is a concentrated liquid form of laxative.
felicia and ioio...
haha... i know i'm very evil... but i reali cant stand pple who obviously know i am there but dun give up their seats. i usu dun blame pple who are reading or sleeping when i board cos i know they reali do not know i am there.
ellysia...
i always make sure i am holding onto a rail or something b4 i step... haha...
tinyfeet_tf
Active Member
Soyabean
Wahaha... I tot hw cum his feet weigh 70kg for a moment, then link to u n baby weight..hahaha
Wahaha... I tot hw cum his feet weigh 70kg for a moment, then link to u n baby weight..hahaha
tks mummies for sharing all ur experience on buses n train ;p
fei fei.. think go toilet when u got the feel n dont sit for too long trying hard to squeeze the toothpaste..
ellysia, i am on prenatal vits n extra dosage of iron.. so when my sees my gynae, he will always ask.. can poo poo or not? how many times? what colour.. ha ha...
i am not sure vitagens or milk works for ur gers but it works for me at times... esp i am a little lactose sensitive..
fei fei.. think go toilet when u got the feel n dont sit for too long trying hard to squeeze the toothpaste..
ellysia, i am on prenatal vits n extra dosage of iron.. so when my sees my gynae, he will always ask.. can poo poo or not? how many times? what colour.. ha ha...
i am not sure vitagens or milk works for ur gers but it works for me at times... esp i am a little lactose sensitive..
What an evening for me yesterday.
We got into an accident while on our way home. A taxi banged into us from behind and the impact caused our car to bang into the car in front of us.
It happened when our cars were stopped for red light lei, donno how come the taxi still can banged into us. Luckily I was belted up but could feel the impact, was a bit painful during the collison. Luckily baby still moving last night.
I so angry with the taxi driver, he refused to say anything after the accident happened. My hubby took photos and take down particulars, our car quite badly damaged and now is in the garage for repair. Arghhh .... takes about 1 week. Stupid taxi driver !!!
Moral of story : I was consider lucky to have belt up coz sometimes I will forget to belt
We got into an accident while on our way home. A taxi banged into us from behind and the impact caused our car to bang into the car in front of us.
It happened when our cars were stopped for red light lei, donno how come the taxi still can banged into us. Luckily I was belted up but could feel the impact, was a bit painful during the collison. Luckily baby still moving last night.
I so angry with the taxi driver, he refused to say anything after the accident happened. My hubby took photos and take down particulars, our car quite badly damaged and now is in the garage for repair. Arghhh .... takes about 1 week. Stupid taxi driver !!!
Moral of story : I was consider lucky to have belt up coz sometimes I will forget to belt
Fennie,
ya lor, i still duno how yet..maybe will try out 1 or 2 days lor
But one of my fren told me, 1st 2 wks, we try to sleep through e nite cos need to let our body rest lor..best not to wake up in the nite to do feeding...
Ellysia,
tink my piles can be big at times wor, sometimes small ones,..hiaz..tink will let my gynae know next wk..cos bery disturbing lor..Told my hb yest i wan to get rid of them as soon as my ML ends..hee
soyabean,
Oic..maybe next appt I ask whether she can give me that...But hor, after drinking that, hv laxative effects?
ya lor, i still duno how yet..maybe will try out 1 or 2 days lor
But one of my fren told me, 1st 2 wks, we try to sleep through e nite cos need to let our body rest lor..best not to wake up in the nite to do feeding...
Ellysia,
tink my piles can be big at times wor, sometimes small ones,..hiaz..tink will let my gynae know next wk..cos bery disturbing lor..Told my hb yest i wan to get rid of them as soon as my ML ends..hee
soyabean,
Oic..maybe next appt I ask whether she can give me that...But hor, after drinking that, hv laxative effects?
shycloud,
but wont u feel gao wey, uneasy, uncomfy over at mil plc? for my mil plc.. its a 4rm flat (fil, mil, 2 bros) during 1 mth confinement would haf myself, hubby, bb and maid.. 8 of us inside the hse.. without any aircon, internet access, scv, dvd player.. hw to survive when i cant go out.. hubby go to work.. no internet to surf.. post in forum.. chat in msn.. her reasons given are - her plc more convenient for her to get things.. (bishan junction 8 has everything).. she working parttime and relunctant to take leave for that whole mth.. (10mins walk workplce to home)..
soyabean,
same tot here.. i told my hubby already.. i asked him to tell his mum i feel more comfy to haf confinement at home.. if she finds it troublesome i will get my mum help.. worse come to worse train the maid and ask her cook for me..
but wont u feel gao wey, uneasy, uncomfy over at mil plc? for my mil plc.. its a 4rm flat (fil, mil, 2 bros) during 1 mth confinement would haf myself, hubby, bb and maid.. 8 of us inside the hse.. without any aircon, internet access, scv, dvd player.. hw to survive when i cant go out.. hubby go to work.. no internet to surf.. post in forum.. chat in msn.. her reasons given are - her plc more convenient for her to get things.. (bishan junction 8 has everything).. she working parttime and relunctant to take leave for that whole mth.. (10mins walk workplce to home)..
soyabean,
same tot here.. i told my hubby already.. i asked him to tell his mum i feel more comfy to haf confinement at home.. if she finds it troublesome i will get my mum help.. worse come to worse train the maid and ask her cook for me..
ellysia
Active Member
Mog,
I dun like to belt up but recently i also belt up cos due to the recent accident too.
Do you want to let dr wong check on u?
feifei,
I see.. for me if dun go toilet i can forget abt the piles..
last week even when i have normal bowels, the piles still cause pain then i apply medicine, later i can't sit straight until 20min when it become smaller.
I dun like to belt up but recently i also belt up cos due to the recent accident too.
Do you want to let dr wong check on u?
feifei,
I see.. for me if dun go toilet i can forget abt the piles..
last week even when i have normal bowels, the piles still cause pain then i apply medicine, later i can't sit straight until 20min when it become smaller.
feifei...
no laxative effect... but passing stools was much smoother. and hv to take everyday one... and it may take a couple of days b4 u see effect.
babycupid...
frankly... do as wat u wan... cos u will be the one going thru the post-natal blues, and to me, it wldnt help if i'm doing confinement in a place where i am not comfy in. we women will go thru alot of emotions adjustments after giving birth.
no laxative effect... but passing stools was much smoother. and hv to take everyday one... and it may take a couple of days b4 u see effect.
babycupid...
frankly... do as wat u wan... cos u will be the one going thru the post-natal blues, and to me, it wldnt help if i'm doing confinement in a place where i am not comfy in. we women will go thru alot of emotions adjustments after giving birth.
ellysia
Active Member
babycupid,
Yr MIL is doing confinement for u?
feifei,
My mum said 1st mth try not to rest as much as possible.
If u sleep with yr bb, u need to check on yr bb often even when not feeding?
Cos my mum said when bb is in 1st mth, need to check often on bb even when bb is not crying.
Yr MIL is doing confinement for u?
feifei,
My mum said 1st mth try not to rest as much as possible.
If u sleep with yr bb, u need to check on yr bb often even when not feeding?
Cos my mum said when bb is in 1st mth, need to check often on bb even when bb is not crying.
