(2008/06) June 2008
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Morning ladies...
It feels like a gloomy monday... feeling really xian. Fever comes on and off. Really lack of rest. I feel rather guilty taking MC though. Dun know if I'm nuts or what...
Crystal - Hope you are feeling better over the weekend. I think if getting a perm job is difficult, thengiving tuition is a good alternative cos it can be flexible (time wise). As for giving tuition, you don't need to teach higher levels. You can start with lower primary school levels. It shoudln't be too different from a couple of years ago. Keeping our minds active, and being in contact with young children can be good for our bbs too.
TF - Welcome to this thread!!
It feels like a gloomy monday... feeling really xian. Fever comes on and off. Really lack of rest. I feel rather guilty taking MC though. Dun know if I'm nuts or what...
Crystal - Hope you are feeling better over the weekend. I think if getting a perm job is difficult, thengiving tuition is a good alternative cos it can be flexible (time wise). As for giving tuition, you don't need to teach higher levels. You can start with lower primary school levels. It shoudln't be too different from a couple of years ago. Keeping our minds active, and being in contact with young children can be good for our bbs too.
TF - Welcome to this thread!!
Morningz Ladies..
Welcomz TF..we haf gt 2 tinyfeet here..
Cactus,
Me too..still feeling so sick..sat went to gynae & he ask me..aiyo..y sick again..nt enuff rest izzit..haha..coz i juz recover 2 wks ago and after tt sick again..
So happy to c my bb again..nw 7cm..and gynae say me nw 13th wk ++ liao..so this wk shld b 14wks..i tot i this wk is 13th wk..based on last 2 scan cal..And mine may be a boyboy..but nt 100% confirm..gotta wait few wks more can confirm liao..
I tot i by 14th wk MS wil subside..Seem like this morning i feeling worse than last wk..this morning totally no appetite & giddness cm back again..anyone same like me..14th wk liao MS stil so bad..Haiz~~
Welcomz TF..we haf gt 2 tinyfeet here..
Cactus,
Me too..still feeling so sick..sat went to gynae & he ask me..aiyo..y sick again..nt enuff rest izzit..haha..coz i juz recover 2 wks ago and after tt sick again..
So happy to c my bb again..nw 7cm..and gynae say me nw 13th wk ++ liao..so this wk shld b 14wks..i tot i this wk is 13th wk..based on last 2 scan cal..And mine may be a boyboy..but nt 100% confirm..gotta wait few wks more can confirm liao..
I tot i by 14th wk MS wil subside..Seem like this morning i feeling worse than last wk..this morning totally no appetite & giddness cm back again..anyone same like me..14th wk liao MS stil so bad..Haiz~~
Chelz..
Jialat rite..y the supplement u eat wil cause u to vomit? Or u drink too much water liao?? I realise tt whenever i feel nauseaous & drink water, i wil confirm vomit one..
Me nw taking so many medicine..folic acid, vitamins, flu medicine, cough syrup & antibiotics..I haf been taking medicine since i pregnant..like sickly patient..ask my gynae whether eat so many medicine wil affect bb nt..he say no as all r safe for bb..
Jialat rite..y the supplement u eat wil cause u to vomit? Or u drink too much water liao?? I realise tt whenever i feel nauseaous & drink water, i wil confirm vomit one..
Me nw taking so many medicine..folic acid, vitamins, flu medicine, cough syrup & antibiotics..I haf been taking medicine since i pregnant..like sickly patient..ask my gynae whether eat so many medicine wil affect bb nt..he say no as all r safe for bb..
Has any MTB experienced on and off fever ah? A doctor I saw told me it's the flu but I dun have much runny nose, and no sore throat either. just feeling very tired and once in a while, very hot. I was feeling very warm shortly after conceiving but I think I got used to that feeling... this is much worse than the initial warmth I felt. I read that when bb grows, our circulatory system will be up and running and we'd feel warmer than usual. I'm not sure if this is the reason that I'm feeling hot. any one has the same experience to share?
crystal~07
Active Member
Morning ladies, it is Monday again!!!
Ellysia: will try as u suggest on the P/T jobs. Maybe I reai dun put in my professional & uni certification then. See if it helps. Will probably start job search proper ad-hoc in jan n if lucky can land something after CNY cos I be away in AU in Jan. I suggest better check wif yur family doc or yur gynae abt ulcer cream over counter cos I rather err on side of caution. Sometime dunno if any of those cream would ve adverse effect on us or bb now.
Ha ellysia, I always know my hbs head now when he tries to be playful n touch my breasts, I knock his head. Yes, it hurts for me as well. Seem to be ultra sensitive now. Then when he kenna knocked, he will pretend to saying my tummy n says poor hammy, next time u come out, daddy buy u a helmet ok? Cos yur mummy got will knock yur head next time u want to drink milk.. ARrrrggggg..
Juliet: so m I, was discussing wif hb over wkend on me being SAHM but not ve +ve cos he knows I cant do it for long. I m one of those who need a career to feel a sense of self-worth, at least for all these yrs. Moreover, if I become SAHM & do oni P/T, our family income will dwindle drastically in e long-run.
Elaine: yup, e guys dunno wat we go thru in preg. Hb gives me a long lecture on y I shouldnt induce so early, etc etc. I told him tat he doesnt understand how I feel. Rite now, e earlier I get tis over n done wif, the better I feel.
Kelchq, by all means let off all yur frus here. Bottle up no good for u n bb. Can u n hb rent a rm elsewhere? Maybe even a small studio flat type also can, then at least ve some privacy n u dun ve to bear wif all these nonsense from yur ILs? My hb also know I come here n write abt his mum n stuff like tat, I even show him wat I type but I think guys dun bother one lar. They know we dunno who each other r in person mah, so they also dun care.
Ellysia: will try as u suggest on the P/T jobs. Maybe I reai dun put in my professional & uni certification then. See if it helps. Will probably start job search proper ad-hoc in jan n if lucky can land something after CNY cos I be away in AU in Jan. I suggest better check wif yur family doc or yur gynae abt ulcer cream over counter cos I rather err on side of caution. Sometime dunno if any of those cream would ve adverse effect on us or bb now.
Ha ellysia, I always know my hbs head now when he tries to be playful n touch my breasts, I knock his head. Yes, it hurts for me as well. Seem to be ultra sensitive now. Then when he kenna knocked, he will pretend to saying my tummy n says poor hammy, next time u come out, daddy buy u a helmet ok? Cos yur mummy got will knock yur head next time u want to drink milk.. ARrrrggggg..
Juliet: so m I, was discussing wif hb over wkend on me being SAHM but not ve +ve cos he knows I cant do it for long. I m one of those who need a career to feel a sense of self-worth, at least for all these yrs. Moreover, if I become SAHM & do oni P/T, our family income will dwindle drastically in e long-run.
Elaine: yup, e guys dunno wat we go thru in preg. Hb gives me a long lecture on y I shouldnt induce so early, etc etc. I told him tat he doesnt understand how I feel. Rite now, e earlier I get tis over n done wif, the better I feel.
Kelchq, by all means let off all yur frus here. Bottle up no good for u n bb. Can u n hb rent a rm elsewhere? Maybe even a small studio flat type also can, then at least ve some privacy n u dun ve to bear wif all these nonsense from yur ILs? My hb also know I come here n write abt his mum n stuff like tat, I even show him wat I type but I think guys dun bother one lar. They know we dunno who each other r in person mah, so they also dun care.
crystal~07
Active Member
Morning ladies, it is Monday again!!!
Ellysia: will try as u suggest on the P/T jobs. Maybe I reai dun put in my professional & uni certification then. See if it helps. Will probably start job search proper ad-hoc in jan n if lucky can land something after CNY cos I be away in AU in Jan. I suggest better check wif yur family doc or yur gynae abt ulcer cream over counter cos I rather err on side of caution. Sometime dunno if any of those cream would ve adverse effect on us or bb now.
Ha ellysia, I always know my hbs head now when he tries to be playful n touch my breasts, I knock his head. Yes, it hurts for me as well. Seem to be ultra sensitive now. Then when he kenna knocked, he will pretend to saying my tummy n says poor hammy, next time u come out, daddy buy u a helmet ok? Cos yur mummy got will knock yur head next time u want to drink milk.. ARrrrggggg..
Juliet: so m I, was discussing wif hb over wkend on me being SAHM but not ve +ve cos he knows I cant do it for long. I m one of those who need a career to feel a sense of self-worth, at least for all these yrs. Moreover, if I become SAHM & do oni P/T, our family income will dwindle drastically in e long-run.
Elaine: yup, e guys dunno wat we go thru in preg. Hb gives me a long lecture on y I shouldnt induce so early, etc etc. I told him tat he doesnt understand how I feel. Rite now, e earlier I get tis over n done wif, the better I feel.
Kelchq, by all means let off all yur frus here. Bottle up no good for u n bb. Can u n hb rent a rm elsewhere? Maybe even a small studio flat type also can, then at least ve some privacy n u dun ve to bear wif all these nonsense from yur ILs? My hb also know I come here n write abt his mum n stuff like tat, I even show him wat I type but I think guys dun bother one lar. They know we dunno who each other r in person mah, so they also dun care.
Ellysia: will try as u suggest on the P/T jobs. Maybe I reai dun put in my professional & uni certification then. See if it helps. Will probably start job search proper ad-hoc in jan n if lucky can land something after CNY cos I be away in AU in Jan. I suggest better check wif yur family doc or yur gynae abt ulcer cream over counter cos I rather err on side of caution. Sometime dunno if any of those cream would ve adverse effect on us or bb now.
Ha ellysia, I always know my hbs head now when he tries to be playful n touch my breasts, I knock his head. Yes, it hurts for me as well. Seem to be ultra sensitive now. Then when he kenna knocked, he will pretend to saying my tummy n says poor hammy, next time u come out, daddy buy u a helmet ok? Cos yur mummy got will knock yur head next time u want to drink milk.. ARrrrggggg..
Juliet: so m I, was discussing wif hb over wkend on me being SAHM but not ve +ve cos he knows I cant do it for long. I m one of those who need a career to feel a sense of self-worth, at least for all these yrs. Moreover, if I become SAHM & do oni P/T, our family income will dwindle drastically in e long-run.
Elaine: yup, e guys dunno wat we go thru in preg. Hb gives me a long lecture on y I shouldnt induce so early, etc etc. I told him tat he doesnt understand how I feel. Rite now, e earlier I get tis over n done wif, the better I feel.
Kelchq, by all means let off all yur frus here. Bottle up no good for u n bb. Can u n hb rent a rm elsewhere? Maybe even a small studio flat type also can, then at least ve some privacy n u dun ve to bear wif all these nonsense from yur ILs? My hb also know I come here n write abt his mum n stuff like tat, I even show him wat I type but I think guys dun bother one lar. They know we dunno who each other r in person mah, so they also dun care.
chelz
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twinky,
i'm so pity you there... if i'm you i'll rather bear for sick and not to take any medicine except vitamins.. my mummy always ask me to bear for headche.. she said antibiotics and fever medicine will effect our baby health. she said like that our baby in future may be very weak lo.. so i'm afraid what she said.. well, my mum total got 5 kids. so i believed her..
so u must drink more water and everyday must eat or drink aple/ orange. i'm at least one day one orange and one apple...
i'm so pity you there... if i'm you i'll rather bear for sick and not to take any medicine except vitamins.. my mummy always ask me to bear for headche.. she said antibiotics and fever medicine will effect our baby health. she said like that our baby in future may be very weak lo.. so i'm afraid what she said.. well, my mum total got 5 kids. so i believed her..
so u must drink more water and everyday must eat or drink aple/ orange. i'm at least one day one orange and one apple...
My breasts oso ultra sensitive..my breasts nw very swollen and nipple very pain if touch abit..so i dun allow my hubby to touch my breasts nw..too pain liao..
Lucky he understand & becoz of bb..he say he wil 'ren' lo..my sex drive went down drastically ever since pregnant..i think maybe partly due to my MS too..reali nt in the mood..oredi feeling so sick liao..who wil gt mood to do this..
Lucky he understand & becoz of bb..he say he wil 'ren' lo..my sex drive went down drastically ever since pregnant..i think maybe partly due to my MS too..reali nt in the mood..oredi feeling so sick liao..who wil gt mood to do this..
ladies, I think there's going to be a change in my EDD. It just recently occured to me that I remmebred the date of my LMP wrongly.. haha... so stupid right?!! If so, by calculation, my EDD shld be 22 June 08, instead of 25 June 08. And that means, the dating scan which I did at about week 8 is extremely accurate cos it dated the EDD to be 22 June 08! Now I need to remember to explain to my doctor at the next visit about the change in date of LMP.. haha.
crystal~07
Active Member
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crystal~07
Active Member
Welcome TF, was trying to PM you but yur account cannot accept PM-ing ley. u can speak to all e gers here cos they r all very friendly. U got my sms over e wkend?
Hi cactus: sian, had been down wif bad flu, sore throat, margarine n wats-not over the wkend. Jus make an appt to c my gynae tis pm for a consultation. If lucky, tis pm off n tomolo dun wan to come in oreadi. How abt yourself? Feeling better now? Hb back from biz trip oreadi rite? I remember u said tat he be back yds nite.
Hi cactus: sian, had been down wif bad flu, sore throat, margarine n wats-not over the wkend. Jus make an appt to c my gynae tis pm for a consultation. If lucky, tis pm off n tomolo dun wan to come in oreadi. How abt yourself? Feeling better now? Hb back from biz trip oreadi rite? I remember u said tat he be back yds nite.
Chelz..
Try not to take so much orange. Coz bb may haf alot of phlegm..alot of my elders told me tt..and i'm sensitive to orange too..if take abit..i wil cough like mad..
No choice..precious cough, i tried nt to take any moedicine and drink lots of fruit juices and eat apple everyday..but ended up cough stil the same & i cough til i over-strech my muscles near my left ribs (i wil feel pain when i cough or laugh)..tt's y my gynae say this time round, dun like last time wait until 3-4wks cough then go c him..and this time, if my cough dun subside by this thurs, i wil haf to go back & c him again..
My cough is reali bad..sometimes my hubby say i cough until i like gt TB..piangz..
Try not to take so much orange. Coz bb may haf alot of phlegm..alot of my elders told me tt..and i'm sensitive to orange too..if take abit..i wil cough like mad..
No choice..precious cough, i tried nt to take any moedicine and drink lots of fruit juices and eat apple everyday..but ended up cough stil the same & i cough til i over-strech my muscles near my left ribs (i wil feel pain when i cough or laugh)..tt's y my gynae say this time round, dun like last time wait until 3-4wks cough then go c him..and this time, if my cough dun subside by this thurs, i wil haf to go back & c him again..
My cough is reali bad..sometimes my hubby say i cough until i like gt TB..piangz..
ellysia
Active Member
Hi gals,
Let me update.. sat i just went to see gynae. Scan shows 13.5 weeks, 6.8cm and bb just kick his leg and wave his hands at us. Gynae say maybe is boy but 80% confirm only, waiting for 20 weeks scan to be sure. My 20 weeks scan is ored fix on Jan.
Took calcium, fish oil and Multi-vit tablets from gynae, also continue on duphaston. Gynae said i have a low placenta thus spotting may still continue.
Hi Kelcqi,
Ya i now dun remember what i have been tinking during that time, tink i am over stressed with studies and financial circumstances during my uni days, always v sad and cry of no reason.. and yet feel 'enjoying'. Its like tat depression can hit when we are not aware of it.
Yr hb is really v "guo fen"! Dun he feel 'dirty' since the bro's gf may also have discharge or watever on the bed wat. But anyway men dun feel the hygiene as wat we feel. I dunno if disease can be spread or wat but personal hygiene is impt esp now u are pregnant.
liew,
Me and hb cannot have sex cos i am still having the spotting. But also i feel with the breast changes, sometimes dun feel good when being touched. Just wonder whether u all feel the same or not.
Let me update.. sat i just went to see gynae. Scan shows 13.5 weeks, 6.8cm and bb just kick his leg and wave his hands at us. Gynae say maybe is boy but 80% confirm only, waiting for 20 weeks scan to be sure. My 20 weeks scan is ored fix on Jan.
Took calcium, fish oil and Multi-vit tablets from gynae, also continue on duphaston. Gynae said i have a low placenta thus spotting may still continue.
Hi Kelcqi,
Ya i now dun remember what i have been tinking during that time, tink i am over stressed with studies and financial circumstances during my uni days, always v sad and cry of no reason.. and yet feel 'enjoying'. Its like tat depression can hit when we are not aware of it.
Yr hb is really v "guo fen"! Dun he feel 'dirty' since the bro's gf may also have discharge or watever on the bed wat. But anyway men dun feel the hygiene as wat we feel. I dunno if disease can be spread or wat but personal hygiene is impt esp now u are pregnant.
liew,
Me and hb cannot have sex cos i am still having the spotting. But also i feel with the breast changes, sometimes dun feel good when being touched. Just wonder whether u all feel the same or not.
ellysia
Active Member
babycupid,
U know where is the AMK branch of tat shop? I hunt the whole AMK also cannot find.
Ored gave up and i bot some from theme maternity and spring. I tink i spent the most on maternity clothes. sigh.
Hi cactus,
Feeling temperature up and down is common. i been feeling this in week5 and6.. then later no changes until recently again. But the feeling is different from fever or fever due to cold. If u feel hot and cold at same time and shivering (i.e. outside hot inside cold), u probably have fever due to cold (i.e. u have cold and it develop into fever). Sometimes cold doesn't necessary need to have running nose.
U know where is the AMK branch of tat shop? I hunt the whole AMK also cannot find.
Ored gave up and i bot some from theme maternity and spring. I tink i spent the most on maternity clothes. sigh.
Hi cactus,
Feeling temperature up and down is common. i been feeling this in week5 and6.. then later no changes until recently again. But the feeling is different from fever or fever due to cold. If u feel hot and cold at same time and shivering (i.e. outside hot inside cold), u probably have fever due to cold (i.e. u have cold and it develop into fever). Sometimes cold doesn't necessary need to have running nose.
ellysia
Active Member
liew,
my MS disappear on week 11, it has come back on week 12+ but on and off and slight.
Yesterday when i take the vitamins first time, I vomit water out. Then i quickly eat food and okay liao.
So i suggest for those who have MS and need to take tablets, can try to eat food first then eat vits, dun eat on empty stomach. See if this works.
my MS disappear on week 11, it has come back on week 12+ but on and off and slight.
Yesterday when i take the vitamins first time, I vomit water out. Then i quickly eat food and okay liao.
So i suggest for those who have MS and need to take tablets, can try to eat food first then eat vits, dun eat on empty stomach. See if this works.
Hi Ellysia,
I dun know what I'm feeling loh... cos my eyelids feel very heavy too and I do feel hot and cold at the same time (like in fever). But I'm having a low grade fever.. always hovers around low 37 degrees.... so not taking medicine much. just drinking lots of water and watching what I eat.
I dun know what I'm feeling loh... cos my eyelids feel very heavy too and I do feel hot and cold at the same time (like in fever). But I'm having a low grade fever.. always hovers around low 37 degrees.... so not taking medicine much. just drinking lots of water and watching what I eat.
ellysia
Active Member
cactus,
What u feeling is v similar to my fever which i suffered some weeks ago. In the end, it turn out to be so bad that i shivered on bed during sleep. So i took panadol (1) twice and broke out a sweat and recovered. At first i dare not take, i control and suffered.
Later i told gynae and she said i shouldn't wait too long to treat fever cos the fever can be even more harming to bb than the medicine. I read in a book tat too high fever can cause damage to bb brain.
I suggest to treat fever early cos if it turn serious u have to eat antibiotics which is more harming to bb.
For me i have flu almost every day and it is driving me crazy. But i try to avoid eating medicine, only eat when in office if it obstruct me working.
What u feeling is v similar to my fever which i suffered some weeks ago. In the end, it turn out to be so bad that i shivered on bed during sleep. So i took panadol (1) twice and broke out a sweat and recovered. At first i dare not take, i control and suffered.
Later i told gynae and she said i shouldn't wait too long to treat fever cos the fever can be even more harming to bb than the medicine. I read in a book tat too high fever can cause damage to bb brain.
I suggest to treat fever early cos if it turn serious u have to eat antibiotics which is more harming to bb.
For me i have flu almost every day and it is driving me crazy. But i try to avoid eating medicine, only eat when in office if it obstruct me working.
chelz
Member
ellysia,
ya correct sweetie. but somehow i don feel reject or disappointed my hubby. i only have some worry don know will hurt my bb or not only.. but to hubby, he quite attracted my body changes.. he said very sexy.. he was thought i enjoyed also.. but i nvr told him what i'm worry.(baby)
ya correct sweetie. but somehow i don feel reject or disappointed my hubby. i only have some worry don know will hurt my bb or not only.. but to hubby, he quite attracted my body changes.. he said very sexy.. he was thought i enjoyed also.. but i nvr told him what i'm worry.(baby)
ellysia
Active Member
liew,
Maybe.. v strange headache. Make me feel painful for 2 hrs.
Actually won't hurt the bb unless u bleed during sex. Gynae say if bleed sometimes may be bec hurt placenta then not so good. Else if no bleed shd be fine. Cos i have low placenta, gynae advise against sex.. so we dun have any since i am preggy.. then cos hb have bad snore probs and i am getting light sleep (due to peeing in middle of night etc) so he dare not sleep with me.
Btw on C-section, how many c-section can do? If do c-section, the next bb cannot be natural born?
Maybe.. v strange headache. Make me feel painful for 2 hrs.
Actually won't hurt the bb unless u bleed during sex. Gynae say if bleed sometimes may be bec hurt placenta then not so good. Else if no bleed shd be fine. Cos i have low placenta, gynae advise against sex.. so we dun have any since i am preggy.. then cos hb have bad snore probs and i am getting light sleep (due to peeing in middle of night etc) so he dare not sleep with me.
Btw on C-section, how many c-section can do? If do c-section, the next bb cannot be natural born?
Hello mummies, been missing for quite a while since MS is bad and getting very bad headaches.
Just went for OSCAR last Sat, baby at 6cm on Week 12. Baby quite co-operative but keep jumping while the radiographer trying to take measurement.
Just to check if the radiographer will pass you the pics coz mine didn't pass me any.
Just went for OSCAR last Sat, baby at 6cm on Week 12. Baby quite co-operative but keep jumping while the radiographer trying to take measurement.
Just to check if the radiographer will pass you the pics coz mine didn't pass me any.
Hi Ellysia,
I've heard of someone having 4 children, all through c-section. 2 of my aunts had 3 children, all through c-section - their deliveries were all in the 1980s.I think medical technology is more advanced now.. so perhaps up to 3 or 4 or even more. I think it depends on woman to woman too.
Most doctors these days encourage normal delivery after c-section. But also depends. If woman's body is too small to let big baby pass through (baby big due to genes), then every delivery may be c-section liao.
The only prob with c-section is you need to space out your pregnancies. I think doctors advice a certain waiting period (9 months? 1 year? I can't recall) between delivery by c-section and next pregnancy. Cos our body needs to let the wound heal. If pregnant too quick, stiches may burst.
I've heard of someone having 4 children, all through c-section. 2 of my aunts had 3 children, all through c-section - their deliveries were all in the 1980s.I think medical technology is more advanced now.. so perhaps up to 3 or 4 or even more. I think it depends on woman to woman too.
Most doctors these days encourage normal delivery after c-section. But also depends. If woman's body is too small to let big baby pass through (baby big due to genes), then every delivery may be c-section liao.
The only prob with c-section is you need to space out your pregnancies. I think doctors advice a certain waiting period (9 months? 1 year? I can't recall) between delivery by c-section and next pregnancy. Cos our body needs to let the wound heal. If pregnant too quick, stiches may burst.
