Jo,
wahaha, your boy has a secret storage! Ya, really don’t know what go in their head.
My boy ah, actually that incident I see him cry until so teary, I felt quite bad, but that time, if I gave in, then I don’t how to reinforce my message later. So heartache, I told myself, after #2 arrive, I need to be sensitive to how #1 feels, because the attention will be on #2 naturally.
The next day during sleeping time, he didn’t throw tamtrum, it seems my insistence did work and it seems he accepted that I didn’t want to carry him. So on that 2nd night while tucking him to bed, I sweet talked him. Now mommy leg pain pain (“pregnant” what a big word for little tot!) cannot bao bao, but can hug hug. You need to feel secure that you’ll always be mommy’s #1 no matter what…. My hubby hear liao, also said so touching …. Wahaha…
Jo and ting, re eating beef during pregnancy gives bb better immunity system, I also heard of. Some also said durian will make bb very strong, because very bu3. So I think I took too much durian in my 1st preg, plus i also did crave for it. So my boy was 3.695kg at birth. That was too big, mommy very xin ku. My boy, so far quite strong, *touch wood*, not sure if it's got anything to do with beef or durian, or simply he is not yet in cc, where kids are more prone to virus...