littleprincesses
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veronica - thank God, so far my 2 older kids are fine with bb Val. Guess we hv prepared no 1 well for her to accept another sister. We got her involved since i discovered i was preggie up to today we hv her participate in baby Val's activities like changing diapers, let her 'look after' baby while we eat, etc. Make her feel important. AS for no 2, she is the bo chap type. as long can watch tv can already. We try to spend some one to one time with each child every other day. So that they will not feel we hv neglected them (n turn their unhappiness toward bb Val). Having said that, it's tough to give equal time to all...i do feel guilty sometimes in neglecting my no 2 ...but i'm glad they are coping with bb Val's presence
no sibbling rivalry yet..
as for yr nieces, SIL n FIL - must deal or talk to them with care. If can't get thru...ask DH to talk, better that way
as for yr nieces, SIL n FIL - must deal or talk to them with care. If can't get thru...ask DH to talk, better that way