Hi hi everyone. Thanks for all the info.
I probably cant join you gals this sat. Enjoy the gathering... the next time ya?
My ex-gynae is hmmm... cant make it. Imagine in an emergency situation, you call your gynae and he has just left the clinic told you,"oh it is after working hours already, even if you come to me now, i also cant attend to you." He even said that even if the baby has any problems, it is FATED!!!" Goodness!!!! How could a doc / medical practitioner even before attending to the patient and say that the baby is not fated to come to this world? At least should take a look at my situation first.
I think after that, he is worried that it is due to the medication that he applied on me that caused a complications, he called me back and wanted me to be warded. But since he already said that even if we see him, there is nothing he can do to help me and baby. Both my HB and me decided to go KKH instead of to see him at Mt A.
After that, KKH attended to me and gave me and bb a good check. Then luckily it is not serious. So we left the hospital relieved. what my gynae said over the phone, is not true. And, he said no one could help me to check the problem immediately. But KKH checked immediately and concluded that bb and I were fine.
we really had KKH staff and docs to thank for this incident.
Okie, so the above is short synopsis of what happened. But all in all, we are disappointed and angry that without checking, he made concluding comments that bb is fated not to come to this world and that there is nothing he could do. When we told him that we will like to go KKH, he was so happy and relieved and ask us to go KKH (like shoving us aside).
I shared this with my colleages and they were all very furious. I guessed at that point of time, my HB and I was very worried, thinking that we might really lose our bb.
take care celine, try to seek for a 2nd opinion. It is always good to understand more.