xiaozhu- if u not going to get help, get to see anyone can offer advise.. jgal mentioned the water part, my SIL also drink warm red dates water (i need to confirm with her again) not the normal water. for wat reasons i don know. if food wise u not fussy type is good, if not need to check with caterer can tailor a bit to your taste or not.
hee hee for me, i don take pork since young so strictly no pork when CL cook. even now pregnant also no craving for it.
i learnt my lesson, don believe that suffer more when give birth an pregnant later. but now i believe, see all the young mtb hv some much energy, go shopping, check out stroller... planning this and tat, excited over scan. all i want to do is sleep and rest. i don hv energy all the time. i have to force myself to go to work even through don feel well.
so during confinement time, i really want to recover fully if not old that time will be worse than now. this time round i be a good gal listen to all the old wife tales.