Yutong,
My maid has been with me for 5 yrs. recenlty just cought her stealing my money and my mum jewelery. Before working with me, she work for my hubby's aunties for more than 5 yrs too. i hv not confront her abt stealing money cause she has done a good job in my house. she cook really well..so i think i just keep my mouth shut at the moment as i still need her. cant imagine employ a new maid, start teaching her all over again and i scare those nw one normally miss home vr much and want to do funny things just to go back. sigh....
My maid vr good life also, i treat her well..she nap in the noon and watch tv after cook dinner. and once a while i let her go out. I think we cannot be too fierce also cause their r still human and they leave their family just to work here and find money. can tell her what's wrong with her job but in a good way, dun any how scold them or throw temper lor cause u wont know when they will strike back. scary....