Kelly I transferred fast fast cos intially i already wanted to order, but my hubby dilly dally thus i dont dare to commit to it cos he is always very slow in transferring the $. Finally got helper so i dashed out to transfer.
Tong Tong, I have 2 PD who told me to avoid... my baby no allergy, just taht they say best to avoid... *touch wood*
I think I am in same scenario as you. my parents in 50s still working... my IL hopeless, FIL almost torture my BB yesterday, she cried for help when he rock her so hard in the bouncer... i no eyes to see, so just hide in the study room, cos i sure i will flare up if i am outside... MIL too old also and she got no experience at all, everyday say she good life, all her 3 kids got maid to take care.... And dont need to say about hubby aunt.... terrible, play home politics, in front of me say one thing, in front of him say another, in front of IL say another... so end up all misundersatnding and unhappiness....
my own Ah Yi all have their own things... so also cant help...