Thanks everyone!
yup.. was a painful experience.
But its ok lah.. everything is finally over now just concentrate on bf and losing wt and coping with 2 , i think all these are more challenging.
Re: breastfeeding
I got some questions to ask mummies who are bf. i never latch on for Gwen cause she cant latch on well, for this boy ( no name yet, haha), he seem to be a bit better but still i think i am not doing it right. Some questions:
1) After latching on, i totally feel no difference to breast, still engorged leh so that means he is not taking much right?
2) He keep falling asleep on the breast leh and i have to relatch a few times to make sure he is sucking well, is that normal?
3) Is there such a thing as nipple too big and the babies cant latch, i suspect so for my case but i am not sure.
4) I will express after every latching and i still get the same amt on both breast, abt 40 ml per side after 3 hrs after 5 days , is that very little? So total abt 80 ml every 3-4 hrs. He is already taking 50 ml now every 3 hrs, quite big eater.
5) I feel upset that i cannot latch on, i feed ebm to satisfy his hunger although i will try to latch on b4 every feed. But its also very tiring to keep on latching on and he keep falling asleep and i can be feeding for like 1 hr and he still not full and then i have to pump and he needs to feed again, i am totally sleep deprived. Actually things will be easier if he takes the ebm at night but i feel upset and guilty that i cant direct feed him. How?
5) Any good lactation consultants to recommend ( Pauline, i remember u got a few?can share contacts and pxs?), i am going Mt A parent craft for consultation tmr, any idea what are the charges like for other consultants that comes to ur hse. Mt A charges $54 for 30 mins consultation.
Re: Jaundice/ see pd
Is there any simple test for jaundice at home like pressing and see how long the colour returns to normal? How long do we press?
#2 jaundice level was normal but somehow i feel he is very red and a bit yellowish now, then today was raining, no sun... cannot sun tan.
When are we suppose to return and see the pd? I cant remember what the pd told me. Is it after 1 week?