(2008/01) Jan 2008 MTBs

best part. ..cos she kept complaining her leg pain .. my hb wan her to rest at home next week. n oso dun agitate me further haha

jess, cannot go back lah.. go back the kids how? leave her to jagar them? no way. yday hb bz with installing prog for notebook ... n even told me off. i told him today "very impt to install ar? u got 3 working notebook at home liao. y nid 4th? dun do WILL DIE AR? yr dad ask u to do? ask him is laptop more impt den his granddaughter?" kns .. cos his dad keep nagging at him to install the prog for notebook, he did it without even thinking that not enuff manpower.
 


Kam,

I need not be full time SAHM cos my mil comes and help still on 2 days that I am working. So a bit of work wont make me feel so bored at times.

I am working as a Part time as PA so can earn some small income lor.. Good in the sense that I can have work and play with Eias on days I am not working. Only twice a week and sometime from home.. SO I enjoy it lor.

He treat me ok la.. but he can be boring at times too cos he sometimes say he cant pleas me enough la and also cant read my mind at times.. hahaha.. guess women are not easily pleased la but so far so good

you also.. have a very lving hubby yeaH?
 
Fern,
So nice to be proposed in Paris leh... Romantic... Your hubby so rich. Can pay for your airtix. Mine won't even pay for my bus fare.
 
Jess,
ya we didnt say "marriage is the gravetomb of love" for nothing.. :p

Mylvera,
is ur mil trying to make things difficult for u, coz u "confront" her?
 
Kyrstle,

Not rich la.. Happened that he was there for business trip so he need not pay for accomodation just my air tix.. so he paid for me and I flew there my own to meet him direclty at the airport over there and the proposal was done at Eifle tower.. Quite nice la but me paiseh also lah..He proposed when I was 24 and we got married at 25.. Yah
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Like that lor.. now.. no more Paris as all broke liao. hahaa
 
jess,

cannot ... tat side oso got 1 toddler. unless i can bring maid along which is impossible.. the 3 of a kind ppl in my hse refuse to do hsework one .. even my children's drawers nid me to pack!

luca,

she tinks i m making all these up. she kinda hates this #3. but it's true tat my left body is weak, even doc can tell the diff jz tat they cannot diagnose the cause. it's true tat aft every meal my body will turn cold immed ( i get my hb to feel everytime n he agrees). it's true that my blood count, haemoglobin is in a decreasing trend. all true but she dun buy it. my fil blamed us for my mil's pain and say it's cos of the mattress that we bot for her to z. we went out to buy her another mattress which costs us $250 jz now after seeing gynae. even my gynae says i nid plenty of rest but she wun buy it. think she is an attention seeker! n keep saying my #1 is attention seeker. PUI!
 
mylvera
damn jialat ur case.
ur FIL and her pakat one izit... still side her.
i think u shld faint in front of her. #3 also her grandchild wat, wats there to be jealous of.
u are sacrificing so much for the family and there she is, not helping.. adding on to ur probs....
 
mylvera,
ya i think u r right, she attractin attention by complainin this and that, so dat everybody has to give in to her, how unreasonable n childish of her! heck care her lar, no point wasting time tellin her anytink, obviously she aint gona believe it anyway.
rest more, if need to, lock urself in the room, or go out have a stroll to destress from all these nonsense from ur mil.
 
jess,

i tink this preg is the worst preg i ever been thro. i guess she dun like the idea tat i m getting a CL this time cos it shows she is not doing a good job previously n tat i m wasting her son's $ (esp now that he is jobless). what she doesnt know is that i have been paying for lots of things in my hse, the medical bills for my sons, etc etc. anyway, she will still tinks is being paid by her precious son n tat i m out to eat the family. n my previous confinement ... the vinegar pork trotters is to serve her mother's tummy not mine hor. duno who is doing confinement.. u tink i dare to let her do again?? my haemoglobin level is slow low that in 2006, immed aft i deliver #1 and b4 i went for the key hole surgery to remove my gall bladder (cos it was filled with stones), i required a blood transfusion b4 the hospital allow me to have that op. i did another blood test last yr to see the haemoglobin level n it was 11 only. norm is 12 and above. tis time it went down to 8.5 nia.

faint in front of her? haha tot i was admitted to hospital? but end up? more stress n work n black face! give up on her. thinking of sending all 3 to childcare/ infant care next yr n kick her out of my hse TOTALLY!

ya.. n i told hb i will not attend his porpor (my mil's mother) bday party in aug. SUE ME ! hahaa
 
mylvera
haha... try to send her home ba... find a gd reason for her to stay at her own house since she feels tat staying at ur place is so xinku....

tonite i go home help u think!!!!
 
krystle, ya lo, me trying to balance time with both my gals now. So not much time to browse through all the messages. My #1 super sticky now all of a sudden after mei mei came home, will do all kinds of tricks to get our attention.

My #2, super big eater but she takes her own sweet time. I latch but she machiam not enough. So trying my best now to get the milk flow going. Now quite pathetic. Each pump only slightly reaching 1oz for both sides nia. SIGH! Trying to do what I can to boost the milk flow. Now at night, if she not enough I got to rely on FM, else no need to sleep man.
 
wow...today got lots of posts...

MIL issues,
I dont have serious problems with my mil now cos we dont stay together anymore i suppose. we will go visit her perhaps like once a week or 1 in 2 weeks. to be honest, i dont have the feeling to treat mil as my own mum so i dont expect hubby to do the same to my mum. just maintain mutual respect and never cross my line of tolerance. then peace. normally, i complain to my mum only cos i dont dare to do so to hubby cos sometimes he will nag and even scold me lor. but if it concerns my boy...give no face liao. will sure tell hubby to relate the issue to mil.

Pixie,
rest well and take care ok. My cousin's hubby is also 1 filial son so she no matter how she complain, her hubby keep telling her to REN since she is moving out soon. but her fil and bil is giving her problems too. and she is preggie.
 
oh ya...my colleague down with fever and given 7 days MC. my office pple getting colds and pple sneezing around. scary. I just recovered from cold but i think i getting it again.
 
Thanks, Mylvera.
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You so poor thing, sigh, so much miscommunication with your ILs. Got maid to help them already, still keep complaining. Ask them to go home lar since MIL leg so pain. I think you, hubby and maid look after 3 of them better. Tiring but more peaceful. :p

Finally went to The Line just now, so many people there when we reached at 7pm. Hubby just took 2 plates, 1 of them is dessert and he's full liao. I took at least 4 plates of food. When the chef saw me taking 2 sticks of chicken satay. He said take more lar, he gestured towards my tummy. The one inside hungry you know. LOL.

Sadly no 25% discount tonight, only for National Day. But POSB/DBS card got 15% discount so better than nothing. Saw a family dinner with 4 daughters and 1 son in front of me. The gals are very pretty, the eldest is married and preggie like me. The other 3 gals (whom all look like the same age) brought their boyfriends. They even took a group photo together. Sigh, dreaming of the day when my gals will bring their bfs and we can go out for family dinner too. ;)

Hubby decided not to go to school tom (he's on MC these 2 days) after I complained that he doesn't want to spend time with me. Hopefully can watch a movie again. Hehe. ;)

Angelsky, beginning is like that somemore you just gave birth. Give yourself some time. Try and drink more hot liquids or soups half hour to 1 hour before pumping/latching. Massage your breasts with hot towel just before pumping. Should help improve milk flow.
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morning mummies!
going to fetch my boy liao...detour to vivo for a short while while coming back let him explore outside world while we buy tickets for a movie

so....who wants my enfagrow 1.8kg tins??!! jess???
 
Angelsky,
You just delivered so milk supply is not kicked in yet. Take it slowly lah or else if you stressed then milk supply will drop. If not enough, then supplement with FM. Nothing wrong with that lah.
 
Verene, my hubby’s colleague gotten 7 days MC too, and said suspect H1N1. my hubby got a bit of blocked nose and he got 1 day MC just now hehe. So he can sleep well today! Cuz he has been working late for past 2 weeks, think he not enuff rest. Haha, good that he can be at home to help me do laundry later liao .

You rest well too ok!!
 
Kitsune,
Wow, you are already thinking so far to picture your gals bringing bfs and going out for dinner. I sort of thought of it sometimes but the thought of my girl bringing her bf scared me somehow. Really scared she brings a Ah beng/Ah seng or good for nothing type to see me. I will faint leh. Now I truly understand why my parents were so worried for me when I brought my hubby home. Hahahaha... Coz hubby don't have that type of "goody" look and looked so rugged (he has a earstud on his left ear somemore....). My dad pulled me aside then and questioned me if he smokes. Hahahahaaa... In fact, hubby's personality is totally opp of his appearance. It took 2 years for my parents to realise that he is a good boy then.
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A bit pissed off with my gynae clinic just now.

Yesterday they called my mobile 4x in the afternoon but I missed their calls. When I realised, it was already 5.30pm and they have closed. Caused me to worry over the night coz I just did Hep B blood test last Fri during checkup and I thought something must be serious about the test results... For whole night, I was restless and even forgot to record TV show for my hubby! Then this morning I called the clinic, they said "No lah, we just want to call and confirm your appt next sat". WTF... They never do such things before and now called to confirm appt out of the blue. Scared me loh. Damn angry...
 
Krystle, wah but take itpositively at least it’s not other bad news hehe.

I think I even more pissed off today, at work. My boss doesn’t approve a $250 training course. Really kiam siap! Yet we got to fulfil the 5 day training requirement. Meaning if in house (free) course got then go grab. But the external courses are recommended by our HR what!!
 
Krystle, kisune: Hhahhaa, same here. I often dream of the day my hubby walks my daughter down the aisle. ;-) Especially when he walks my girl to bathroom where I bath her. ;-)
My hubby always say he will make sure he will choose the right guy(s) for our girl(s), not just anyhow chop chop.
 
Tongtong,
Yes, one good thing out of this joke is that it is not bad news! Sort of telling myself last night, everything will be fine.

Aiyo, coy wants you to take course and still does not want to pay? Then why HR go and recommends external courses? See already and yet still cannot go...

Blessedbaby,
My hubby also said that must choose the right guy for my girl. Easy said than done. Do you think she will listen to us 20 years down the road? Even my parents initially grumbled about my hubby, I also turned a deaf ear. Kids now are so smart and matured so early. I dread thinking what will my children be like in 20 years. Just enjoy their innocence for now bah.
 
krystle: hahaha. ;-) With my hubby' family background and training, i think even 20 years or 40 years later, he is able to do that still. Hahhahah
 
Krystle, yea I think the company can pay but my boss doesn’t want – because it will be charged to the department cost. She very ngiau lor. Cheh!!
 
yeah.. i mge to convince my hb to chase my ILs away fr my hse today till next sunday! he asked if we can cope, with my condition. i told him i rather be crippled den to hear his mother screaming n shouting for nothing. he no choice but to agree lor. PEACEFUL WEEK AHEAD! starting this pm!! wat a nice national day haha
 
Mylvera,
You got your wish! Hahahha, surely it would be a wonderful National Day holiday! Maybe with this one week, your hubby will realise that you can managed so much better w/o your ILs???
 
krystle,

hope so. it will be tiring but peaceful!

blessedbaby,

they have their own house. they jz doing us a favour by coming to our hse sun-fri to help look after the kids or mayb to see that the maid look aft the kids? i know for sure my FIL will miss his grandsons but WHO CARES when he doesn't know how to control his wife? :p this is my house. next week, will not open the hse for them! :p too bored? YR BIZ.
 
Hi, everyone. Thanks for all the birthday wishes.
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Krystle, blessedbaby, Haha, I only think of BFs and not getting married yet cos I think I'll cry and melt lor when my gals are walking down the aisle.
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mylvera, <font size="+2"><font color="ff0000">CONGRATS!</font></font>
 
blessedbaby, ya lor, but i'll insist whoever wants to marry my daughters must stay near to me. Haha, last time my colleague's mum even more clever. She is am only child so the mum insists that whoever marries her daughter must stay with her. I not so hard core lar. Hee.
 
Kitsune, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!

Mylvera, congrates!!! Sure you will have a quiet and nice weekend and the following week.

Since nothing to do today, so brought my boy for the boaster and HepA jabs. Very brave boy, didn't cry at all. He even said "Thank Q" to his PD when leaving the room :) Brought him there alone, very the tiring, luckily he was cooperative, gave him milk and he took his nap as soon as we reached home. I took a nap together with him also, NICE :) Now he is still sleeping, I need to fix my lunch liao.

Have a great long weekend ahead, everyone. And Happy National Day to all!!!
 
warao... my hb told his parents not to come back liao ... n guess wat the ans is? "see how first" ya ya... wana force me change lock isit? :p haha
 
mylvera
your good news is like getting mummies here even more excited when you popped ah

jess, krystle
the curry chix not bad, i bought 2 pkts of different brands of powder and mix them myself till my desired effect. the gravy a bit thick; my hb likes watery gravy (??!!), chicken very tender. heng ah! coz by the time i went to ntuc, not much chicken left so i choose halal chicken since got more stock
 
jess,

is for next week only n yet got this message. tink my MIL dare not say dun come back cos she knows my FIL will sure miss his darling grandsons.
 
tongtong,

Can still go out. Why not leh? But must be careful not to make myself too tired lor. Most probably bring Hao Re for swimming and nearby park bah.
 
mylvera,
when are u going back to work? how u gona settle ur kids when u r back to work and ur inlaws are nt there to jagar for u?
 

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