Dear MomMe...my heart goes out to u...u must be having such a difficult time...cos i am also in a similar situation...lost my dad about a month ago...lots of people also tell me to be strong for the sake of my baby....perhaps u have been putting yourself thru alot of stress....rest well...although i'm not a Christian myself, i am praying for u and your baby as well. Rest in your bed, and take some time to talk to your baby, tell him/her u're not ready yet...stay healthy inside u