tongtong8
Active Member
I read something interesting this afternoon.
Kids belOw 7 are not supposed to LISTEN to us, but to learn from us. We shd show them what's our reaction towards their behavior n shd not expect that they will listen to us, rather they will observ n learn . Eg. we ask them to tidy up the toys . They dun listen. Fine, we do ourself. It's already very good if he helps to pick up a few toys n runs away. Dun expect them to do everything. Do it 50O times until they get it. They imitate, observe n learn. So no point shouting or screaming qt them unless u want them to learn that. If they dun listen, nvm. We do what is right.
I think if we practise that way we will feel better. No more anger perhaps. 何乐不为? Hehe
Kids belOw 7 are not supposed to LISTEN to us, but to learn from us. We shd show them what's our reaction towards their behavior n shd not expect that they will listen to us, rather they will observ n learn . Eg. we ask them to tidy up the toys . They dun listen. Fine, we do ourself. It's already very good if he helps to pick up a few toys n runs away. Dun expect them to do everything. Do it 50O times until they get it. They imitate, observe n learn. So no point shouting or screaming qt them unless u want them to learn that. If they dun listen, nvm. We do what is right.
I think if we practise that way we will feel better. No more anger perhaps. 何乐不为? Hehe