Mel,
Me SAHM n no helper. I'm super tired lor, bb still wakes up couple of times at nite, wakes up super early in the morning, got to do housework, take care of the older gal, n cook. Unlike #1, hb somehow can't cope n handle wz #2 this time, n he always looked so tired after work. My girlfriend said maybe he too stressed cos he's the only one working n bringing home the bacon. With only 4-5hrs sleep a day, super panda eyes. I stopped bf at 4mths cos I really no energy n time to express.
Pretty,
Sometimes I also like that in the past, will cry when alone wz bb n she just cry n I can't pacify her. Now, getting better, learn to keep cool when she cries, it helps...
ankh,
Haahaa... when alone in the house, me too will put bb somewhere in sight so that I can do housework or cook. My mum said she's gonna drop by my place on alternate days, am looking forward to that cos otherwise I can't do accomplish a lot of chores wz the bb screaming for attention these days.
tub,
When I try to read to bb, she wld scream. When I give her a book to look at by herself, she either chew on it or she wld bury her face on it. We feel that our kids r all not "study material".