hi pillow, my maid same as yours...got 2kids and knows how to handle baby, like what you said, need to teach them our preferred style of handling baby. After I found that this maid is ok to test out, I also quite switch off, even leave bb alone with maid and i go shopping for few hours. I need to test water...cos' going back to work soon.
My mum likes to remind me, if don't let maid handle baby, then maid won't be close to baby and sayang baby, then how am i going to feel 'an xin' to leave baby to her when i return to work next mth. So sometimes when we don't have alternate choice, have to take the risk and try out. These days i can 'chase' bb out of room and ask maid to take care if he makes too much noise and disturb my sleep, hee hee!