shannie, ok will call JG! hey no need to get stressed over this. u r so kind to take the trouble and organise it for us. just go with yr initial plan coz no "best" plan can ever accomodate different requests and preferences. just set on something, those who are interested and can make it will join, those who cant, will arrange our/their own. so no worries
if u were to ask me, i prefer to let our kids go to the designated-age group instead of advancing them in case the activities are too advanced for our below 18 mths kids. its unfair to judge them like dat too. IMHO.
enne, i feel exactly how u r feeling! re the new baby and #1. when i went for my first V scan @ 4 wks, the gynae cldnt even see anything! only see shadow. on my 2nd V scan @ 5 wks, he cld see sac but no heartbeat. until now i hvnt really "seen" my new baby. but since i hv anthea liao, i am very relax on this one 有就有,没有就算了. in fact, i am starting to doubt if this is a gd time to hv #2 now that anthea is still quite handful now with teething. i nvr imgaine teething can be so disastrous to a baby.
wrt #1, yes i feel damn sorry for her in the sense that she wont be able to get wat she cld have gotten if not for #2, maybe it be our attention, our love, or anything material. i feel very guilty for shouting at her when she was sick and cranky coz i felt terrible with my MS.
i guess its normal for us to feel this way.. maybe we are afterall not ready for #2 yet otherwise we wldnt hv felt so. but watever it is, #2 has already arrived. so we hv to be positive abt everything
having said this, i just cant help but thinking my #2 will be a gloomy baby coz i have been feeling negative all these while.. hahaha!! preggie mummies, lets cheer one another along!
sorry for the long post.