Autum: guess u can just order cup cakes, its quite a trend to have cup cakes as bday cakes nowadays.. but hor, i like the tradition of actually cutting a big cake, so Rae will get a big cake... a no.1 cake,cos i did not get a 1 the last time, all my cakes which my mum bought for me were round!! And this is the only time she can have a No.1 cake lor.. juts my thought lah. If budget permits, u can get a regular cake plus cupcakes as sides.
Actually,my hubby thinks like urs, he forever worry abt food poisoning, thats when we started our babies on solid, i dare not cook more and give to any of u all cos he worry that if my food accidentally kena contaminated then its not good when other bbs kena as well.
Pax: hehe... not pink enuff.hahaha.. hey i got ur trf liao. thanks.