hey michelle
WS definitely does not look like the sort who will quarrel or fight wif you, the way you describes your quarrels remind me of little couples in school days, like each other but kept arguing with one another.
QQ
i think you are 1 lucky woman
Starfruit
weekdays my hubby return home earliest at 10pm, on average 11-12am, so weekdays are doomed. weekends we spend time with leia, the only time left is after we sent her to auntie on sunday nite. i tried not to stress him because running a biz of 15peopls is not easy, and i know tat we are planning for a better life, just hope tat we can make it till the finishing line.
argued in bangkok because we went with another 2 guys, so as expected he hang out mostly with them while i shop myself, he did offered to join me once but i turn him down cos already shopped until so tired and he doesnt like massage etc so wats the point? at 1 point of time, they went off for 5hrs and i return to hotel, i got pissed off with him for not sms-ing me, threw my temper and he said he thought i will call them when i finish my stuff. anyway started arguing lah, its been the same topic over and over again, so we thought is this incompatibility, what i want is something he couldnt give me...after talking thru, i hope i finally see the 'light' and i felt a bit bad lah, cos on my birthday, he did made effort to find a restaurant i've never been to and brought leia along tho he preferred we have couple time instead.
pax,
hugs to u!
how come your hubby doesnt want to discuss things with you? any chance of initiating something before it deteriorate further?
i'm reading this book "I'm love you but I'm not in love with you" talks about the different stages in relationship, how quarrels can help improve relationship...and how to salvage them.