(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs


SQ,
i don noe... she abit weired this few days... keep crying badly when i leave the room just to wash up her bottles and bowl....tts y i m veri troubled now... and if my pil is at home, they sure carry her up... and i hate to see them carry her...
 
Yvonne: combi 200ml, same as the mag mag right?

QQ: the yakult straw texture too hard.. u need to use these baby straw cup, the straw i think is soft silicon material, much softer and i think tats why easier to suck as compared to the yakult straw. u wanna consider getting a cup and let tian try?
 
hi mummies, so today's topic is cups.

i agree with star, mag mag straw cup is quite distracting to use. why? coz anthea likes to fiddle with the cap when drinking. last sun she dropped her cup and the cap chipped, so i removed the cap and no more distraction! star, i will buy the combi cup u rec, sounds gd.

i am interested in the learn & groove musical table but i wont order with pax lah, coz too bulky req extra shipping cost. i still have $400 worth of robinsons voucher to use by march 2008, so will try my luck there.

anyone knows if they have it in spore? i wonder if the height of the table is just nice for anthea to pull herself up. if it helps in encouraging babies to stand, astro maybe u can consider buying for teng.
 
star,
the mag mag last marking is 180ml... so, if i make the milk till 180ml + milk powder in, SUPER FULL liao... wahahaha... i need something bigger... wahahaha... she can drink from the spout veri fast... i like lei... don have to wait so long... rubber time...
 
QQ,
I let me son tonite go and stand up from this table see will topper or not.
I quite like it leh. Pass down from my sil.
 
edde,
now become table and cups topic liao... wahahaha... u signing up the class? how is the list liao? if still manage to catch more ppl before sat... i can join u all...
 
Alamak... i somehow have this feeling tat almmost all the march babies are already drinking from a straw cup.. now edde and SQ confirms it, cos anthea and YE been drining from a straw cup for a while liao!!!aiyo no wonder Rae so slow in dev, cos the mummy slow, delay in starting her
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pax,
this leapfrog thing is really on the hi end. wonder if there's a "risk" of me buying and bb not liking? then siao liao!

edde,
i'm also interested in that table *wink*
see how lah

yvonne,
that's why kids are so cute lor. they are so unpredictable. YE is lidat sometimes also

astro,
was wondering how come you din log in whole am. suspected you either went PD or had a heart-to-heart talk with your mum
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why he suddenly down with stomach flu? adult already suffer when they have it, not to mention kids. how's teng? his normal self and playing?
 
huingee, can borrow your E and ask her to stand on the table see if it is stable?
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or yourself also can. haha! i like plain table.

Star, not slow la. tian also not yet straw trained. so mag mag straw cup also no good ah? buy again ? sekali i buy liao she not interested then waste my $$. she dun hold bottle now, cause she dun like to drink.
 
QQ: i agree with SQ, u should go look at the little tikes range of table as well, i have a child LT chair, damn sturdy, its fully moulded in 1 piece not assembled, so def won't topple.
 
aiyoh astro, poor teng.. maybe he short short coz he is falling sick.. dun "train" him for the moment liao lor.. must sayang him more.. hey yesterday i jinx myself leh... i told u anthea no more reflux liao rite.. then last nite and this morn she vomitted.. *faint* i hope its not reflux again...

yvonne, the list only got 3 confirmed leh... haha.. i think no hope liao lah..

this few days have been "training" anthea.. macham boot camp.. once she reached home i will train her to stand/walk, crawl, pincer grasp her cheerios, play by herself... then she cry and cry.. secarly she associate home = torture.. no wonder she clinged on to her daddy yesterday when she reached home and refused to let me carry... think i shldnt push her too much...
 
star,
you are funnie leh. don't be so stressed lah. i also suddenly realised our bbs growing up so fast now. i mean, few months ago we were still deciding on bottles. very soon, they would be drinking their milk from cup liao wor... then really would be toddler liao. that's how fast time flies.
 
QQ,
Sure, will get E to stand the table tonite and D to hold on to it. Mmm, normally will not allow E to stand on table, on stool. Should be quite ok.

Yvonne,
So good life, go orchard shopping.
 
star, Hao... ok. will slowly hunt. sekali i go back msia and see more sturdy table, no brand.
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astro, stomach flu is laosai ah?
 
star, u r not slow. i just started anthea on straw cup last sun. morn trained, nite time dropped the cup and chipped the cap. haha...
 
arhhh.... my gf don noe go where... nv answer my call... haiz... going to rain liao... cant go orchard le... asking her to come CWP... waiting for her to reply... haiz... keep jinx myself... firstly, said bel can eat 2 bowl of porridge.. this morning onli eat half of the bowl... faint... getting lesser and lesser... den, i wan to go orchard... going to rain... arh...
 
Edde,
Diff babies development is diff. Mmm, don't push her, just try to encourage her with the toys she like. Should be fun rather than stress her. If her body is not really so she will not crawl or stand or walk. Some kids just dun crawl. And some kids reach 1 year old still can walk.
Mmm, quite stress to see so many mar babies crawling, standing, drinking water from cup etc.
 
SQ, yeah.. me impatient kind mah.. so i impose my ji2 xing4 zi3 on my baby.. i am too anxious... anthea so poor thing... yes, u r rite, i shld slow down my pace and enjoy quality time tog...
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by the way mummies, NTUC having baby stuff promo now.. promo on diapers and FM etc, eg komodo discount, Mamypoko, Huggies & Pampers discount, similac 900g bundle (2 tins + 1 small tin of Gain IQ)... check out today's zaobao.
 
TSY,
u are not slow... i also haven let bel try to drink from straw... now i still letting her drinking from a bigger hole sprout... those u pour, water come out kind... wahahaha...
 
ok i found it... forthose of u lazy to click the link and read, i have pasted the impt points here. Read as reference k.

Excerpted from :
http://mommyspeechtherapy.com/?p=12

gIf children learn to drink from a straw by suckling how is it different from a sippy cup?h

A straw cup can be used as a tool to train the tongue into the right position. These are the steps you will want to follow.

Once you have purchased a straw cup allow your child several weeks to get used to the new cup. Keep in mind they are now drinking all their liquids from this cup. After the child is really comfortable with the new cup cut 1/4? off the top of the straw. This will make it so the child will have less straw to put in their mouth while drinking. A few weeks later, when your child is really comfortable drinking from this cup cut another 1/4? off the top of the straw. Every few weeks repeat this step until your child only has about 1/4? of straw left they can put in their mouth. This assures that they cannot suckle the straw and their tongues will be in the proper position for good speech development.

gWhy have my other children done just fine on sippy cups?h

There are many children out there that can drink from sippy cups without affecting their speech. But, if you can set your children up for success from the beginning why wouldnft you? If you have already gone the route of sippy cups and your child substitutes /t/ for /k/, /d/ for /g/, -th- for /s/ or /z/, or has a lateral lisp your child will benefit from moving their tongue back with the help of a straw cup. Excessive drooling can also be an indicator that your child needs the strengthening that can come from drinking through straws. As a rule, my children only use straw cups as opposed to sippy cups and I encourage my clients to do the same.

gWhat about drinking from a normal cup?h

Drinking from a normal cup will also promote appropriate tongue positioning. Introduce normal cups as soon as you feel your child is ready. If you want to teach your child to drink from a normal cup make sure they are not supporting the cup with their tongue. If they seem to lose a lot of fluid while drinking help them practice by giving them single sips while you hold the cup.
 
yvonne,
maybe bel is having separation anxiety... my boy also like that, a month ago... once i step into the kitchen, he will cry.... initially also dun know what happen to him, then i keep talking and assuring him that i will go back to him once i'm done. or i just continue to proceed w going to the kitchen, and let him cry. He's better now.

try not to always carry bel when she always does that loh..... eventually she will use this as a "weapon".. you know what i mean?
 
huignee u r rite, my hubby discourages me to read the forum coz he said it makes me too gan jiong and kiasu when i read abt other babies... but dat aside, my bigger concern is becoz doc said her devt might be hindered due to her low wt gain, so i dun wish to see that happening... i am worried, so i try to push her.. but i guess it backfires. i must relak more.
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mist,
ya. i noe... told pil million times liao.. still don noe how to listen... everynite i get veri fustrated... when i see their faces... i got no mood! cos they onli wan to carry bel... instead of helping, they are giving more prob! so angry.
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mist,
ya. i noe... told pil million times liao.. still don noe how to listen... everynite i get veri fustrated... when i see their faces... i got no mood! cos they onli wan to carry bel... instead of helping, they are giving more prob! so angry.
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SQ: I had a very drama night.. am feeling moody and guilty. coz i wrong move again. yesterday let teng cried a fair bit.. thought will let him be independent.. and he was super needy.. put him sit down only..scream.. made me angrier.. and became harsher..actual fact he fussed coz had wind in the stomch.. uncomfortable.. so cry.. i did it on my son again.. i am feeling very lousy now..

plus one whole list of med and feeding schedule plus food to avoid plus messy med adminstration..

and this straw thingy.. i get even moodier.. coz teng is not yet drinking from the straw.. coz why?.. his mum is lousy..

i am feeling veyr lousy now.. very very lousy..
 
yvonne,
then before your pil can touch bel, you "blocked" them from bel!! hehehe.. that's what i do leh... very mean hor??? but i really do that loh.... i will block my mil somehow, will say something like "come come, mummy here liao... dun cry, dun cry" hahaha.... or i will quickly move towards my boy first b4 my mil does. ;p
 
yvonne, as prob as me, astro, QQ and pink... we will only get to discipline our kids the way we want when there is no one else around to ai4 shou3 ai4 jiao3.. very hard to get words into old pple, coz they think that they eat salt more than we eat rice.
 
aiyo astro,
you got to snap out of that mood fast!
cos teng needs you!

motherhood never has its answers. it's always easier on hindsight. so we can't regret.

how's teng now?
 
mist, i like yr style! haha...

there was once anthea was licking my MIL's fingers!!! and she still got the cheek to say "luckily i washed my hands".. yeah? so? ok to lick her fingers then!!?? ganasai. i quickly carried anthea away from her.. hate her.

astro, dun feel bad. u dunno he sick mah. sayang him more now to compensate him. tell yr miser u need sayang too
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edde,
it's lidat one. with the older folks. i don't stay with my mum, but it's enuf to get on my nerves when she make comments twice a week everytime we meet.

at the end of the day, got to ask ourselves. is it meant for the good of the bb? if yes, then just take it with a pinch of salt. one ear in one ear out. else we will age v fast.
 
SQ: I burnt his tongue accidentallly.. and of course he screamed.. hands also trembled kind.. sigh. i am really out of sorts now. he's not finishing even a 'small' meal.. as prescribed by the scedule given to me.. cool.. so now.. what? his eyes are alrady dark as panda liao. can't sleep properly.. good opp for him to lose some weight..

he;s alsepp.. totally exhausted. and rejected entire bowl of porridge.. only had half strength milk (60ml).. his last feed was at 1230.. also only half strength 60ml feed..

Edde: Miser took 'leave;' off morning rushed teng to PD with me.. had the insticnt to tell him to take morning off even before teng merlioned whole feed out in the morning.. but after that rushed back work. i am very sian.. i am seriosuly wondering.. am i that capable in his mind?? minimal support from him at times..

and regarding this mum's issue. me sick of it liao.. let's not talk abt it anymore.. can?
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how to teach them to suck the straw? I tried holding a straw on Constance's mouth. She will be wondering what is that and start taping the straw with her mouth. How to get her to suck it?
 
astro,
aiyo, dun feel that way lah.... now just concentrate on caring for Teng to be well again... the rest can wait....

and the straw thing, dun worry lah... my boy always hvn't drink from straw..... dun be too gan cheong.
 
edde: i meant.. dun type my nick in the discussion of this conflict..coz dun mind reading.. but see my nick .. me tend to get affected. i know sound ridiculous. but that's how i feel..

pls go ahead continue with the discussion u all have.. me not saying affected by that.. just no mention of astro in that problem.. pls..
 
stay cool astro. hope teng recover soon soon. if we are unwell we also bound to eat less. i think he is also lucky that he has enough reserves to go through this.. that's how i have been telling myself when my gal was sick.

mist... i think drinking from straw is also not my priority. slowly la.
 
Bbgirl/QQ:
Thanks for the advice. BTW will the toys attached on the panel will giak bb fingers?

Autumn,
Got agency ha? Me sua gu dun know lei heehee
Have to pay one ha? Will they just take and put my application aside then I waste my $$$ wor

Pax,
Im interested to get leapfrog but dun know what to buy, any recommendation for our bb age?
 
heee....we are really a typical singaporean....hahahah!!!!!...

KS Mum......hahaha!!!...think we are really tooo gan cheong liao....shld shun qi zi ren, bb still sooo young, and we are like giving them stress liao....haiz....
 

astro,
aiyo, dun feel that way lah.... now just concentrate on caring for Teng to be well again... the rest can wait....

and the straw thing, dun worry lah... my boy always hvn't drink from straw..... dun be too gan cheong.
 

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