(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs
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babylovespink2
New Member
Pax: Thanks... Phew... I can now safely transfer money to the other organiser..
I still dont understand why new members are not allowed to post on the overseas thread. If the restriction is placed on organising spree, I think it's valid. But not to this extend leh!
I still dont understand why new members are not allowed to post on the overseas thread. If the restriction is placed on organising spree, I think it's valid. But not to this extend leh!
Astro
I din even get to know the medical term...thks for telling..Yah, it seems as though this is what it's called. The good thing is that it will rarely develop again.
http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/roseola.html
I din even get to know the medical term...thks for telling..Yah, it seems as though this is what it's called. The good thing is that it will rarely develop again.
http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/roseola.html
babylovespink2
New Member
Pax: I tried last night before I trouble u to do it for me..
pax: as instructed. .left teng to his own device. face the sofa. so that he can pull. and surround him with cushions just in case he falls.. this morning was in cot.. sat him there.. bolsters else hit wood spars jialat.. so boy both times sat there.. morning i got so bored.. i gve him my fingers.. he pulled to stand and held on with dear life to the cot.. dun even dare to move.. then whine.. i think he scared.. finally managed to 'cruise' a little to the other end get his toy. but took so long.. then nap time liao..
now sitted outside as mentioned.. fussing outside again.. wah biang. dunno how long it takes before i can see him miraclously pull himself to stand in front of me ah!
now sitted outside as mentioned.. fussing outside again.. wah biang. dunno how long it takes before i can see him miraclously pull himself to stand in front of me ah!
wah biang! my mum picked teng up again!!!!!!! arghhhhhh.. now he cried louder lor.
she still tell me dun let him be alone in cot in room.. so put him sitting in front of him.. soft whining.. pick him up liao.. now put him down again .. hysterical liao.. wah lau!!!1
i am really convinced. i am not the one who caused him to be lazy!!!!!! dann,,expriement failed .. coz no consistency iao..
she still tell me dun let him be alone in cot in room.. so put him sitting in front of him.. soft whining.. pick him up liao.. now put him down again .. hysterical liao.. wah lau!!!1
i am really convinced. i am not the one who caused him to be lazy!!!!!! dann,,expriement failed .. coz no consistency iao..
babylovespink2
New Member
Pax:
I've already gone through enuf hardship to earn this!
Me going to take a nap.. Weather is too good to miss.. Talk later..
Me going to take a nap.. Weather is too good to miss.. Talk later..
PAx: i think he more of nvr fell before.. but then again got once i tried. he standing. then he fell.. hit head against the cot spar where a night light was.. the protusion part.. maybe it hurts a lot.. so.. is this a very bad experience?
i really wonder how long this will take lei.. seriously wondering..
i really wonder how long this will take lei.. seriously wondering..
paxeng
Active Member
astro
i think more like u and grandma nvr let go of him b4. as soon as u leave him standing on his own even holding to the cot rail, he'll hang on.. do wat u did this morning... pull him up and let him hang on.. let him get used to the idea that u r not gg to hold him forever...
why do i have a feeling Teng will be a mommy's boy?
i think more like u and grandma nvr let go of him b4. as soon as u leave him standing on his own even holding to the cot rail, he'll hang on.. do wat u did this morning... pull him up and let him hang on.. let him get used to the idea that u r not gg to hold him forever...
why do i have a feeling Teng will be a mommy's boy?
pax,
otherwise after visit to doc.. tell them saying doc says this and advise that..
the old folks really only listen to Nurse and Docs advise only..thinking that parents are like an idiot trying to harm our kid.
sigh.. had been reading that festive season is coming crime rate might increase.. thus everyone be xtra careful..
otherwise after visit to doc.. tell them saying doc says this and advise that..
the old folks really only listen to Nurse and Docs advise only..thinking that parents are like an idiot trying to harm our kid.
sigh.. had been reading that festive season is coming crime rate might increase.. thus everyone be xtra careful..
honeybunch
New Member
Hi Germaine: we're currently trying to form a class of 12 to start new class for kindermusik.
Are you interested? If succesful we can get sunday 11am slot and start asap... currently only a few names. Need more.
Are you interested? If succesful we can get sunday 11am slot and start asap... currently only a few names. Need more.
Pax: *sigh* problem is.. she is always around whenever we go to any PD.. she was there with Dr Ong.. and Dr Ong made an effort to talk to her in mandarin hor.. explain to her teng's dependence..
uknow why Teng was CIO-ed twice before? second time because first time afternoon nap. teng screaming.. she shouted at me.. "how can u let ur son cry like that.. how long u want him to cry??" then i depressed then.. gave up.. miser was around.. but he doesn't want to scold her.. then she immediately run into the room to carry teng up..
and now she black face.. that i left teng sitting there.. crying.. when in the first place. she doesn't want me to put him in the cot in the room..
so when pple tell me mils, nannies etc sometimes hindrance.. i can understand.
uknow why Teng was CIO-ed twice before? second time because first time afternoon nap. teng screaming.. she shouted at me.. "how can u let ur son cry like that.. how long u want him to cry??" then i depressed then.. gave up.. miser was around.. but he doesn't want to scold her.. then she immediately run into the room to carry teng up..
and now she black face.. that i left teng sitting there.. crying.. when in the first place. she doesn't want me to put him in the cot in the room..
so when pple tell me mils, nannies etc sometimes hindrance.. i can understand.
Joelle
Paiseh lei...to ask a preggy to take for me. I can wait & collect for her instead..
Thks again leh...
JMon
Are u arnd? Hw r u? U ok to meet Joelle or you wanna wait for me to collect?
Astro
Yalor...shld immune already. Better to 'outcast' him from other BBs at this moment.
Paiseh lei...to ask a preggy to take for me. I can wait & collect for her instead..
Thks again leh...
JMon
Are u arnd? Hw r u? U ok to meet Joelle or you wanna wait for me to collect?
Astro
Yalor...shld immune already. Better to 'outcast' him from other BBs at this moment.
sunswwet and pax: ehh. then in my case.. how ah?? she went with me all the times leh.. *faint*
and u know what.. that time teng very bad sleep assoication..(before any CIO) and miser away. and i was depressed. so they worried.. ask me go to the house sleep.. if not i might harm teng.. ok so go.
so teng woke up every 45 mins as usual.. used to be miser will see to it.. so of course i got so woked up.. she took over.. and really stay with teng.. and carry him upright all night long hor.. tried puttin ghim down.. he cried. then she will immiedately carry him up one.
then become morning and day also like that.. teng refused to be put down.. dun carry him only. scream.. worse than before.. she keep saying he become very naughty.. but i didn't do anything.. just 'ran away from home'.. then go tth eextent.. teng very dark circles.. she also very tired. .lost weight somemore. in a week hor..
but she can still claim that teng was just being naughty..
i think mine case of sleep assoication is extreme liao.. and mother and daughter conflict.. as long as my mum is around.. teng wun be intedependent.. coz she doesn't allow him to let go and 'fall'.. and if i ask her not to come.. she asscue me of being hard hearted.. other pple cio.. just one stress.. sometimes seeing her black face is worse than CIO ing teng.. i think i asked for it.. when she said if she could come over to look after teng together with me when first born.. thinking.. bad. i seriously asked for all this.. sigh
and u know what.. that time teng very bad sleep assoication..(before any CIO) and miser away. and i was depressed. so they worried.. ask me go to the house sleep.. if not i might harm teng.. ok so go.
so teng woke up every 45 mins as usual.. used to be miser will see to it.. so of course i got so woked up.. she took over.. and really stay with teng.. and carry him upright all night long hor.. tried puttin ghim down.. he cried. then she will immiedately carry him up one.
then become morning and day also like that.. teng refused to be put down.. dun carry him only. scream.. worse than before.. she keep saying he become very naughty.. but i didn't do anything.. just 'ran away from home'.. then go tth eextent.. teng very dark circles.. she also very tired. .lost weight somemore. in a week hor..
but she can still claim that teng was just being naughty..
i think mine case of sleep assoication is extreme liao.. and mother and daughter conflict.. as long as my mum is around.. teng wun be intedependent.. coz she doesn't allow him to let go and 'fall'.. and if i ask her not to come.. she asscue me of being hard hearted.. other pple cio.. just one stress.. sometimes seeing her black face is worse than CIO ing teng.. i think i asked for it.. when she said if she could come over to look after teng together with me when first born.. thinking.. bad. i seriously asked for all this.. sigh
pax,
if they can go together best lah but if cannot then bo pian loh..
Initally, my MIL was so afraid of taking care of bb.. but i found a ex mid-wife to come over to teach her on babycare.. now she is an expert.. so mush an expert that MIL will take my gal away from me while my gal is happily having her dinner with me.. sob...
if they can go together best lah but if cannot then bo pian loh..
Initally, my MIL was so afraid of taking care of bb.. but i found a ex mid-wife to come over to teach her on babycare.. now she is an expert.. so mush an expert that MIL will take my gal away from me while my gal is happily having her dinner with me.. sob...
pax: dun get u.. meaning i am harsh to her? .. ehh. think need to let u know. she didn't take care of me and my sis at all from young..grandma took care of us.. what she knows now abt taking care of teng. i taught her..
so yes..i admit I am not a fillal daughter .. i will giv eher the necessary finaccial support but nothing more than that before. now still give though i zero income.. and infact increase somemore. befor ei make my mum sound like a veryhorrile person.. i think just let it be. honestly too many things. to be 'air' here in forum..
hence one of the reason why i quit my job to become sahm.. which received no support from her.coz say i 'stupid'.. got good pay. giv eup.. (and therefore she became very grouchy when i said i need to give $50 less to her.. come and cried and complained and quareeled with me somemor.and it doesn't help that day the stupid CL just left..and i was holding on to teng.. quareeling with her.. both in tears. teng asleep *Sigh*)
before i sound like i am whining again.. i honestly feel that i am always fighting a lone battle.. always..
so yes..i admit I am not a fillal daughter .. i will giv eher the necessary finaccial support but nothing more than that before. now still give though i zero income.. and infact increase somemore. befor ei make my mum sound like a veryhorrile person.. i think just let it be. honestly too many things. to be 'air' here in forum..
hence one of the reason why i quit my job to become sahm.. which received no support from her.coz say i 'stupid'.. got good pay. giv eup.. (and therefore she became very grouchy when i said i need to give $50 less to her.. come and cried and complained and quareeled with me somemor.and it doesn't help that day the stupid CL just left..and i was holding on to teng.. quareeling with her.. both in tears. teng asleep *Sigh*)
before i sound like i am whining again.. i honestly feel that i am always fighting a lone battle.. always..
HJ, how come u have my tian's photo leh? haha!!!
AStro ah... maybe one day u ask your hb (or u have any sibling ah?) to jio your mum out then u can have the full control on your CIO. Actaully i dun put many cushions for tian when she is in her cot, then she just pull to stand. At sofa there, sometimes i scare she fell then put cushion. but most of the time i forgot, then cincai la. she just fall lor. ok la, cried abit, then standup again. some times she can break a bit, trying to balance her body. Teng has so many bui2 bak4 (fat meat), fall a little should be ok ba...
AStro ah... maybe one day u ask your hb (or u have any sibling ah?) to jio your mum out then u can have the full control on your CIO. Actaully i dun put many cushions for tian when she is in her cot, then she just pull to stand. At sofa there, sometimes i scare she fell then put cushion. but most of the time i forgot, then cincai la. she just fall lor. ok la, cried abit, then standup again. some times she can break a bit, trying to balance her body. Teng has so many bui2 bak4 (fat meat), fall a little should be ok ba...
asto,
I too sometimes have problems with anothre woman in the house..who MIL who's staying with us.. so sometimes i lock myself and BB in my room and do watever i want with the baby..
when she ask me what i'm doing in there, i just say dun worry i won't hurt my baby..
soon she got the message (but take a few times) so now whenever i bring bb to room to play/read/learn new things she kinda get it not to interfer too much..
anyway for my case she has the whole day with my bb.. at night let me do my part as a mother..(this part she still did not get it thru.. she feels she needs to be there for my gal till the moment my gal sleeps for the night)
probably its a woman thing to be protective over kids be it own or grand..
I too sometimes have problems with anothre woman in the house..who MIL who's staying with us.. so sometimes i lock myself and BB in my room and do watever i want with the baby..
when she ask me what i'm doing in there, i just say dun worry i won't hurt my baby..
soon she got the message (but take a few times) so now whenever i bring bb to room to play/read/learn new things she kinda get it not to interfer too much..
anyway for my case she has the whole day with my bb.. at night let me do my part as a mother..(this part she still did not get it thru.. she feels she needs to be there for my gal till the moment my gal sleeps for the night)
probably its a woman thing to be protective over kids be it own or grand..
QQ: yes. i understand.. i understand.. just like ur prob communicating with ur Nanny.. i have it multiplied 100 folds.. i have a younger sis. but she is very busy..
that's why i feel.. should children grow up distancedd.. and unloving.. must relfect what we did as parents.. cause and effect.. always the case.. set in stone..
that's why i feel.. should children grow up distancedd.. and unloving.. must relfect what we did as parents.. cause and effect.. always the case.. set in stone..
pax: ha! astro special.. she has 'special problems'.. got to trace back my family history before u cld possibly undretand my 'special' situation..
as much as i am a whiner.. i am also a fighter.. coz of my family bkgd.. tramuatic
sunsweet: yalor.. that's why i made a very resolute vow to myself.. if my DIL can't take care properly/spoilt thechild.. the most. i buy here a few books.. and teach her.. other than that .. she picks up her own pieces..
sunsweet: yalor.. that's why i made a very resolute vow to myself.. if my DIL can't take care properly/spoilt thechild.. the most. i buy here a few books.. and teach her.. other than that .. she picks up her own pieces..
Astro,
Wow you recognize it is Ting ha heehee.
Sorry can't really read previous post cos too many ppl walking behind me and dun one to get warning again. Now hide and post.
What happen? Got problem with your mama?
I also always quarrel with my mum over Ting too, got once I hear she cry in the toilet I feel so bad lor. Then I come to realized our mama is concern abt us lah, if not they wont help us to take care our bb right.
OK let me go and read what happen.
Michelle,
You remember my girl by her stroller ha heehee
QQ,
Yesterday nite I sneak into your house and kidnaps your Tian mah you dun know hahahahaaaaa
BTW who is kate? Our new member?
Wow you recognize it is Ting ha heehee.
Sorry can't really read previous post cos too many ppl walking behind me and dun one to get warning again. Now hide and post.
What happen? Got problem with your mama?
I also always quarrel with my mum over Ting too, got once I hear she cry in the toilet I feel so bad lor. Then I come to realized our mama is concern abt us lah, if not they wont help us to take care our bb right.
OK let me go and read what happen.
Michelle,
You remember my girl by her stroller ha heehee
QQ,
Yesterday nite I sneak into your house and kidnaps your Tian mah you dun know hahahahaaaaa
BTW who is kate? Our new member?
huajing: of course!! elisha lei.. told u i impressed with her mah. how can i forget? sigh.. i know abt concern.. i know..problem? always there.. even before i had TEng.. sigh
i feel that sometimes emotions and feelings.. hindrance. but then again. the world cannot be devoid of feelings and emotions also.
i feel that sometimes emotions and feelings.. hindrance. but then again. the world cannot be devoid of feelings and emotions also.
Astro,
After you mention hor I realized you have 3000 post in two months lei, wei you really talkative hor. Heehee ***hide underneath my desk for astro ah bush, think need to hide few days this time***
Anyway our treat needs you lah heehee
To be honest, Teng always a happy boy to me lah.
After you mention hor I realized you have 3000 post in two months lei, wei you really talkative hor. Heehee ***hide underneath my desk for astro ah bush, think need to hide few days this time***
Anyway our treat needs you lah heehee
To be honest, Teng always a happy boy to me lah.
honeybunch
New Member
Hi Germaine:
fees per session: $23.80
fees per 8 sessions: $190.40 (cos one semester consists of 8 sessions)
materials: $58 (have to purchase new materials semester)
1time registration: $30 (just have to pay once. Even if our other children enrol later there's no need to pay again. But was told that from next year the reg fees will be $50!)
1st time payment-> Total + gst : $297.89
subsequent fees per semester + gst: $265.79
As for commencement date, it depends on the rest of the mummies ba. Cos the 11am slot is reserved for private groups like ours and it is currently avail. Think better start before 2008 otherwise the reg will be $20 more!
fees per session: $23.80
fees per 8 sessions: $190.40 (cos one semester consists of 8 sessions)
materials: $58 (have to purchase new materials semester)
1time registration: $30 (just have to pay once. Even if our other children enrol later there's no need to pay again. But was told that from next year the reg fees will be $50!)
1st time payment-> Total + gst : $297.89
subsequent fees per semester + gst: $265.79
As for commencement date, it depends on the rest of the mummies ba. Cos the 11am slot is reserved for private groups like ours and it is currently avail. Think better start before 2008 otherwise the reg will be $20 more!
so intresting the senario now.. had teng's diaper changed.. he was on the changing mat..
i threw the diaper away.. mum carried him.. ask her next time.. give fingers to hold for teng pull himself up. she said teng.. dun weant. want her carry one..
i tried. .teng pulled up holding on to my fingers. put him down.. she tried.. refused..
hmmm.. very interesting.. v v interesting..
i threw the diaper away.. mum carried him.. ask her next time.. give fingers to hold for teng pull himself up. she said teng.. dun weant. want her carry one..
i tried. .teng pulled up holding on to my fingers. put him down.. she tried.. refused..
hmmm.. very interesting.. v v interesting..