giolyn
in that case, u just gotta tell ur maid that no matter wat ur mil say, she just follow..then at night then feedback to u, and not to call u to refute mil lo. aiyo.. this kind of 心病 last time my mother oso face alot. but she will tell the maid to just follow and not to be upset w mil. cos eventually the mil will stay n the maid have to go. then she will 'reward' the maid with gifts for putting up w my granny. eventually the maid just pretend not to understand when my granny asks for things, then say "wait for (my sister) to come back." to translate. like dat reduce fiction. i think u need to come up with tricks to overcome this issue... otherwise no end if ur mil behaves like dat... she is the constant woh...
in that case, u just gotta tell ur maid that no matter wat ur mil say, she just follow..then at night then feedback to u, and not to call u to refute mil lo. aiyo.. this kind of 心病 last time my mother oso face alot. but she will tell the maid to just follow and not to be upset w mil. cos eventually the mil will stay n the maid have to go. then she will 'reward' the maid with gifts for putting up w my granny. eventually the maid just pretend not to understand when my granny asks for things, then say "wait for (my sister) to come back." to translate. like dat reduce fiction. i think u need to come up with tricks to overcome this issue... otherwise no end if ur mil behaves like dat... she is the constant woh...