AA: hmm. think marry young or late will also morph or change over the years, shaped and influenced by experiences over the years..it is more of wanting to take the gamble or the risk or not.. and the risk/gamble is inherent at any age/stage of life that we might find ourselves in..
to answer ur question.. miser has so much confidence, in himself, that as much as I morph.. he is quite sure he can still handle me! ha.. cocky man.
mist: scholars? ha.. i think.. it is all to do with age.. let me share with u another analogy,, by u know who..
when we are young, we are like a double edged sword,hurt others as much as we hurt ourselves.
Gradually, the side which hurt others will lose its sharpness either because we are too tired to fight or we see thru everyting. Eventually, and perhaps the point that we all ought to work towards to, is a totally blunt sword. One which doesn't hurt others and most imptly, doesn't hurt ourselves.
ha.. very obviously. i am only in the proces of not hurting others.. but very much inflicting injuries on myself.. internal injuries!!!
