frankly speaking,
I have seen women who dun take care of their kids, while their husbands do the house work (or partime helpers do), then hb playing with kids, take care of kids etc etc.
the best is equally share bah. give and take, while enjoying the whole process. so, its family dependent de. sometimes i also pek check with hb cause he likes to watch tv and forgets everything.
yesterday was a happie day.
went shopping and bought shoes for tian at USQ, i was tired, hb helped tian to settle with the shoe, while i just sit there and give comments. tian liked her shoes.
not bad.
I went nap with tian after GUG, hb watching tv, while folding the clothes (more than 1 hour). and tian woke up before me. hb took over i continue to rest. when i woke up, i took over and he went to nap. i put tian in high chair, give her vege and teach her to pluck the leaves for me. she helped a bit (almost not really helping, but at least dun kacau me). then i cooked. she just sit there and joined me.
by the time hb is up, dinner is almost ready, then 3 of us had dinner together.
then frens and bil came visit. and tian just played with them.
not bad ah.