(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs

RR, ya if im not an understanding wife then i wont not hv allowed him to go out yday. HE WENT TO DRIVING RANGE!! I oso understd now market bad so his biz is affected and now wif D, so he is trying his best to earn more $$. But sometimes, still need to spare some tots abt wife's feelings mah.

I dont wanna end up hv postnatal depression!! haha.
 


mejo, he will do but will take sometime. I being the impatient type cannot tahan and im a fast fast legs fast hands person lagi cannot lun so will get fedup if i see things still not done.
 
ok enuff of venting my unhappiness. i go pump and zzzz

mejo, rem i mentioned abt the painful and fast reflex...it could be thrush infection. I gg to visit a LC tmr.
 
bb_mar,
my boss' wife (also my colleague) will always complain about my boss too. He'll go to driving range on weekends and leave her with their 3 kids. But we know he dotes on her and the family alot, that's why he's working so hard. It's not easy being a leader, they need to network, train agents, build contacts, recruit, do sales & etc ... don't have much time left for themselves liao.
 
bbmar
mr pax takes care of laundry, mopping floor. i cook, wash toilet (thorough cleaning once a mth). the caring for kids is a joint-effort. split the housework if necessary. this way, nobody can complain abt the other. even if his share of work is not done properly. be glad that it's done. that's life w 2 kids, no maid. dun be too concerned w housework now. kids r more impt. housework can wait.

one more thing. pls hor, tell him that u need 3 mths to recover fr c-sect completely. he can't leave u to do everything. on surface, c-sect wound may be recovering well. 3 mths is to ensure the inside is healed properly.

how come u feel bored? i hv tons of things to do leh. also hor, like irin said, market is bad. got to work doubly hard. mr pax got many late appts recently, i also bo pian. even his Sat r booked.
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only sundays left.
 
bb mar,
agreed with others that men are like that...i feel they not very zhi dong...

recently, there's one incident (there's a few lah)..i was halfway latching J but that nite my tummy not very good. so suddenly got urge to lao...so i quickly tell j to stop drinking while i go toilet...when to the living and ask my mum if she can help..but i think she still nid 1-2min to finish what she doing..so i stood there almost 'jumping up and down' hoping to delay my urge...but my hb sitting infront of his pc without moving an inch to come over.
didn't have the time to pek chek with him...hahhaa
 
Irin,
what's going to happen to the cake? u already ordered? can cancel?

bbmar,
hmm.. i think u need to talk to your hubby.. just keep telling him u need him to be around to help.
 
Pax,
agree with you on not being too concern about housework with 2 kids and no maid.

Think bb_mar still recovering from her post-natal hormones thing, that's why feeling more emotional and easily pek chek.
 
but then, i close eyes too lah..coz his only destress moments are with his pc and psp loh...my job is to jaga j so i try not to disturb him from his relaxing time after work....

just that at times i feel pek chek when i nid some time off too.

will be moving back to my own place..think less time to breathe for myself coz i can't ask my mum for help to jaga J while i go do her marketing and cheat some time to breathe..haha..
 
Autum,
hvn't not order yet but planned liao.
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I'm still hoping that they can recover by then but chances not high.
 
mummies,
can recommended what FM anot? coz I planning to wean J from breastmilk nx month...
i don't think i can give pediatian (sp?)...scare later he put on alot of weight ah...hahaha

actually it's less than a month to weaning him...

i got mixed feeling...feels abit se bu de
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RR,
I will be staying at cck and she is at Bt panjang..

actually quite close lah..but i oso dun wan to keep disturbing her loh...

even now, i try not to trouble her..unless i nid to go few places..so i will not bring J with me..coz must chop chop and settle my errands...

so the times when i nid to breathe, i will try to offer to help her with the marketing..partly i duno want her to carry too heavy stuffs...coz if i help her buy, either i buy what she nids for dinner or at least i still can tahan the weight mah...but when she goes, aiyo, she always ends up ta bao xiao bao!! pengz...
 
Mash,
actually you can call the various cos. up to ask for samples. Then you can let J try out 1st before buying 1 whole tin. RR are drinking Enfagrow. The more common ones would be Enfagrow, GainIQ, Mamil Gold, NAN & etc ...
 
bbmar
men's way of showing their care is by working hard n bringing home the bread. i was totally neglected for 1.5yrs. all he cared abt were the kids when he's home. everything i said, he would rebuke. he hears smthg he din like, he'll curse n swear. he said the D word 3x. the last time he said that, i scolded him. if he really wan to D n wan the kids to grow up w/o me or him, w/o ea other, then i'll let him go. he can hv the kids. that woke him up.

btw i almost jumped hor. if not for Jo who suddenly cried in her sleep. i won't be here liao. *sob sob sob* i u/stand how u r feeling. u hv another 3 mths to go, so hang in there. since ah bien will be at BP most of the time, u can bring D out on our own.

also, dun wait till too long to bring D over to BP. u hv to let D n ur mil hv time to get used to ea other. i'm presuming she is taking care of both.

n ur hormones still up n down now. mood swings vv common. jus rmbr to keep urself in check.

Autum
that reminds me. abt ur comments on my post rgd #3. age n finance r not a concern to me if i consider #3. it is whether i hv enuf time, heart n love to go round all 3.... that's my main concern.

star
i missed ur zoo reply n qn. i hvn't discussed with mr pax... :p i'm thkg of 2 yrs membership too..
 
RR,
i think J got no problem with any brands...just duno how to choose which one for him. :p

initially i told hb mayb switch to goats milk FM...coz so far, no reports on anything wrong ...most are cow's milk..

then hb said very ex to gv goats milk loh
 
mash
i dun think J needs pediasure. pediasure r for kids not eating well. J is eating well, so no need. u can ask PD to recommend. or like wat irin suggest, call the various distributors or companies to ask for samples..
 
Mash,
very hard to tell you which brand is good cos it depends on each individual kid. Some kids take certain brands will get constipation but some won't and some don't like the taste of certain brand. So you got to let him try and see.
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irin/bbmar/pax,
today i also very unhappy with ws when i got back. ok, he is sick too, he got high fever on friday, so now it seems he also got the bug.
but when i got back, i had to kept the laundries done on tues, both our and keira's. then turn on the washing mach to wash the full load. coz ws said he got high fever, i had to change our sheets and keira'ss too. my bed is king size leh. super tiring. luckily on wed, i had already sweep and mop the floor.
all he had to do is to keep keira occupied. but he told me he needs to go downstairs to grab lunch n take his med.
so i leet him go down and get some bread and buns. when he got back he pass a pork floss bun to keira and told her for mummy.
after he has taken, he ask me to take care of keira coz he needs to get a haircut too. tell you hor, i almost exploded. here i am so darn tired after 3 nites in the hospital. he wants to get a haircut when keira is still awake. finally told him if you want to go down, get keira to nap first.

irin,
poor reyes, so how is reyden? hope he din catch it too.
 
mash,
keira is on Gain IQ. need a while to dissolve though. so now i resort to taking spoon/fork to stir so that the milk can be immediately served:p
ever since she fell sick and stopped drinking milk, she only been drinking 120ml. finally tonight, she finished 180ml.
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star,
looks cute hor. kekeke.... but that was like on friday afternoon liao
 
kaexin
men r like that one... i long given up liao. they think n only care for themselves most of the time. they need constant reminders... jus like kids...... he's idling, that's why he thinks he can do watever he likes. but if he can go down to get lunch n cut hair, he doesn't sound vv sick to me...

MEN!
 
mash,

last time i got a small 400g tin from mamil gold. but for gain IQ i cant remb whether its also a small tin. you try calling and see
 
pax,
after i almost exploded, he said i appreciate your help all this while.
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see lah.
must almost explode then only day it out. he actually on mc too tmr, but thinking of going in to work.
 
mash
if no constipation, no diarrhea, no rash, i guess it shld be ok... sometimes it's down to the taste of the FM. so must really test. my collig's kids refused to drink FM (they r bf or on ebm). kept testing n trying diff type of FM / fresh milk etc etc, till they find the right one. cannot assume that J will def take.
 
pax,
i guess everything is inter-related. it's hard to really delineate any single reason for wanting or not wanting #3. age and finance are also related to time, heart and love yeah.. if we have a lot of money, we can buy more time and with less financial worries, we have more time to have more love etc. Of course, not saying that being poor means we don't have love.. we still do. But if we are all busy trying to make a living, facing stress from working, facing irritating people at work etc.. it's hard to have extra time.. and then time also equals to age yeah.. as time goes by, we age..

I am not arguing with you okie. I agree with your viewpoint but i do think every thing is related.
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pax,
he got an injection to bring down his high fever, when i ask him on friday night whether he ok, he said ok.
but the GP downstairs called me up to ask abt keira then he told me ws also high fever.
so nevermind lah, he only had his lunch at 4pm.
 
michelle
AT LEAST he said his appreciation.. after 7 yrs of marriage n 2 kids, i'm only glad if he takes time off to spend w me or go for movies...
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Mash,
they give 400g tin as sample, not those sachets. You monitor the bowel movements and his liking then you'll know.
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Kaexin,
doctor says he most likely already gotten it liao but just that the signs hvn't show yet.
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pax, rr,
does enfagrow oso hard to dissolve?

kaexin,
mamil gold not bad leh...still gv 400g sample..haha...

u still have the numbers to call for samples anot har?

jialat, suddenly like 1st time mummy trying to find out about FM...
 
pax,
juz now he seacrhin high and low for the zambak then he found free movie tickets. and he told me hey, we still havent been to one.
the last time we went was 31-dec-07!
 
pax,
i rem i had some samples (few brands)in sachets..those i asked my mum to give him when i nid to run errands during his feeds coz no more EFBM. all he drank without resistance or much problem. so i am thinking that any brand should not be any problem with him

recently got sample from goats milk, he oso drink...my cousin gave me fresh goat milk, i smell and dun dare to drink, but he oso drink to the last drop!!
 
pax,
4pm coz we left KK at 1pm. before we left, keira was sleeping mah, so i ask him go down to get lunch fm kopitiam but he dun like . prefers to come back to koufu instead.
but as we left kk, his parents ask us to drop by yishun, to pick up keira's dinner. then it rained so heavily. so by the time, we left yishun in the rain it was already 2+.
then i had to bathe keira too, then she wanted to watch wheels on the bus mah. by then 4pm liao lor.
 
Autum
not arguing w u. enuf time, heart n love to go round all 3 w watever time i hv. to me, this has ntg to do w money lor. i'm taking things at the current time context. can't think too far.

mash
Jo dun drink milk fr btl at home, only 1x at CCC. at home, morning n nite, drink fr cup. jus add water n stir. can't equate ur u/standing of hard to dissolve.
 
irin,
2007 i only went on 31 dec leh. coz early dismissal n keira was still napping, so we ended catching one in yisshun
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but yours romantic mah, on valentine's day! kekekeke
 

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