(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs


pax!
done! in facebook group. under discussion links
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ha. i read something.. a lady who miscarriaged said. she tried 'too hard'.. after intercourse.. she lifted her butt .. tilted it to help sperms swim up.. so that assisted the unhealthy sperms to reach the egg.. which 'normally' they wun be.. ha.. insteresting.. :p that is what she think lah.
 
swmom,

!!! I forgot to pass star my faulty keychain even though it was in my bag cuz I was late to GUG!!! Aiyah. how ar? You got pass by AMK mrt or not? Which mrt you pass by or where is your office? Maybe I'll try to drop by tomorrow or something.
 
pax: hahahah.. i am always like that.. if i use different passwords than my standard.. sure GONE CASE :p

that's is truth in that statement which u just made
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Star,

Hey, I went to read up on our gynae. Wow, so I'm not the only person who have quibbles with the receptionist. Wahaha. He's still using the same one? Agreed that he is a bit too pro induction and c-section though.
 
Astro,
tilting the butt up is 'proven' i think. cos i have read this many times.. cos gravity mah.. it makes sense. whatever the case, no harm trying even if it doesn't work!
 
mejo: he too high profile now, cannot engage him for #2.. too expensive. u know, he is known as the celebrity gynae now cos a few celebs looked for him. I am ok with his recptionist leh.. i joke with her quite a bit.. hahah
 
Oh yar, speaking of science center. YT is a scaredy cat. She is so frightened by the tesla coil demonstration. Haha. I'm super evil, kept going around thereafter to let her press on electric discharges displays. Wahaha. But she only press once and once she knows that is to show lightning, she refused to press again.

Because RR can't go science centre le so their tixs are now up for grabs again. By the way, i should be going down again this thurs. Anybody want to go? Those tixs will expire end feb, so must go within the coming week. Not advisable to go on 28th feb cuz they got free flow food so dunno whether got to pay extra and also sure got lots of people.

By the way, science center NOT open on mondays hor.
 
Star,

I dun think she is rude but then she badly messed up my appointment once and lied about it so dun feel very good about that lor. I mean, I din even bring it up. Too bad gynae have to question me about it so I got no choice but to tell the truth when it is obvious that he had been lied to.
 
Pinkpink,
no point separating them liao cos doctor says Reyden will sure get it, just a matter of time.

Huingee,
I don't mind them sleeping with us leh. Anyway it'll be for just these few years. They'll probably ask for their own rooms when they go to primary school.

YY,
Reyes is fine today except for the blisters on her backside. And the doctor was saying he could see lots of ulcers at the back of her throat but she's still eating well leh. Perhaps the disease not at its peak yet, shall see tomorrow's condition.

Daiso also has those vege and fruit cutters, many many rice moulds, egg moulds, cute animal picks & etc ... You didn't get any of those? But they don't have much for cutleries or lunch boxes lah.

Starfruit,
she's at home. How did Rae end up in hospital the other time? Cos the doctor told me it shouldn't be too serious as long as she's still eating and active.
 
Tks mummies for the well-wishes ...

Pax,
I'm not doing any fixtures for their room too, just all the movable items cos it'll be a temporary setup till they are ready to move into their own rooms.

Wanna check with you was it Jo or Matt that had got HFMD before? Or I remember wrongly?
 
I'm feeling super sian now, think I'm going to be stuck at home for the next 5-10 days. Can't even bring them out.
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Hubby says this is going to be a test for me to see whether I'll pass my SAHM probation. sickening ...
 
YY,

Yar, we know each other since preggy time and even saw each other at the gynae before. We are also admitted to hospital on the same day! Baby delivered one day apart cuz mine is c-section. If mine never c-section, probably Rae and YT would have been born on the same day.
 
RR! ha.. glad that u 'reported'..
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glad to know that reyes is stillfeeling ok .. what's wrong with the blisters on her bum? make it difficult for her to sit? hey.. hmm. these blisters.. iszit like those chicken pox kind ah? will leave scarring if broken?

i just got one rice moulds lor.. animal picks yet to venture there..
 
RR: aiyoh. ur hb no help ah! like miser like that when teng gena shingles! gloat on the side? arghh.. :p

mejo: wah.. i see..
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hey.. which march bb already 2nd birthday liao?

any kid borned today one ah?
 
rr
hope u can coping fine.

astro
sound like the gal has a point leh.
when i had my first, i used the lift up method. when i accidentally conceived leia, it was in a rush for an appointment...it came as a surprise.

star
u ought thr same strawberry shortcake for both lunar birthday?
 
YY,
the blisters on her bum are hurting her. Actually on the positive side, this gives me a chance to toilet train her. I didn't put on diaper for her for the whole day and she had a change of 6 shorts today but by the end of the day, she could take of her own shorts and sit on the potty to pee.

Ya, the blisters look like those chicken pox blisters.

Pax,
then I must have remember wrongly liao. I'm hoping that someone with the experience of 1 kid kena and not the other one come up to give me some hope. :p
 
YY,
he did helped lah but there's only so much he can do. He can't cook and they don't want him to feed. He could only help to bath them lor. Anyway he'll be back to work tomorrow liao.

Pinkpink,
today's still alright but doctor says Reyes' condition still not at the peak yet. I also don't know what to expect.
 
re: mickey cake

Think swensons has mickey mouse designs ice-cream cakes? Should be nice ...
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Another sad thing, they'll miss their birthday party in school next Mon. I had already gotten the goodies bags and planned for the cake liao. haiz ...
 
Ash,
ya, confirmed this morning, should be from school. There are 2 cases in the N1 class and she's always running over to play with the N1 kids.
 
rr
dun be sad. their health more important. give them a good postponed birthday celebration! ask ur hubby to come home earlier to help.
 
pinkpink,
that's the problem with the armed forces. Don't think he can come home early. As long as they don't get too cranky or grouchy, I'm still fine.
 
mummies, finally i have time to log in. Been busy wif my 2 little tikes. Realli v chuan!!

I think my emotions had overcome me again cos i brokedown yday and todae. Yday hb went out wif frens and left us alone at hm. I managed to put both boys for noon nap then went to prepare lunch. Then contd wif my laundry. End up quickly go pump cos D overslpt and it was hitting 4hrs interval. I was like doing errands in the house like a siao char boh or i shld say like MAID. When hb came hm, we had a happy lunch. I wanted to go out shop but rained heavily. Then hb went to bathe and went for a nap instead. Can imagine how mad i was....i could hardly rest cos doing so much stuffs when he wasnt at hm. Then end up he went to rest while i was attending to both boys again. I got mad and went out at 8pm. I hack care ah bian didnt take dinner cos i told myself let hb go handle both of them since he so boh chap abt my feelings. When i rch hm, hb talked nicely to me as though nothing has happened...i just ren and kept quiet.

Then todae things happened again...i was abt to go out for some fresh air(to tabao lunch) then hb stopped me at the gate cos D woke up for milk. I felt so pek chey and brokedown again. In the end i told hb how i felt during this period. I think he regarded me as a "SUPERWOMAN" who can handle both boys alone. Yes, i told him i can but i oso need some solo time to go out for a while and appreciate if he can help to take care of them. I told him "SUPERMUMMY" isnt a nice job to take up...can ki siao. And i told him if he can come home earlier sometime to take care of D then at least i can rest or breathe some fresh air.

I dunno wad overcame me...i just felt fed up and kept asking why i wanna be so capable.
 
bb_mar,
cool down ... men need constant reminders. I flared up at my hubby yesterday too. He wanted to go to the zoo then came back all tired and he just went to take a nap. I had to cook and feed RR and after they made a mess of their dinner, I simply shouted for my hubby to wake up and help.
Then he gave me the very innocent face and told me that he didn't know that I need help, I should have just tell him instead of flaring up. aiyoh ... men ...

So your hubby knows what you want after you talk to him? Cannot assume that they know what we want and will take the initiative. As long as he does help after you tell him to, it's already very good of him liao.
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bbmar
when ur hubby is home, keep shouting for him to help. that's wat i do. i shout at him to do things. no pt trying to be superwoman when he is ard. when he's not ard, then really got to be superwoman.

u know recently i went for dinner w my colligs n left him to handle the kids. i got home close to 12. all 3 of them zzz in the room. when we went to his aunt's house for gathering a few days later, he kept talking abt how he handled them when i was not ard.. then i suan him. i said "ya. that's only 1 nite. when u go reservist, then how?"
 
irin, bbmar
ya ya. Men r like that one. if u dun shout for help, they will do their own things. like i say, when he's ard, jus keep asking for his help. dun let him idle. once he's idle, he thinks u dun need help liao. he'll go wandering away. wahahaha!
 
Pax,
haha, same here. I'll always shout for my hubby to help else he'll just assume that I can handle. He asked me once "then how you cope when I'm not around?" I retorted: "so you want me to take it as you not around liao huh?" He shut up after that. :p
 
RR, i think u & pax will understd beta cos in the same trade. He alys go out early and back v late. I feel v bored...i think dats y i cant tahan and broke down instead. And one thing, men is very insensitive. i have to open up else he will take for granted.

U noe, day before d's full mth i even washed the toilet bowl and scrub the floor cos i told him to do several times but he nvr did. I dun like to depend on pple too much and eventhough i was still recovering and doing confinement i hands on myself instead. At least i feel happier after dat.
 
pax, he sees me walking ard and doing so much stuffs todae then he offered to vaccum and mop the floor todae. But when i told him i wanna go buy some stuffs then he said he wanna go cut hair. Like trying to be funny lor...i wanna go out and he oso wanna go out. I mean for his working schedule, he can surely go cut hair anytime mah...
 
bbmarch,

Men got to train. Train them to do stuffs. If you let them get away with not helping you or not doing the tasks that they have promised to do, they will continue to do so, they will bian ben jia li. Make them do it! And remember to praise them for it, even if it is badly done.. :p
 
bb_mar,
your hubby's like mine too. Everytime I want to do something, he'll tell me let him do it. But after weeks, the work is still undone and I end up doing it on my own too.

But then with the market now, it's really tough out there so you got to bear with it abit lah.
 



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