Nana, thanks for asking.
when u ask me how was tian... actually initially i tot she was ok to didi, in fact she IS ok with didi. but then, that day her fever came back, etc etc. cranky, and whole house so noisy, so many ppl talking to her. she got confused and she also cranky. i linked that to insecured feeling cause of didi's arrival. so i din reply u.
then after mil left, i must say tian is a good girl, she is ok with didi. she helps me with lots of things. she even ask me why didi is so small, and when we can bring didi out.
i ask her to wait for me, 1 month!
so afterall, i am happie
autum, now i am back and kind of more settled. can go agency again.
jay said he is going this friday. or thursday. see how.
yes, another update, my maid cannot come le due to family issue (dunno true or not de la), so we have to start hunting for one again. still have time, no issue! staying cool now.
my milk supply, i totally forgot how little i can pump out during early days for tian. last few days i tried to pump again, total failure. i got blocked ducts here and there. so i consult my lactation consultant STAR, and managed to clear most of my ducts. now enduring and my supply is back. the oni good thing about pumping is i have more freetime for myself. someone can help me feed bb and i can play with tian. the washing parts, v terrible.
another reason for breakdown initially was jay washed my pumping accessories. and he LOST two mini adaptors attached to the tubings. jialat, i cannot find the tubings at all. so we had to get bunnie to rescue since she has a spare set. really my saviour. my mum was surprise that i am so resourceful.
some irritated statements from mil din really make me angry la, just irritated a bit.
something like, when my mum ask me if i wanna eat sweetcorns (from the soup), mil interrupted and said the soup is too liang for me, cannot.
my mum also kept quiet.
when i walk out of my room, without wearing slippers, mil will comment: aiya, slippers also never wear, later get feng1 tong4 then u know.
and when i brought boy back to hospital, i put on a hat for him. mil ask me where is my hat? i was like, i dun have la. even if i have also put in wardrobe for years liao. dun need la.
mil said later i got tao hong?
alamak. i just ignore .
quite irritating right? but i just bochap. luckily i manage to take her statement not so seriously.
now she is coming back 2 weeks later. with another sil. so .... are they going to stay in my house again (with CL)???????? or stay at bil's place? i hope they sek4 do... (smart enough to know what is best for me and everyone).