(2007/03) March 2007 MTBs

ok, i going to sleep now. good nite mummies.
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astro
*hugs* hang in there. Teng is fine and a vv good boy..

re: Boys vs Girls
after getting to know so many baby girls and boys, both here and in my other thread, i declared that BOYS ARE MORE CHIN CHAI AND EASIER TO TAKE CARE... GALS? aiyo.. def more demanding... any opinion on this?
 
pax
i dun know cos i only have 1 girl! but i heard boys are naughtier and active, somehow u have a guai guai matthew which is a big blessing!
 
Autum: hmm .. coming from a person who was once medically diagonse as depressed ah.. i think it is not really within their control to affect the pple around her or not lei. coz i screamed at everyone when i was medically depressed tht time.. but i was really seriously very miserable.. i needed a lot of support.. a lot of support that time.. and it doesn't help that my 'loved' ones shy away from me.. i am fortunate that my hb and family .. supported me.. else i dun think i can walk out of this depression..

which is why.. i am very sensitive to mums here.. who have problems. once they complain only.. i quickly step in and offered help.. welcome or not. another issue.. cause it is very vunerable to complain .. coz it sometimes hurts if not receiving enugh affirmation.. of coz enough or not enough is subjective.. like i hit PAx's quota liao. so make her unhappy liao. I apologised but i know she is still concerned abt me.. I responded this way tonight because i have recovered.. but if i were still depressed.. it wun have help..

dunno what happened to edde that time.. but i think she needed help.. coz like what she said.. her own daughter.. low birth wirght.. not our kids.. we can't undretsnat why she is unhappy abt.. it is the same like teng overeating i scared.. she wun be able to understand what i am saying also..

something like that..
 
Pax: thanks for the hug.. but hor.. can i irritate u again?? u like to do quickies huh??hmmm.. correct laio lor.. my interpretation of ur marital life with ur Aries hb!!! hahahahah!!!!!!
 
PAx: ya. 'twin' bro commented that it is veyr hard to work for ladies boss!! coz women take everything so personally!! startign from bbs liao.. !!

ehh. can we save this forumn for our kids to read in the future ah?!? will be so amusing for them to read!! whahahah
 
astro
u r 1st time mom, can't expect u to know everything. but u can't go on worrying abt everything too.. kan kai. the 1st 4 months r the toughest for all mommies, esp 1st time mommies. like QQ, Autum, myself, we all went thru difficult times. i guess everyone of us has different ways of handling things. with Autum, i msn her, talk to her, now she's ok. u jus to work out somewhere. u have a great friend in Joelle.. she's vv helpful too.. do talk abt it, but like u said, u hit my threshold liao.. maybe bcos i PMS! tat's why my threshold lower.. wahahaha.. *hugs* u r doing fine. Teng is well taken care of.
 
astro
actually not really.. my boss, a MAN, has mood swings worse than women!!! terrible! he's not the 1st case i've heard abt. i know of my gfs' MEN BOSSES also like that.. lady bosses r not tat bad lah..
 
PAx: alamak. then i have nothing to say . just that i very suan to hit quota.. becoz u PMS! next time when u 'clear' ah. tell me in advance.. then i save my whining.. and prepare when u 'clear' days.. :p:p

yalor.. joelle also always get whined at by me.. she buay tahan.!!! whahaha.. wink at tituteo..

sigh. tomorrow's another day. right? hmm.. something good abt astro lei pax. she might get hurt fast. but she recover even faster!! u know bu dao weng?.. no matter how u hit them, they bounce back.. irritating right? just so astro!

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alamk, just read on belle's blog that chloe is sick.. no wonder dun see her online..hmm..maybe sms her and see how she is.

ok i need to go to bed now..nite all.
 
pax: I can totally understand, i have ex fellow male colleagues.. PMs worst than woman, mood swing everyday.. and petty like hell too!! think we woman more tolerence and xin1 xiong1 more kwan1 da1..hehe
or maybe we virgo no tolerence for this kind of men!
 
pax: haha. yalor. some men.. horrible.. like u say. maybe they mommy's boys.. horrible :p

some female 'bosses', like me, are easier to work with.. if u can stand my straightforwardness. .haha :p AStro is as transaparent as air....
 
star: good night.. chloe sick.. jialat.. bbs sick.. mummies also likely to follow. update us how chole and belle is tomorrow?

virgo = perfectionist.. :p
 
pax: just lef tthe two of us liao. coz dunno what pink doing.. think she must be spreeing lah. her fav pastime mah..

would like to continue to irritate u .. but think need go bed and do some reflection.. like me say lah. me whining coz undecided.. *sigh*..very troubled. need to really go and sort out my thoughts.. and 'kan kai' as u said..
u rest early also.. coz else no energy to ah bish me. also very sad lei :p

night pal...
 
good nite all
astro, me not spreeing, im posting some preloved clothes for sales..hahhaa to clear my wardrobe

poor chloe...sms her mummy tomorrow
 
good morning...
joelle.. u know me ah.. i prefer a blank table. or some minimal thingy on it ok..
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but i also need STURDY legs.

edde, i FULLY understand. we ar enot the main caregivers, so we got to see open a bit, otherwise our lives will evolve around those unhappy things, no point la. If we can change the situation, just do it. if not, we TRY, TRied liao still cannot, then SEe open. some time later then come back try again.

Pax, Jo is a tough gal, and i can imagine that she is fierce and steady. haha!!! I feel that gals are really more sensitive and more TEH2.. sometimes cannot stand it, a little bit also complain. I was pumping this morning, tian woke up, and wanted to shh shh. i told her i was pumping, then she waited for half a min then cried a bit(soft soft type). I repeated myself, wait. She waited for another half a min then TEH again.. frequency increase, and started to give me very cham look with some tears. ok! i stop pumping, then give her potty. Shh liao happy, put her back to cot and she happy liao. gals!!!
I also have an impression that boys are more tough and easy to take care of.
see, not many boys here rejecting milk right? all boys guai guai drink milk and eat a lot! boys dun care, just eat! haha!
 
astro.. thats what i feel too. u are quite a perfectionist.. Do you think you want your boy to be a perfectionist like you? (just curious)

Yvonne, I'm interested in the swimming lesson. haha!

actually i think i can also bring tian to swim alone cause nothing much, just go into water with her. then i dun bath her. I just wipe a bit and go back home pom pom. dont' go swim just before dinner, so that u have time to go back pompom, can still bring bel for swim ma.
 
carol,
no prob. another day. i'll most prob bring her to gymboree still cos i wanna do sth with her on my off day
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star,
thks for the blankie advice. where to find blankies for bbs? i've never seen much of them before. that's why wanted to jump on this opportunity to buy
 
SQ, i bought my blanket from MEtro...
dunno what brand.. the quality not bad... i feel like buying another one..
ok, go meeting liao.
 
Hey mummies: Reading through your threads about Kindermusik, I believe more strongly that I wanna put my son thru the course. I joined the trial and was very impressed with educator Shauna. Like Yvonne, I was mesmerised by her voice and the way she made lesson so FUN. My son and I thoroughly enjoyed. Mummy very tired though. I think it's a good idea to expose babies to music so that they can enjoy the fun of it. Later on if the interest takes him, I wanna let him learn a musical instru or two... dunn wanna force him but wanna expose him to many things so he can make "informed" decisions.
I'm also a believer of flashcards at fast speed.
It really works I tell you all!
After flashing the cards a few days at fast speed (once or twice a day), my 7mth old could choose the correct card out of 2 cards each time.
And sometimes he wasn't even looking at the cards during flashing but still could get the right answer quickly.
Amazing.

Okay, back to Kindermusik...
I want to enrol my son but dun wanna join existing class cos wan my son to start at same footing with other babies preferably around same age, and by SHAUNA. So if I can form my own class of 12, then we can all start a Sunday course at 11am by Shauna...
Otherwise I will be put on waiting list for her new class next year Jan 16...

Any takers wanna form a class with me?
 
yvonne,
go woodlands pool together with me la. i'm there every sun with YE as long as my auntie doesn't visit me.

she loves swimming. now 2 shades darker than her natural color. she always squeals at the pool, so everybody (my dad, brother, hubby) loves bringing her there.

and she always attract a lot of attention cos she's the youngest. if you not scared paisei, go with me lor
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Morning Mummies,
Finally back to work today.
I don't think boy is easier to take care leh.

QQ,
Mine boy also reject milk. Now he don't like to eat porridge too. Will try to split out the porridge. Then i try to force so very messy.
 
autumn/Starfruit/QQ,
dun know why I previous post lost.
I got confirmation from Veryberry my loot still with her.

<font size="+1">Sorry</font> for the mis-comm.
 
re: boy or gal easier to take care
Think it's a character thingy. My boy's more guai. His character like Daddy, quiet & shy. Gal's like me, a terror. hahaha.
 
QQ,
metro got bb blankie? ok, i go check.
haven't been to CWP for quite some time liao.

yvonne and kate,
i'm already in the midst of kindermusik with my gal. she likes it after 2 trials so we are continuing. we just barge in a class halfway and no problem. the teacher is NOT shauna, but we're ok with tat. i'm not a fan of any individual. reminds me of TMC's Mrs XXX (forgot her name) that "everybody" idolise. haha.
 
re: boy vs gal
my gal more difficult to take care than my nephew. so i think it depends on character, and how we nurture her. and of course genes lah, me sum2 seng1 like her. or rather, she sum2 seng1 like me
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Starfruit: huh.. I tot threadfin is the most not fishy fish.. hahah.. cos I dont reali take these kind of fish myself unless outside I jst eat fish soup.. so I dont know.. hhmm.. I dont take salmon or cod fishmayb I try the baking with cheese method.. keke
 
SQ
YE old enuf liao.. it's ok...
oh the TMC idol? Mrs Wong BB lor.. heeee...

QQ
Jo not teh leh.. in fact this morning hor, she hurt heself, i also dunno how and where. she jus crawl to me crying, wan bao bao.. after that ok, she cont playing... quite independent lah. but her naps r messy lor.. aiyo..
 
pax,
you're here! was just gonna sms you but type here faster.

i'll go home check mail tonite. i hate green leh. but i like the size. wondering if i should just get a few green ones to stand by first. then wait till the other colors (esp pink!) come out.

cos i tot if it's pink, i'll sure get 10 pieces (5 sets). but green is so yucky. haha.... let me think about it, reply you tonight. thks!

thks for the blankie tip also. old enuf liao ah.. good good. but she hates blankie one lei. when she's drinking milk early in the am and her feet are cold, i'll cover her with blankie. then she'll refuse to drink her milk and just sit up liao
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oh ya ya ya... that woman. somehow i don't like her. and i know it's not fair to pass that judgement. cos i've never met her before. maybe it's the way she's "idolise" that i don't like her lah.

plus i've heard how my friends got "tormented" by her cos of the stress to bf. haha.... but we've passed that stage now
 
SQ
the green is pale green... not vv bad.. let me try to get the scan page.. i'm planning to get 10 sets in case anybody wan, OOS, then really too bad.

both my kids HATE blankets... i gave up. i jus dress them warm for the night...

TORMENTED? hmm.. really har? i din get that treatment wor
 
pax,
no need to scan lah. i have that green ones. haha... saw i saw the blue ones which they're giving away (either free or for a nominal sum). was hoping there's a range of colors
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ok, can i order 5 sets first (total 10 pieces). if next time got pink, please do NOT let me know. i sure die in my seat from frustration.

then there's another bigger size also right? i'm thinking of that too. aiyo, confirm tonight k
 
hi kate, there are a few mummies here who r interested but there were not enuf to form a class then... maybe we can start a list here?

Kindermusik Private Class by Shauna Sun 11am
1. Kate
2. Edde
3. Kiddo (still on?)
4. Astro (still on?)
 
pax,
thks for the sandwich case. she'll be happy to know. asked me about it a few times liao. haha.

and yes,
i've never seen the pink ones too. wonder why. since they are so nice!
 
Sesame Street Musical Takashimaya Square B2 1 pm, 4pm, 7pm
(23 Nov - 09 Dec) Tues - Sun

Christmas with Barney & Friends Marina Square, 2pm, 7pm (Tue - Thurs)
(23 Nov - 09 Dec) Central Atrium 2pm, 5pm, 7pm (Fri - Sun)

"Shine this Xmas" Suntec City, 4pm, 7pm (Tue - Sun)
Looney Tunes Musical Show Enertainment Centre Atrium
(30 Nov - 16 Dec)

Dora "Live" Musical Show United Square Tue - Fri, 1pm & 7pm
Date: Nov 23 - Dec 9 Sat - Sun, 1pm, 4pm & 7pm

SpongeBob SquarePants and Patrick "Meet & Greet" Tue - Sun
Date: Nov 23 - Dec 9 United Square 2pm & 5pm
 

SQ, i think blanket no problem la. somemore the one that i bot has many many holes... its thermal blanket though... by the way, u can crochet(or knit?? i forgot liao) one for YE.. but u are going to kill me for that. haha! cause time not enough.

huingee, u are back!
yalor. D is the only boy that i know who dun like to drink milk. dun force feed... cause i learnt from my bad exeprience of force feeding..
how? phuket fun?
 

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