Astro,
that PD really say that to u, remove food quietly if Teng dun wants.. actually hor, i've been doing this leh, though i dun know whether is that a right reinforcement!! sometimes my boy fuss over his food, he either eat very little or totally dun want. So everytime, i will tell in very firm tone, that i will remove his food if he dun wanna eat. and he better dun ask for food later....
For this, i always get scolding fr mil. Just like last night, my boy eat all the dishes, but never touch rice. then he went to nap a while at 7pm! then 8.30pm, my boy asked for his milk. My mil asked me if wanna give him rice again. i asked y. she said cos he never eat rice and his next milk feed at 9pm. So i replied since he dun want his rice, dun give him anymore, if u give rice at 8.30pm, can he still take his milk at 9pm... too full to take milk right??? Then she angry..... ha, i dun care loh, cos i also angry. ;p