oh! back to this topic of skipping crawling and jumping to walking again! ok. now that i have 'been thru it'.. maybe i can share a bit on how i feel and my realisation from this matter? as well as some PD advice?
AA: dun worry.. remembered teng was also like that? and i dun think he is that jialat as ur fren put it.. sometimes.. the more we try to stop it. the more 'agony' we caused ourselves.. i am speaking from the perspective of someone who has been thru it.. but thankfully teng didn't turn out that way.. yet.. the more i want him to crawl. the more pressure i put on my family and him.. and so the more u want to stop something from happening.. the more stress u are going to put on urself and ayden. if it is meant to happen. it will happen..
remembered i kept pestering the PDS.. three of them in fact.. they all told me.. it is normal.. though they do acknowledge there are divided camps on this issues.. some said it should be a continual spectrum.. some don't view it that way..
my own view. yes skipping crawling is not favoured. coz it makes u 'slower'. coz u need to be able to crawl to be able to push urself to sit up and stand up etc.. it is in human development range.. to crawl first then to right downself up to walk lah..
but i dun see how we can stop someone from walking first then crawl.. coz really.. it was so stressful..that time.. haiz..
teng has very strong legs like ayden!he could stand very firmly on his foot when we support him even as an infant of 2 mths old..
i have a colleague here.. whose girl is not crawling yet..1 year plus liao. same case like teng.. but unlike teng who wants to walk unaided. that girl freezes and does not want to cruise also.. he is taking it easy.. and said.. everyting will go smoothly.. that chap is a laywer .. always impressed with his attitude of 看破红尘 kind..he is just enjoying being with his girl..
looking back. i ought to be like him more.. teng turned out fine mah! ha.. the old gingers here (ops.siam ;P) are a lot meaner!
at the end of the day.. i guess it boils down to the uniqueness of each baby. and u def have some joker.. who like teng.. likes to reverse his cycle.. now he is crawling around .. ejoying it so much. i dunno what to do with him
RR: an bish u ah.. reyes is one of the smartest girls i came across! hey. i didn't know she skip crawling wor. i thought i saw she crawled the other time? or was it reyden? then i dun mind equating teng to reyes wor. i seriously dun mind..

