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Pink,
Hey! How did the talk with ur maid went??
The more i hear abt ur maid, the more HOT i am. She do not look like a young and ignorant person to me. Infact she look smart so i tink she is 'playing' u.
Try this with her:
1. Tell her to carry out her work with pride. If others sees what a good job she has done whether its cleaning or caring for the child, they will praise her and she is the one who gets the praises not the madam. "Every job is important in their own way and your contribution to the family enables sir and madam to go to work at peace while u have the security of work and salary to bring home!"
If u do not carry out the work well and angered the employer, you will only find yourself out of work and money!
2. Tell her where exactly she needs to improve and give her a timeline to improve. Say 1 week from now and u 'mark' her performance 1 week later. Do this often and observe if she makes an effort to learn and improve.
3. Basic courtesy. Greetings like Good morning, thank you. Apologies like Sorry (Maaf - pronounced as Mah-AF) are ways of life and respect to oneself. I always tell the gals. "Madam respect you as a person and a adult the moment u step into my house. But once u fail to respect others (madam, sir, visitors etc), madam lose this respect for you. Just as u respect your parents, friends and family, u must respect every other person. Whether its Leia or another maid. Repect is to be earned, so just as madam respect you as a person, you should do the same."