mummies,
ha. just saying nia lah. mb i'll join next time when i'm more confident. in theory, it seems easy to bring e 2 out but when u execute it, u find it near impossible. i mean, it's nt tt i cannot do it but i dun tink it'll b in e best interest 4 e kids. if mandy wanna sit on e mrt seat, i wanna b able to let her n not force her to sit in stroller. same 4 if she wanna run ard in e mall, wan me to carry etc etc.
like wat jen said, i dun wanna force her or resort to scolding her when it's nt her fault. e gathering is supposed 2 b 4 her oso mah.
but if i let her get outta e stroller, i can't pick her up when i ergo barry n push a stroller. i oso can't run after her efficiently even when i haf barry in e stroller. n wat happens when barry gets hungry n mandy gets grouchy? it'll b unfair to barry if i hafta make him wait too long 4 food too... so ya, i can't bring e 2 out myself. b4 i popped, i still told some o mummies tt after e 1st mth i'll bring both out n shop w them liao. haha... wishful tinking!
oh ya, n thx 4 wanting 2 help jagar mandy but she hor, most prob won't let u! hiak hiak.
jen,
wow, u do wkends urself? must b tough! at least 4 me, i haf my mum 4 a few hrs on wkdays n my mil comes twice a wk 4 a few hrs too. i'm trying to lengthen e hrs i spend alone w e 2 kids at home. like my mum said, it's time 4 me to train. wkends i haf my hubby. i try my best to do everything myself but sometimes their feeding times clash etc so i'll still ask 4 his help. but he's nice leh, has initiative i must say.
sleep huh? sama sama. barry wakes mandy. mandy wakes barry. barry dun sleep mandy can't sleep. mandy dun sleep barry can't sleep. this happens everyday, TWICE. nap time n bed time. hahaha.. n it so happen tt barry's period o wakefulness is b4 mandy's naptime n bedtime. he will cry until i latch him b4 he guai guai keep quiet n sleep. q a headache.
today i was brave. barry was crying n mandy hasn't slept but i told my mum she could go home. heng mandy slept while barry was crying.
i was telling my fren i haf to choose 1 kid to torture everyday. like tt time i had to bathe mandy n barry started crying. hubby nt home. bobian, let him cry. by e time i'm done w mandy, barry had turned red n cried until no voice liao. another time mandy woke up fr her nap crying but i had just latched barry. quickly unlatch him n went to mandy. just when mandy was falling asleep barry cried den mandy heard n cried again. bobian had to leave mandy n tend to barry. mandy slept after a few cries...
lotsa logitics issues w 2 kids under 2. hehehe.. tt's y i cheong ard e whole hse everyday. sometimes i RUN fr room 2 room. i'm sure u do tt too!
gee, i'm so long winded. too long nv post is lidat one. haha..
fizz,
ya, i tink cae is you xiu too!