(2006/12) December 2006 MTBs

Connie,
may i hv the contact for prata man too??

[email protected]

for future parties
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cheers
 


Chang,
9 more days..u will see ur bb soon, really excited for you, my edd 4dec but my gynae seem v confident i will pop end of nov or later leh..4 more weeks to go...

Bloom,
yea 600g in 2 wks, i guess is the fresh milk i drank very morning and night leh..coz i been controlling my food intake liao.
 
MBB,
Har? Regina bought her boy into the class? With a boy running around how to yoga? Your hubby knows how to babysit meh? But good lar..give your hubby a heads up on babysitting!!
 
Dey,
tat was why hb trying to distract the boy coz really cannot get started.
well, it juz showed me how bad hb is at bbsitting. hee heee...

after falling down twice, her hb came to take him downstairs.

i guess coz i am the only one in class, she quite casual lor.
 
MBB,

Ya lor.... that's y I can still remember till now... even my sis cannot tahan her... my sis asked me to tell her that I'm the mother of the child and she's not. She make me cry on my first day back home from hospital... and mind u, she doesn't have any children b4 and yet I've took care of my nieces b4, so who is who.... hiaz...

Connie,
Ya, to me, she's consider Snr Citizen.... she's 24 yrs older than me.....

Ur prata man make me craving for tissue prata!!! but I can't afford him...sad man, still got choco prata somemore..... *Faintz*
 
feire, doggiebb
heehee....of course excited....i thk my boiboi oso beri excited....cos he has been wiggling alot nwadays.....

yup doggiebb, my gynae say c sect must b done during the 38th wk....the date i choose is 37 wks 4 days....thk shld b ok

vanessa
wow.....ur sil really scary leh......thk she 4got u re bb's mum
 
Vanessa,
wah, ur SIL super pain man. who she think she is?? i wld oso get really upset! 24yrs older, no wonder la...

doremi
ur wedding din sound like mine. my mum can be a bit ai4 mian4 zi3 oso. Her frens kids wedding have many tables, invite many ppl, she oso want to follow. So, i told my mum right from the start i intend to hv small wedding din, less then 30 tables and told her she can only have x number of tables (I forgot how many, but i know it is enuf for relatives), then after that my mum grumble that she didn't get to invite all her frens. But I really didn't care cos it was my wedding and i'm paying for it and i want to celebrate with ppl i know. So, she just have to prioritise her frens! =P naughty hor? Most of the time my mum and i get along, afterall, we are family, but sometimes, i think that for old generation, when it comes to this type of things, somehow, they want to "show off" or become ai4 mian4 zi3 at our expense, then i'll put my foot down lor. heehee!
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karen sg
nowadays my diet very healthy cos' not working since end sep......so can cook at hm....normally boil or steam my stuff & eat brown rice....but once in awhile i do makan outside & eat some sinful stuff....my gynae said it's ok.....provided dat i dun overdo it ;p btw, how much weight did u put on????...my gynae said i m not supposed 2 put on 2 much. ur bb how heavy at 30 wk???
 
vanessa, to me she also like senior citizen lei..

she close to or 50s liao right?
if so, just a few years younger than my mum lei..

she must have tot tat she took more salt than u eat rice la... ignore her la.. let her bang walls several times, hopefully she will know how to retreat..
 
gwer, vanessa,

Yeah! yeah! no full mth celebration! away w e trouble n nosey parkers!!!!!

feire,

so envious! ur bb grew so much! i drink 500ml o milk everyday! n i din gain much weight, only bt 6kg. how come my bb grew so little! haiz... then where did all e food go huh? oh yah... i must haf pooed too much! digestive system too efficient! heh heh...
 
vanessa,

ur sil v annoying leh! luckily my hubby bo chap her siblings one n i oso no need to chap them... so they oso dun chap me... heh heh..

btw, thx 4 e info bt hospital giving diapers. wah! pampers premium!!! so ex one leh!


chang,

my mil v nice hor? if only my mum's as nice... ur mum v good leh. so concerned bt u, do so much 4 u. so nice o her...
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doremi, bobianah
sigh my dad oso very ai mian zi......but i simply bo chap.....i didnt ve any wedding dinner cos both my hubby & i find it very troublsome....so we held our wedding cum rom on a yatch.....we only invited our immediate families & very close fren.....told dad yatch cannot tahan so many people ow will capsize...heehee....of course he not happy but oso bo bian :p so now he didnt even ask me abt my plan 4 my bb full mth.....he noes me 2 well liao.....but my mum told me my relatives ve been gossiping abt me not ving wedding dinner.....aiyah....really cant stand those people....
 
bobianah, doremi,

ha... my mum oso last min add pple n bcos o tt, we almost ran outta invitation cards! used up to e last one. yah, their generation dunno y care bt face so much. after e dinner, my sis came n tell me "very good! this place is v class! mum is v happy! she said nobody can match up.." wah, i tot she's happy bcos there were no hiccups! chey...

we sourced 4 cheena souvenirs 4 our guests mah cos our dinner is oriental theme. got a few diff kinds. after e din, my mum said e sandalwood fan is v nice but nt all her frens got it cos some came late n e fan's already snatched up. she asked me to go buy some more 4 her frens wor! i din lah! crazy... who asked them to b late?
 
Vanessa,
Why your SIL so kpo one? Next time u shld just tell her straight the baby is yours not hers!!!

MBB,
That time u published a list of massage ladies contact numbers here right? Can you give me the list again? I hvn't book my massage lady yet leh...
 
dey,

Cos she's snr citizen n my hb respected her like his own mother, hence I can't do that, but she knows I pu shuang.... even now, I will show her my pu shuang face whenever I don't like it...Like motherhood have make me grow stronger
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kimi,
yes yes...hopefully more peaceful this time.

vanessa,
ur SIL is not married yet is it? She seems rude leh... think whatever it is, let our husband talk to his own side better...I think less conflicts compare to we ownself go & talk...sigh...
 
hi shihui,

i also hav those tiny little "meatball" look-alike thingy on my aerola on my right breast. i tink is normal to hav the so-called meatball..
oni my left breast got colostrum. so funny lor..

hi jen,

i also flat-footed.. tats y when walking, i can feel both my feet pain pain. n somemore unbalance also.. like my legs cannot support my body weight..

hi shihui
 
hi hi ladies...
so busy this morning... much work to do... n my leave coming up soon.... sibei stress ah...

re the full month celebration... tat day i also test test water... i not very keen in full mth celebration... anything tat involves a lot of relatives one hor... i try to avoid... tat's y i didn't even have my wedding dinner...

but cannot just tell hubby lidat.... he'll not be happy... tat time didn't have the wedding dinner, he already a bit grouchy.... his mum also not shiok... now must be careful!!! ha ha...

i dread the poking tat i can envision from all the relatives also... tat's y been hinting to hubby tat bbies usually get very grouchy after the full mth celebration... so very difficult to take care after tat...
 
qwer,
Haha, my hb will nvr talk, like I've said, he respected her like her mum and they nvr reprimand each other, not like me n my sis, if we bu shuang, I will just let her know, but he won't lor, he will tell me, aiya nvr mind, she's only here once a week, what harm will she cause
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Serene,
Funny leh, I also only have it on my left breast....hahaha...
 
kimi
yup!!!....ur mil really beri nice....well we cant ve the best of both world but at least we re blessed 2 ve at least 1 who is so nice 2 us
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yeah
 
hello ladies,
me back...me kena flu from my no. 1, has been sneezing, nose red like reindeer liao.

Chang,
Wow, u first to graduate should you go for c-sect. But i still prayed that you can go through natural birth
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vanessa, serene
hah???....i m going 2 give birth liao leh but i still dun ve colostrum.....how????....can still BF????....dunnoe got milk ornt
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CF Chang,
Can lah, endurance, determination n patience are the keys... last time I also don't have, still manage to breastfeed
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geri
heehee.....actually i m mentally prepared liao....as long as bb is healthy & safe......anythg is ok wif me
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although i really wanted 2 experience natural birth
 
Dey,

Mdm. Rohaya: 93863019 ($50 per session).
Mdm. Rohaya: 94506374 ($70 per session, she is supposed to be better but she did not replied my sms).
Mdm. Rokiah: 92716091 (7 session $538, promotion price 7 session $488) Promotion period dec 06 and jan 07.
Mdm. Susi: 90072875 (10 session and 2 hot mask $500) She have mixed review.
Mdm. Manja: 94877034 ($45 per session).
Mdm. Sadiah: 97724579 ($45 per session).
Mdm. Katijah: 98001394 (7 session $350).
Rose: 96207278 (7 session $300).
Mdm. Naini: 94562817 (10 session $600).

I booked mdm. Sadiah.
 
cf chang,
i also dun hv colostrum yet.
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mbb,
think mdm rohaya (the $70 one) is fully booked for dec liao. i called her n she said no slots for me.
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mdm naini is now charging $700.
 
Chang,
congrats to u to graduate among us ar. pls share ur expereince with us hor..

today topic abt full mth celebration. I am thinking of not celebrating. cos my hb side got ZERO relatives here. then neighbour lagi dun say lar. my PILs hakka. sibei "diao" one . no much frds lidat one. dunno why. maybe they how lian.. look down on pple. my MIL is this kind of pax lar. then my family is vegans.. sure if setup buffet then who want to eat vege? moreover my realtive those aunty & uncles not all supportive one. So better dun invite lar. wait hv to coordinate with no of pple to cfm also sian.
I think at the most full mth invite own frds can liao lor.
 
hi, anyone here taking extendded mat leave?
me thinking of getting more leave lei.. but not sure whether my boss will agree or nt.. cos mar/apr time is year end closing.. sure supper stressful one.. and right after closing is year end audit..

initially wanted to take 3+3, but now seems like not possible.. now dun know whether will she approve 3+1..

coy has pro-family policies.. so coy policies its ok to take extended leave, but dun think my RO will let me go lei..

now also dun know how to ask her... my tempt coming in on mon.. maybe wait till see her performance then say..
 
Vanessa,
Ur sil is too much, maybe she think u too young at that age,what make her think the bb will drink on her hand..

Luckily i dont have sil, even my MIL will not unreasonable to me, bcoz i wont listen if i think is nonsense.

Kimi,
I put on 18kg liao scary, i poo twice a day tho..
You can enjoy food as much as u can now but i cant :'(..
 
Och,
no wonder mdm Rokiah din reply me.
the other Rokiah, my fren tried abt 2 mths back. she was quite happy with her service.
 
Thanks MBB! Need to scan through the list and start calling...Some of them charge quite high rates hor...
 
Chang,
ya agree, so long as bb is healthy & safe.

Me in my 35week tomorrow, getting really excited. Hubby even reminded me to pack hospital, getting really excited too
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MBB,
I booked Mdm Sadiah too :D.
 
Dey,
yup. tats why i decided to settle with Mdm. Sadiah. coz at $45 per session, i can afford to extend if it's good. plus she dun take payment in advance.
 
Feire,
I also put on about 18kg since..but i noticed my weight starts to remain constant now..i read somewhere that starting from week 35 onwards, we will not put on much weight already..Water retention problem is getting serious..especially my legs..when i pressed a finger on my thighs, can see the yellow markings taking a long time to disappear..then the sole of my feet is so painful when i stepped on them..gotten wear better cushion shoes now..
 
bobianah, cf chang,
my mum hor initially told me dat she dun feel like inviting alot of relatives n frens to my wedding..so i asked her to agar how many tables so dat i can 5 5 go look for restaurant or ballroom mah. when i booked leow then last minute she increased the no. of guests coming..haiz...end up, i nid to go to the restaurant twice to take more wedding cards n kena nagged by her somemore...saying dat we very "xiao qi"..haiz...really bo bian ah~ T.T

cf chang,
i attended the BSMG workshop hor, the speaker said dat it's ok if we dun hv anything coming out from our breasts now cos hor, our colostrum are oredi inside ever since we are pregnant from dunnoe wk wat to wat..tink abt 10++wks (tik it's during our 1st trimster)..sorry i forget leow. she asked us not to worry cos we sure got colostrum in our breasts stored for our bb one then hor as for BM, it's demand = supply. the more u let bb latch on, the more u hv. but of cos, it depends on individual lah. the speaker asked us not to worry, our breasts are solely cater to the needs of our bb de. normal pple hor, can cater to twin's needs loo~ so tink u dun scare if got the the determination there...
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vanessa,
oo..ur SIL geng loo~ very jia lihai leh..:p wat made her milk so special?? chey...no bb still dare to comment on other pple. tink if i'm in bad mood hor, i will definitely accidentally show her dat kind of "c her no up" de face..hehehe...tik dun choi her is the best solution leow, no pt argueing wif her, very waste breath..hehehehe...
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doremi
aiyo.....at least u bother 2 go restaruant twice 2 get the cards.....ur mum shld b happy loh....

oh.....thxs 4 ur info.....heehee...i m very positive 2wards BF even though i need 2 start my tuition in jan....so can only confinement 4 1 mth but i believe i can do it......4 my bb.....must jia you.....my sil keeps telling me.....beri difficult lah....cos she finds it very tiring 4 her...
 
cf chang,
in fact, if i were to include the searching of restaurant, testing food, collecting cards n those wedding biscuits..tink we went to the restaurant for 4 or 5 times..haiz...guess really bo bian lah..T.T

welcome..i just hope dat i can hv ur determination for BF loo~ now really very lost but kinda being "spiritualize" by all the encouragements given here.
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Dey,
Yea i notice i put on lesser than b4 now..only 1kg from last visit,but my bb gain faster than i though lor. water retention problem is serious for me too..my legs now like elephant leg
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cant wear any shoe, only can wear soft sole slipper, but come office cant wear slipper,hv to step down back of my shoe and walk slowly. v painful too.i think at this stage i feel my leg is more uncomfortable than my tummy leh.
 
Ladies,
Was so busy the whole day and only manage to sneak it when the action is over ......Think hor this will the be situation till i pop.....Sigh
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So today topic on full mth celebration ah. I am actually very surprise that my in-law is ok without any full mth celebration. Just need to give cake (tradition type with red egg)to close relative and ppl that give gift only.

Personally i just want a small celebration with close friends. But hor, staying with in-law so cannot lor. Think i will do without celebration otherwise it will be another wedding dinner style...Cannot imagine the house with more than 100 ppls
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wah... so much on monster SIL.. heee~ :p i'm so afraid of pple who yi2 lao3 mai4 lao3 one... hai~ now info easily available liao... pple not as ignorant as in the past liao... can't tahan when seniors keep pushing their thinkings on me.. :p

Vanessa, Serene,
interestingly, i oso onli hav colostrum on my left breast leh.... :p

Serene,
my "meatball" abit pain when i accidentally rub against it leh.. so worried tt maybe it's my fingernails tt ripped off one of the "nozzles" on the aerola.. hopefully the pain will go away.. else will need to ask gynae on thurs during checkup liao...
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i also wanted a small celebration of close friends only. kind of feel that the relatives will be seeing the bb on cny which is just another month away, so there's no need for them to be at baby's first month. i dun mind sending them cakes lah. but even then, when my mil said nobody will want to come to my baby's first month, can feel my blood boiling. think i should just plan for my own small celebration with close friends. if mil wants to hv first month celebration with relatives, she can send me n bb invitation to appear. :p

vanessa,
just read abt ur sil. she is really too much. what makes her think she can feed the bb better than u?! ridiculous.

doremi,
pat pat. dun feel too frustrated by ur mum n i hope ur mum will change back to her old self. i know i was quite bothered n saddened those weeks when my mum called me up to tell me that she cannot cope lah, blah blah blah. but be happy ok. a few more weeks n u will be seeing your big big boy boy liao.
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ladies,
i understand the norm is to give angbaos to the cl at the start n end of confinement? may i know how much angbaos do u give the cl? also, how much should i budget for buying food n herbs during confinement? i'm working out the budget for confinement period n realise i'm quite clueless. really hv no idea what the figure should be.
 
Doremi,
The infant care that I went to is the tampines one, coz its just 2 blocks away.
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I remember the website says the charges is $1k before subsidy, $650 after subsidy. But when I ask the in charge, she says after subsidy, its $450(for citizen) and $650 (for non citizen). I didnt book yet coz am still not confirmed, and currently theres about 5 babies (youngest is 5 months).. so I think still got quite a lot of vacancy. But I was quite put off by the in-charge there as she was quite persistent for me to sign up that day itself. Kept saying that a lot of enquiries and that Dec a batch of babies coming in. I told her that will discuss w hubby first.

But from what I saw the infantcare quite okay not say v professional (or as professional as i hope for) but seems like more professional than the usual nanny. I oso saw the older kids there are very well behaved.

MBB, Geri,
I oso booked Mdm Sadiah
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hope she is good!

Shihui,
I oso got like a few small meatball on my areola. During antenatal class got mentioned its Montgomery gland or something.. usually harmless but depending on where it is, it might irritate babys mouth when suckling. Was quite worried coz there is one on my nipple itself! So went to find out more after the class and Mrs Wong brought me to a smaller room to do inspection on the spot! Was pleasantly surprised that she is so concerned. She says that mine is quite okay and shouldnt be a problem. Think she said that if the meatball is at the edge of nipple & areola then might cause some irritation to bb. Maybe u can check with your gynae?

Och,
Why your mil say nobody will come for your bb first month??

I still havent decided whether to have celebration or not.. since hubby oso dunno wat is first month celebration. My parents are chin chai abt it, and hubby haf no relatives here. Even if have it will be for close colleagues n friends.
 


Hi bobianah,
oic.but TMC did practise the enema issue. most of my friends and col delivered in TMC.

u didn't sign up for a delivery package at TMC meh? heard there is this $550 package from the start of pregnacy till one delivered. but it does not cover those scanning.

hmm the average weight of bb shd be more than 2.5kg better. underweight bb is not so gd as mentioned that the organs might not develop fully.

do check it out, we mummy also can claim the working mother's child relief (WMCR) and also parenthood tax rebate plus infant care subsidy care. one can check it up at the www.family.gov.sg. I also gg to check out the pre-delivery medical expense (medisave maternity package) with the hospital. it stated that this package allow one to use medisave for delivery expenses as well as pre-delivery expense (eg consultants, ultrasound) for yr lst to 4th child.
 

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