Hi WhiteLady, Piyo, HoneyB
Thanks
I still dun know why it tear. Doc asked me did I knocked my tummy upon anything but I have no idea. My parents think that it's because I carry Aden too much. My pil think that I go out too much during that weekend and furthermore, I accidentally saw a bride cos our neighbour is having wedding celebration.
This is how I spent my last weekend before Avelyn born on Mon. That Fri, I take leave. My mil always feel that the maid did not clean the house well, so she take the opportunity to clean the house together with the maid the whole morning. So, I was taking care of Aden myself that morning. My hubby took half day leave that day in the afternoon cos we need to bring the maid for interview. So, afternoon, after going for the interview, we bring Aden to IMM shopping.
Sat, my great grandma death anniversary. My relatives commented seldom see Aden and request us to bring him there. So, we go relative's house. And the moment I stepped out of my house, I happen to see the bride who just arrive from the lift. Out of superstitition, my pil feel that that the reason for my placenta tear cos' bride sha (4) qi (4) too strong as I'm pregnant.
Sun, I went to my parent's place and we went to relative house again cos' it's an elder's birthday celebration. And that night at 2.00 am, I start having tummy pain. The pain won't go and I'm already sweating until 4.00 am. I thought shouldn't give birth yet as time not ripe mah. So, didn't call my hubby who was sleeping with Aden on the floor. Furthermore, hubby is going for seminar next day, so dun want to disturb him. At 4.00 am, I have an urge to poo so I struggle to the toilet. Feel really not very well already as I can't walk very properly as my tummy really pain. While sitting down at the toilet bowl, suddenly I feel something watery come out. Thought waterbag burst but upon looking, my gosh, the whole toilet bowl filled with blood. Then I start panicking. I start calling my hubby up and quickly changed myself but the blood won't stopped. It keep gushing out and my whole toilet is filled with blood. Also, the moment, I'm bleeding, I can't feel my bb moving already. I'm so scared that moment. By the time, I reached KK, luckily my doc around cos he has a delivery to be done. He told me that I must go for op as I can't normal deliver anymore. BB heartbeat is getting weaker and placenta is torn. So, no choice, I was like ren (4) ren (2) zhai (3) ge (1) like that. guai guai go for op, else what to do.
After op, when doc come to see me, he asked me did I knocked my tummy upon anything but I really have no idea. I dun think so leh.