dsii & yb,
hehe. I'm goin for the photoshoot with david/ben of foto-u.com on the 11th next month. Hai. Am still thinking what clothes to wear or what to bring.. haha.. Hope that by then she can at least sit down then can do more cute poses. =D Gonna take convo shots too.. chose them cos the package is relatively cheap. had a proposal from the photogs who did my rom pics and it's like twice the price. can't afford it la.. haha..
Sandy,
Think ur hubby under alot of pressure already, dun overdo it... from what u're saying, he has a shop to run (which, in my opinion is no easy feat), he's got to contend with a wife who earns more than him, a baby to support/take care of, n a wife who is constantly asking him to get a house (which is not easy to get, kick his grandfather out of his house?)....
Sure there's a "by right" he be responsible for this n that, but every family situation is different. What's the "magic word" u r waiting to hear from him?
Anyway, the thing about having ur own house, like some of the mummies told u, it's not easy lor n I think it may bring about more challenges. I'm living with my in-laws during d wkdays n my parents during the wkends. And I pretty much appreciate the situation now.
Things we dun have to worry as much about staying with family: house loan, renovation expenses, household bills, having help for the bb (ok, sometimes still have to think about this cos we shld ultimately be the ones taking care of her, so feel guilty when we wan2 go out n date-date), household chores n cooking n laundry even. Actually, think our parents giving us chance n close one eye now cos my hubby's still studying. Really appreciate cos it lightens our load alot.
Of cos have to deal with "family problems" la.. but it's nothing compared to all the amount of help we're receiving.