MTDT,
She cannot manage alone cos not very mobile (she's 65). Now I go over during the day (like doing a 9-5 job) and then home in the evening when my FIL/SIL/BIL returns. Once i resume work, this arrangement cannot hold... Furthermore, I stay north, she stay east...
Actually, some of the infantcare centres are very good. The one I'm eyeing actually holds kindermusik & bb gym classes for them. Lots of playmates, lots of toys, freshly prepared food (e.g. home made applesauce), story telling, nursery rhymes etc. Minus will be the rush to pick Joshua up and the $$. Some pple say easier to fall sick --- I think of it the other way: so long as it's nothing too serious, it's a way to build up their immunity, so better for longer term.
Btw, I made the NUK teat hole bigger and he's drinking faster now. Thanks!