(2006/07) JULY 2006 MTB

Hong
Thanks for the suggestion! I will try it out.
I wonder is this normal as bb grow bigger, the tenderency of drinking lesser milk??
 


Hi Fruitee,

perhaps it got to do with the teats? Is it time to change?

BTW, when is the time to change the teat? Mine still using avent newborn...as my boy is rather impatient, so I dun want to change the teat, afraid he will choke.

Mummies, how many ml/ounces of milk do your babies take now?
 
Hmmm....I noticed my boy like to rest his head on his right side...whenever I move his head to the left, he will turn to the right...are all babies like that? I find he seldom like to turn his head left and right...always rest on his right side leh....why like that huh?
 
blessings
I tried changing the teats to Avent no.2 but in the end, he vomit everything out.. maybe the hole too big liao.. so I let him stick to the newborn one.. he ok ley.. My boy also impatient that's why I tot could be becos the new born teats too small but in the end...
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My boy drinking 180ml every 4hrs.
 
lucida
my boy usually sleeps at ard 10+. Actually wat times he wakes up at nite depends on wat time his last feed is. I experimented these few days and realise if i feed him at ard 11.30pm onwards he will wake up at 6am. But if i feed him at 10+, then he will wake up at 4am. So I intend to give him his last feed at 11.30pm-12am, even when he is sleeping, I'll still feed him, i think this is wat they call dream feed.

Fruitee
I think this is a phase which babies will go thru. My son was like tat few weeks ago. Give him milk, he cry. Give him water, he's ok. But now he's fine liao.

Blessings
My son drinks around 4-5 oz of milk.
 
u all dun see ian so jumbo hor..actually he quite a small eater...he very jialat leh...at times 120ml milk oso cant finish...then 2 hrs later cry and wants milk..me damn pekcek at times...wanna spank his butt...haiz...OC and Misaryeo said ard this age...shld drink 150-180ml liao...if he can drink more and less frequent gd!!

cham ah..i think ian got schedule liao..but wrong one loh...last few nites ian drank ard 9 plus as last feed..then work up ard 430am for another feed...woke up ard 7 plus to hv morning feed...then last nite he drank ard 12 plus...then tot gd...can skip 4plus am feed...maybe wake up ard 6 plus 7am for morning feed..who knows....his alarm damn zhun...4 plus cry for milk...pengz...aiyo...how to adjust his alarm..???
 
Fruitee/blessings,

My friend was sharing with me that it could be due to the teat --- she's using Avent teat, realized that her bb is drinking less & less, changed the teat and it is fine now. Blessings, u still using NB teat? It could be too slow and hence very frustrating for ur bb to suck.

My bb got mood one, sometimes 2 oz (then need to feed very frequently), sometimes 4 oz in one go and then must top up within the hr. Then hor, can finish 4 oz in 5 mins, sometimes 2oz takes 30 mins. But most of the time, I latch on directly so dunno how much he drinks. Thot it's due to the teat so I try to change the teat to Avent (for 3m+) but he totally rejects anything that is silicon. Only want the NUK premium latex teat (NUK silicon teat also dun want).
 
dsii,

sama sama!! i also wishing boy boy can drink more & less frequently but he's not cooperative. Cannot force it down his throat right ?? And becos he doesn't take too much in one go, think he still cannot sleep through the night. Or he's too used to it (definitely once at around 3+ or 4+)...
 
lok
ya loh..think thats his so called schedule that really make me angry leh...im the mummy leh..i shld be the one fix the schedule mah...aiyo...now must follow his...buay tahan
 
blessings,

my bb also like that. babycenter says it's normal (they tend to look right 80% of the time).

mummies,

Those of u who let ur bb sleep on tummy, need some advice --- my bb has slight bb acne, can only sleep on his tummy during the day and especially likes to sleep on the right cheek. So hor, now his face is very red on the right cheek cos he sleeps on that side and then rub his face on the nappy cloth. The acne cannot heal cos of the friction. Anybody has a solution?
 
dsii,

at least this week, i get a break cos boy boy is staying at MIL's place. Sleeping through the night --- my fren tried this method, dunno whether it works for Ian: gradually reduce his early morning feed (like 3oz, then 2 oz, 1 oz, then 0.5 oz) over 2 weeks. Or some pple feed water instead of milk. I hv no chance to try yet, cos my MIL thinks it's very impt to feed bb when they cry early morning cos they need nutrients to grow...
 
lok
reduce his morning feeds as in the 1st feed or the whole daytime feed? y reduce? so that they will drink more next feed?
 
Lok/dsii
My mum gave him water to drag his time for feeds. AT first, my boy was like every 2hrs wan feed liao... quite hiong at night loh.. so my mum every 2hrs when he cry, give him some water and he fell asleep.. so drag to 4hrs liao.. increase the milk intake..
so now is like he get his feeds at 11.30pm, his next feeding time is around 4.30 or 5.30am.. siao siao one
 
dsii,

as in the one at 4+am. The theory is that babies are creatures of habit, so gradually they learn that there's no need to wake up for milk... It worked for my fren or it cld be pure coincidence that her bb learned to sleep thru at that time (2.5mth)
 
fruitee,

i hv a feeling that dsii and my problem is that our babies don't drink like the average (which shld be ~180ml), so cannot tahan through the nite.

dsii,

When he was 1 mth+, i asked my hubby to bottlefeed him 1st at 11+(so he gets used to bottle). Without fail ,he will take abt 2oz and then reject bottle. I see he's still hungry so latch him on and he drink so fast (like still super hungry). Then he managed to sleep thru 5 hrs. Thot he will stretch it longer but unfortunately, no improvement..
 
oh..really ah??? so now hor..ian drank ard 100ml-120ml..so now i just make 90ml lah...hehe...hope ian will be gd boy and follow my schedule loh..hehee
 
my boy is currently drinking 180ml, every 3.5 to 4 hours interval. I did not change his NB teat because he seems to be feeding fine at this moment...will monitor and will change accordingly when needed...hee hee
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I did not try to fit my boy to my schedule...I follow his schedule...I guess when babies are getting older and mature, their body system will change accordingly. But every babies are different, so we have to be patience lor...
 
re milk intake lesser
i asked PD, cos my bb drinking pattern very erratic. he said at ard this time, bb mature liao, their growth will slow down a bit, so dun get hungry so fast.
 
Hi Mommies,

Pls advise; My daughter is only drinking 80 ml and she drinks every two hours. Is that too little? She will sleep through from 12am - 5am. Tks.
 
blessings
my bb also favours the right side ley. now hor, his right side like flatter than the left. adjust his head to the left, he will turn it back himself, cannot do anything abt it.
 
Hi Hong,
I'm using HP video mah, of course blur lor....it's only 1M.

Hi Mummies,
My gal slept from 11pm to 12noon yesterday. Today, she slept from 8.45am to 3pm. Is tat too long? Should I be concern?
 
Hi Mummies,

Shining: Some of my colleagues know i expressed milk in the office, but not the male colleagues. Actually I don;'t see a need to let the colleagues know, unless the topic probe up. It is indeed abit embarrassing to let the male colleagues know about it, especially the younger ones who are not married. although wat we are doing has got nothign to be embarrassed about. If it is really a must to let them know, maybe you can get a female colleague who knows abt this and u trust to rely the message to them?

Blessing: my bb prefers the left! instead of the right. i suspect he might be a left handed, cos seems like he prefers to lift the left hand to his mouth!

OC: dun mentioned abt the ride!
 
wah.. so many babies seems to be sleeping quite long hrs... my boy no ley.. afternoon sleep barely 20mins.. wake up liao... faint loh..
 
My boy still wake up every 3 hrly but i am not the one who wake up. MIL is cos Ju is with her on the weekday. I only bring him back on weekend.

My boy was sleeping on his back instead of tummy. DUn like to sleep on tummy now.
 
my boy sleep very intermittently also, like sleep half hour wake up, then suck his drumsticks until tired fall asleep again. repeat itself until time for milk. his attention span also very short ley, flash cards barely 10 minutes, he look elsewhere liao, gimme boring look.
 
missmoon
my boy also flash cards show him.. simply not interested!! see also dun wanna see loh..
The 2 can gek pai go play kick ball liao..ahha
 
Hi Yenny,
My gal will also fidget in the middle of the night or early morning. As long she doesn't cry out, I'll not give her milk. Normally, she'll go back to sleep on her own again...
 
dsii
me here!

i read in a book that if bb dun drink enuf in d day, esp d last feed b4 sleep, they tend to wake up in d middle of d nite for milk cos hungry.

re: baby prefers to face right side
i managed to solve this problem by letting my bb sleep on bb pillow, those with a hollow in d middle, then she cant turn her face liao.
 
mummies, dunno why my BM supply suddenly drop? in fact for the pass few days i have been latching my boy on, as they say latching on will help increase supply. then last 3 days, i didn't latch him on but i did pump my usual 3X a day. anyone knows if exercising will decrease the supply? cos i track down my activities n the food i eat for the pass 3 days, nothing unusual, in fact only that i been to the gym and body abit aching...

hopefully this is only temporary.. i realise also although supply decrease, but the BM seems thicker.. why like that? anyone can help me?
 
my BM oso drop leh...last time 6 hrs interval can get abt 180ml or slightly more..but now...pump till nipple crack...just got max 140ml...cham ah!!!! how ah???
 
oc
but hor...last feed he oso cant finish leh...only drink abit always remain abt 20-30ml loh....headache..
 
dsii, misaryeo,

huh sori i cant help u on d decreased BM issue cos i only latch bb on to make her sleep or when she cranky.

maybe sometimes not enuf rest oso BM will drop?
my fren always say eat well, rest well n have plenty of fluids, she recommend to take fenugreek oso.
 
misaryeo,
maybe after latching on, the body dont recognise the pump's power.as the suckling of bb is much stronger then the breastpump. so maybe breast gotta re-adjust. Exercising also may cause you to lose more water thro yr perspiration ,need to up more water consumption, if not, BM thicker and lesser ..coz less water intake

Feeding: I latch my ger mnost of the time.Once a day, i'll give her EBM. Everyday, it is 70-80ml per feed. And she can last 3hrs-4hrs. those who saw my loudspeaker baby will know that her being a small drinker doesn;t mean small size.In fact, i don't follow the recommended feeding charts as they may not be as accurate, may not fit our asian babies etc. So I go with the flow.

dsii, now i pump after 3 hrs only have 60-70ml from both sides...sob.. last time was 100-120ml..
 
misaryeo, could it be because of those aches, so when u pump it becomes not so relaxing, then affect the supply?

dsii, i think mabbe cos the nipple cracked lor.. then pain.. then so cannot continue to pump more?

sigh.. i also duno.. my ss also dropping..cos my pumping frequency has dropped. then i dun pump at night...as in... those middle of the night times liao cos my elder gal is waking up every 3 hours for milk. sad case. but i dont really bother now liao.

missmoon, think my gals's head also flatter on one side. sigh. but not as jialat as my older gal. last time her head was really quite alot flatter on one side. then also when she can lift her head up high liao, her head will always be seh ngek to one side. so we did tt to her...

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ya i agree with Z-lia too, think kin is d expert here on BF

kin
your gal not d only loudspeaker dat day lah, mine oso, but really ah? your gal drinks so little but can last 3 to 4 hrs! so u dun latfch on demand is it?
 
Hi Misaryeo & Yenny,
Ya, my gal will fidget a bit but she did not wake up for milk. Even when her eyes big big, she also never cry for milk. She'll suck her fist then go back to sleep.

Today brought my gal to mum's plc. My mum was so shock my gal slept for so long. She even went in to check on my gal a few times to make sure she's breathing..haa..haa...
 
hi all,
ai yoh, pai seh you all,i no expert. just experienced. I went thro quite a bit while bfeeding my first girl(she was on FM for the 1st mth of her life due to ABO blood incompatilbility)After whic I went thru a lot to establish back a milk supply for her thro pumping,direct latch, trying al sorts of methds etc.
Eventually, breastfed her for almost 3yrs(direct), but only exclusively for coming 2 yrs.aftrwhich I mix with FM. I blame myself when i couldn't bf her for the first mth, so i really worked hard.
Now i also suffer from low Ms,a little depressed and stressedand now have stupid maid problem.

OC, yr girl also loudspeaker, i remember.I latch her on demand. Nowadays, her demand also drop. like not interested to suckle too. When I need to go out, or teach for a few hrs, I let my maid handle and so put on EBM for at most 2 feeds. That is how i observed her intake. Apart from that, direct latch on is 95%, whic is every2hrs. However, she gets distracted and doesn't drink a proper meal and within half hr, need to latch again......I prefer to latch on, builds bond and keep supply up.....
 
I went to visit my doc for a review on my slimming pills....lost about 2cm off my tummy & about 1.5kg overall(after taking water retention & fat burner pills for 1 wk). Quite happy wif the results cos my jeans already very loose around the waist, hips & thighs.

Wanted better results, so doc prescribe me another slimming pills which is more ex. He also wants me to exercise more & drink more water cos the fat burner pills will dehydrate my body. Can see my legs still got water retention, so will continue will the water retention pills for another week.

Sigh....no choice cos my sis's wedding is end of tis mth...no time already...
 
Kin
Wat kind of maid problem u facing?

YB,
Ur baby is really amazing, can go without milk for so long. in this case, is she taking enuf milk everyday?
Is it safe to take slimming pills? Any side effects?
 
Yenny,
long story.i have to be careful with her cause i leave her alone with my bb and girl quite often. will complain abt her later...

YB, now i remember it is you who went to the doc for slimming pills. Did the doc says it is safe to take while Bfeeding. From what i know, so far there is no slimming pill that is breastfeeding friendly, esp so if it has to be prescribed by doctor(much stronger).I think you look fine, for someone who gave birth recently. Is that the reason why your girl is having those pimples on her face. Coz those pimples look quite bad as in they don't heal well. Remember i was asking you abt them?want to PM me the names of those pills as well as the water retention one so i can check up for you??
Why not stop taking the pills for one day, and see if your girl will wake up instead of sleeping for so long...I a little concern.
 
YB,
Opps, A BIG Sorry...i remember you not Bfding becoz of thyroid is it...? cant remember liow. I PM you something. Ignore it ok..heh heh.
 


A quick post....Garrick is cranky...

Glad to hear that you guys love the brownies!
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Thanks YB and Yenny for the video clip and photos! Also thanks to dsii for organizing the gathering!

Schedule/ Routine - I have been reading that some of your bbs already got a routine liao...so envy! Furthermore, some even do not wake-up at nite for his/her feed...double envy! My boy still wakes-up at nite for his feed.

Milk Intake - My boy's milk intake does not seem to increase...dunno why? Guess will ask PD on Mon when he goes for his jab.
 

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