Gebbera, i find it scary cos' I heard from lots of mummies, the their bag burst, gushing out like fountain, in places that make them feel awkard.
Poppy, does your baby sleep a lot at day time? When I had my 1st one, we made it very obvious to bb when it's daytime and nighttime from the start, so that bb will be accustomed to it. After you put the baby down, perhaps you can try to put the clothes that you wore that day near her, so that she find it secure. Works for mine. HTH.