I also hv the same dilemma. So i tink i will include the "visitation hours" when sending out sms. Even now when I visit my frens, will usually ask if they are ok with guests b4 gg down..
I think some frens r like dat lor, mayb u jus make clear 2 them, they should b ok lar...
Like my frens, i mean i dunno bout ur frens lar, my frens noe i very straight forward, if i tell them like dis, it means like dis lor...
Kekeke, they always say I very fierce... so no choice, give in to me...
Better to get the float lor... my 1st one i didn't get to use it until my 3rd day, lucky my auntie pass to me lor... its painful...
that time i sit on the chair, buttock jus touch d chair onli, within spilt second i stand up liao...
michelle, looks like some get it some still dun lor.. i am the very stern kind.. just dun wanna everytime make things so ugly.. sigh.. i am not goign to tell anyone when i going to delivery.. will only sms them when i ready for guests.. i already warned my husband.. if anyone were to come without my knowledge, i'll just stay in the room wif black face..
i think i better go get the float.. does mothercare sell that?
Oh, actually i dunno wer to get... bcoz i got it from my auntie last time, haha, her one look like tyre type... Anyway, i try to check out, i will keep u all updated...
Jus call my mum, she say she will check it out n let me noe, den i will let u all noe...
I opposite from you gals. My friends all quite zi dong one....will ask before they come. I am more worried about my in laws. they super super gan cheong type. scared we tell them when i am admitted that they will rush down to hospital and wait there for me to deliver or start calling hb every few mins....
decided that we will call them only after i have delivered. is it very bad? but i don;t want to bugged by them when i am in labour.....
misaryeo,
i understand how u feel. If u dun want ur frd to come over then be firmed. I believe they will understand.
PM,
u dun think too much cos thinking and worrying too much will lead to depression. If u are tired then let other helping u to look after the baby. I have depression after i give birth to my gal, funny thing is i know i am in depression.
Try not to be hard for urself, no MS then give FM. It is ok to give FM, that is wat the FM are for. U just give ur bb wat ever BM u can get.
Once the bb is out, is not abt just MS. alot of time u will have to guess wat the bb are crying for. Alot of guessing, trial and error to do.
julo4, i also not goign to call them till i delivered leh.. cos again i sure pek chek when they call and check every hr... and make me stress lor if labour very long...adn scare they cannot sleep if they know i in hospital.. i dun wanna give them unnecessary stress also
my hubby is opposite, he think shld inform them cos they sure happy as will see their godson soon..
MY, ya lor. I also worry that they too excited to sleep. same for my parents also. I told them that if in the middle of the night then I will sms my bro then he only tell them in the morning. anyway no point they come down and wait, also dunno wait how long....make me stress only....
Hubby is in on the plan. Cos he will be the one handling the calls. think he going to swtich off the phone till I deliver...hahaha
depend on his projects lor, bcoz he in marine line...
Lately, he very tied up with work, dunno wat time he will finish... sometimes see him for a few hours onli...
yes.. i quite when i found out i pregnant that night... abt 5 or 6 weeks preg.. cos scare suffocate bb inside.. and happen to see a pregnant woman smoke in public.. very ugly lor.. so just stop.. nowadays got craving..ahahah.. think going to delivery liao.. so cravign comes back.. dunno will pick up again or not.. hope not. cos veryhard to quit
Even if u wash ur hands and etc after a smoke, the bad stuffs still lingers on ur clothes and skin, bad for baby. Very easy triggers asthmas and bronchitis problems..
yah.. i think hubby very impt.. although he dun smoke at home now.. buti know he smoke when he at work.. although he say he will quit wif me.. i now very hard one lor..so i threatened him, say if he smoke in his work place, then i'll go back smoke also when i go back work..ahahah
The last time after I had my 2nd child, I was so tired looking after 2 and after a couple of months, I started smoking back...
I practically looked like a zombie cause I can't sleep in the day and baby wakes up many times at night so I only slept like less than 4 hrs interupted sleep everyday... so took breaks outside coridoor and smoked... Sigh