(2006/07) JULY 2006 MTB

Dsii,
Wah! I'm really impressed wit IZ lor..so guai & 'dong shi'. Knows mummy & didi is tired so ask them to go hm. Tell him auntie YB gonna give him a big hug when I see him next time.
 


EP,
Thanks for the tip. Will involve him slowly. Now he wants to play with her limbs and can't control his strength yet... so have to fend off first.

YES! mummies with 1 kid FASTER do what you want first before #2 comes!

OC,
Can't imagine Gil so fierce. She always so demure when I see her. Hope she is better already!

Zita,
Thanks! You get plenty of rest. Pray that you will recover fast!

YB,
Also cannot imagine Kay screaming the way Emma does. Kay also so softspoken. Hmm...maybe next time Emma will be soft spoken too....hahaha =P

MY,
Sorry, dun mean to scare you. But you got your MIL helping right? But be mentally prepared the first two weeks will be tough coz everyone is adjusting. Got to make time for E coz he will feel the impact the most, so #2 won't get as much attention as our #1 used to get. Wish I can clone myself sometimes....

Dsii,
Good thing Iz no need op. He is so sensible!!!!! I will be scared stiff in his shoes even at my age! I think you can request for the same doc to follow thru with your following appt. Just that if he is more snr then got to pay more.

PM,
Dun think at their age they know they are lying. K does it sometimes too....he just been cheeky. K is a vegetarian - must have veg at every meal. can dun eat meat. Loves fruits too. Sometimes we wonder if he is our son...coz hb and I more to the meat eater side.
 
Dsii, ur Issac very kuai lor... all ur hardwork is worth leh...

PM, I also don't think Emerson is lying. Its just the lack of words to help him express himself better. Good that u corrected him on the spot
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Jul,
Haha..so far nobody says Kay is softspoken & demure leh. Hmm..mayb long long time ago when she was still very young & dunno how to defend herself. Now after all the 'training' from Ian, E, playgroup kids, her cousins etc etc, she's becoming very defensive liao. Now, she'll even provoke my niece & pick up fights over toys/dvds.

Yes, Kay used to scream & cry alot when she was a newbornI Did I mention she ever screamed & cried hysterically until the whole of Plaza Sing can hear her & her echos. I just pretended nothing was wrong & continued shopping. Haha. But bypassers kept asking me wat's wrong & I told them I dunno. But thinking back, now I know why..cos Kay was having colic then & I didn't realised until later.
 
Jul,
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stress leh... MIL and SIL will help for 1.5mths then I'll be solo lor.

As the room they are sleeping in is quite small, so I can't have any of my kid to sleep with them. So all 4 of us (me, hubby, E and meimei) will be sleeping in the same room. So I already anticipated alot of chaos on the first few days or maybe week. Still no matter how I anticipate the chaos.. sure will feel stress one.. somemore is MIL helping, not my own mom... sure got diff in handling stuff. haizzz...
 
MY, We also slept together (the 4 of us) in the same room when Char arrived..chaotic man..cos Cel will be woke up by Char's crying for milk..got to pacify both to sleep.. and bef u hit the pillow, another round of BFing again..and the whole cycle repeat till day break..but dun worry lah, the elder one will get use to the "music" & back to the routine sleep after 1-2 weeks
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yah lor.. that's what i thought.. let the elder one get use to the "music" hahaa.. I just wish my mil will not walk into the room and try to "manage" and make me irritated.
 
MY,
I agree with KLCC. The older one will adjust soon. It may be hard at 1st month but it will get better. The older one will get use to the bb crying and u will be amazed he will continue sleeping. hahaha..

Stime the elder one may kpo, wake up and check on the bb, after that went back to sleep again.

Everything is tough at 1st, believe that it will get better.

Dsii,
I ever ask the doctor why wrong with Julian. They give me possiblities only, sometime u know u wldnt get an answer there is alot of ????

Isaac really a very sensible n brave boy. His is a big breakfast fan. hahaha..
 
MY,
I agree with KLCC. The older one will adjust soon. It may be hard at 1st month but it will get better. The older one will get use to the bb crying and u will be amazed he will continue sleeping. hahaha..

Stime the elder one may kpo, wake up and check on the bb, after that went back to sleep again.

Everything is tough at 1st, believe that it will get better.

Dsii,
I ever ask the doctor why wrong with Julian. They give me possiblities only, sometime u know u wldnt get an answer there is alot of ????

Isaac really a very sensible n brave boy. He is a big breakfast fan. hahaha..
 
mummies
thks for the concern..and IZ sure will be damn happy n haolian if he knows the compliments he is getting from all of u leh..wahahaha....

he is sensible at times..but i hope he is sensible all times..wahhaha....after he reached home...he is a terrrible monkey again...wah piang...i kept asking him..u damn jialat leh...still jump upn down..u wanna op issit??? how to healif u are not resting ur arms..or urself...
 
Ya, I agree #1 will adjust to the music of #2. LIke my nephew & niece..they can slp thru any commotion. Be it crying, screaming, jumping on the same bed, they still sleep thru.
 
jul,
maybe can ask K smell Emma's hand n feet.. tell them they are sooo cute!! till now.. josh sumtimes take jedd's smelly feet to smell (when jedd is sleeping. if he awake, he will give josh a big kick!)
4 of use also sleep together!! was sooo squeeesy!! josh cannot hear jedd's screams n yells..
sooo envious... the little new borns are all popping out..
so many pros to jus stop at 2kids.. but i like the nursing n growing up stages in 0-24mths.. after that i want to give them away!
 
ep,

I wanted to carry the NB. I missed this stage so much now especially seeing mummy popping. I asked my hubby again leh. He said if i really want then wait till Julian is 5. I will be 35 then!

Dsii,
he is too happy to be home. hahaha..
 
EP, ha...looks like yr 2 boys really driving u nuts..kekeke..

Hong, at least have not reached the 36 mark when Julian reached 5 ..u still young lah, so can activate #3 project in 2 years time
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dsii, if yr IZ dun jump abt, u will be paranoid whether he is ok ba..ha...boys r always boy..even the gers now are v monkey like mine :p
 
MY,
Can understand....I get irritated with my own mum...let alone my MIL. my mum keep nagging me about all the confinement practices that I don't follow...I already stress enough liao and her nagging is not helping...
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Think by 1.5mths you shld have some routine going by then and things will be better. Just hang in there and keep preping E for his meimei.

EP, Hong,
Jia You!!!! hehe =P I forgot how small K was last time...and being able to carry them on one hand and all the cute little sounds they make.
Was telling hb during labour that if the pain gets real bad (coz my epi was not distributed properly so I felt some pain), I am stopping! Then he grin and said, he'll ask me again in 1 yrs time...*faintz*
 
liverpool - wah lau.. this yr NDP just over not even 1week, u got news abt next yr one already! hahhaha :p

all the NBs talk really bring back old memories.
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MT not next yr lah, is the rally this weekend....going to give more benefit for giving birth mah.

Ethel...Try for a gal, is a diff kinda of experience....wahahaha

Jul...planning for 3rd har?

Hong...35yrs old still ok mah.

Lok..y yr maid food poisioning? Then u speak mandarin with yr maid har? Wow she can do cooking liao..that fast. I tink when mine come will be duck to chicken talk. I dont even know a single word of malay.

Amanda...y G going sun morning? Will miss U all.
 
Jul,

Ask your hubby for help. I remember last time when my Mum keep nagging, I tell my Mum this, "Mum, if you keep nagging Amanda,if she got post-natal sydrome, carry the kids and jump down from the window. You will have no DIL and grandson. So don't talk about how she will suffer in future if she don't listen etc,etc. So your choice." After that she just nag and mumble to herself. Over time, she just keep quiet.
 
hi lala/ zita

we will miss u all too but gota go sun class as hubby might need to work on sat and also the kids have another class to go at 6pm

so no choice loh
 
Jul, Liverpool,
the old pple are just over-concerned over us. My mum did the samething to me when my MIL did the confinement for me. I said I cannot chose cos she is not the one doing it for me. When my mum did it for me when I have Julian. She didnt follow thru-out anymore. haha...

I said it is too tired for her to follow everything and some practise have no logic. From no bathing till I bath everyday. My MIL ever told me to go ahead and bath. She said "Go and bath, I wldnt tell your mum." hahaha..

Zita, KLCC,
OK, i didnt know if my MIL still want to take care for us. By then she will be very carefree althot still look after my kids but will not be as busy as looking after a baby. When I went thru the whole cycle again, my hubby, my IL will have to go thru with me.

There may be possiblities that my BIL has married and having a child. She may want to help him instead. Unless my hubby allow me to be a homemaker lah.

JUL,
u mean ur hubby wants more! kudo to both of u.
Heh I come over and lighten ur load for a while lah. Let me satisfy my craving. hahaha..
 
hong
hahaha....u oso got craving carrying bb ah??? dun snatch with me hor...u go diff day lah..wahahha..so jul..which day is gd for u? thurs or fri can? cos isaac bo sch these 2 days then i dun hv to rush back to pick himup..if not then 2 weeks later..1 week sch holiday...
 
i dun mind #3.. But even when planning for holiday,.. everything is a family of 4.. 2 adults 2 child.. then my 3rd kid bo hua.. even my free tix also for 2 kids.. i will see wat package the gah men offer next yr hahah...
 
Haha..talking abt confinement really bring back old times..I still remember my mil forbid me to shower even though I got a confinement nanny. Wat the heck, I still shower lor..twice a day,even at night. I even shower on the 2nd day of my hosp day.

Then soon after mil got 'feng mo' & chinese physician told her have to be 'mini confinement'. Cannot wash showers, cannot touch water etc. Then mil keep complaining..say sg weather so hot, how can not shower..So I bluntantly told her, now then u know how hard I was during my confinement lor...then MIL just diam diam.

Last wkend, we were talking abt how hard it is to raise a kid in sg, then I said I abit regret having kid in the 1st plc lor. Then mil so shocked & started nagging...how can dun wanna have kid..married must have kids...must have more then 1 so won't be so lonely etc etc. Sigh.
 
zita,

My maid kena food poisoning cos my MIL told her to cook more for dinner and then heat up using the rice cooker for lunch the next day. She blur blur kept the food overnight in the rice cooker (rather than fridge)... No lah, I speak English to her. Translate on behalf of my MIL when they cannot understand each other.
 
Dsii

of cos, zita misses us esp Gerrard as he is one of the "yan dao' boy in class....

Btw, i misses the swimming gathering for the kids....

thinking of holding another one next sun...

dsii , help me arrange can?
 
Zita

u must take care. u eat more than wont get sick so easily

lala

yap, another 3 lesson to finish term 3. I started Gerrard and Gerrain on a new class, little neutro tree

Think the class quite fun, and it's every sat 6pm
 
YB,

hahaha you are very straight forward to your mil hor! hahaha yeah.. they keep saying dun bathe dun bathe but so hot how not to bathe? The last time the confinement nanny even ask me to wear cardigan in the hse when we didnt even switch on the aircon! OMG.... can die! I just ignore and do what pleases myself! Y suffer... i shld be enjoying my confinement... kekeke
 
amanda
open hse? gathering??? no need arrange lah..hahaha..just state date n time...then see wats the response..hehehe .... ya ur pool quite funz..and hor that day i forgot abt the sun..hahaha..ian got sun burnt on the neck and shoulder..wahahahaha
 
Amanda,
pool gathering. Can i join?

Dsii,
u want to hold on to the bb all the time meh. Pass ard lah. Later Emma wanted to be carried all the time then can employ u to be the "carrier" liao.

ep,
Now we bring the kid to holiday, they only share bed with us. Imagine 3. hahaha..
I think my hubby scare after I have the 3rd one, I will ask for the fourth.
 
ylc,
Haha..ya, I'm quite blunt to my mil de. I think she's used to it liao..cos both her daughters also very straight forward kind. Only my hb is those 'guai guai' type. Typical 'salesman talk'.
 
Typo from my wife.

Should be as following:

Date: 24 Aug 2008
Time: 1700 hrs.

I think 5pm should be just right, the water is not so cold then. At the same time, after the swim, its about time for dinner cum chit chat session around the poolside.
 
liverpool/Amanda - ooh u also going for TRIO huh. At bugis?

pool gathering - sooo nice... hope to able to join but tat evening hv FIL bday dinner.
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hong
i didnt like my pregnancy part cos kenna bed rest 6mths!!! silly jedd can keep still untill i bleed alot in 2nd trimester.. TSK TSK...:S
my confinement was ok.. bathe and wash hair everyday, sleep in aircon, eat everything, sleep n breast feed.. wahhhh.. only thing always feel sooo HOT!! maybe when i m 60, i will suffer headaches n backaches.. hahah

mtdt
will go SK sports ct to check it out tmrw... !!
 
Hi MTDT

Yap, i attending the one at Bugia

Class is quite fun, but becos it's 1 hr class, the teacher like have so many things to cover so its a bit rush

aiyoh... u cant come for the gathering....? u wana help me organise another sun so then u can come?
 
MT,
The children's slide is suitable for our tots? Seems more suitable for older kids leh...$1 entrance fee arh?

Amanda/liverpool,
Would LOVE to join in the swim gathering (if I'm invited :p) but Kay has developed slight cough & runny nose now...hope she'll recover in time.
 
Mummies,
Just did up a reading corner for Kay..hopefully can encourage her to read more often. As previously, all the books & puzzles are stored in drawers & boxes..Kay hardly touches them unless I took them out.

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Mummies,
Btw, I'm clearing BN with box Pigeon wide neck SMALL btls. Got 6 to let go. Selling at $7. Current retail price is $8+. Let me know if u r keen.
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YB, it's so comfortable & cosy, suitable for mummies chit-chatting session too... especially the doreamon... heehee...
 


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